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Men..why..why do you refuse sex....

Gymgurl

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when you know you love it and could hit it when ever you wanted...and you don't..okay lets rephrase this.......she is HOT...you LOVE being with her...you just seem to be busy..... :worried:
 
because they suck
and when a man doenst want sex, it makes us women feel insecure
 
Gymgurl said:
when you know you love it and could hit it when ever you wanted...and you don't..okay lets rephrase this.......she is HOT...you LOVE being with her...you just seem to be busy..... :worried:
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Let me make a simple analogy. Kid gets a new bike, rides it everyday. Eventually gets tired of it. When a neighbor asks to ride it and seems to be having fun, the kid wants to ride his bike again.

Now, back to your situation. You are the bike, your man is the kid.

Now you just need a neighbor...
 
SoKlueles said:
because they suck
and when a man doenst want sex, it makes us women feel insecure
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and vice a versa. We should all be having constant sex and there would be NO insecurity. Hallelujah! We've found the answer. Sex baby, it's the cure all. I'm feeling a little insecure right now, anybody up for a roll in the hay.
 
SoKlueles said:
because they suck
and when a man doenst want sex, it makes us women feel insecure
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When the man wants it, & the woman doesn't (which is waaaaaaaaaaaaay more likely) we're supposed to feel..................?
Sometimes I don't want sex because I know it's not gonna be good. RANT RANT RANTIt's not worth all the drama, so I say no, I'm too tired. Then the next 3 times i show any interest, she says she's too tired, just for spite.
Really, men cannot win at this.
 
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Gymgurl said:
Wrong word....lol how about a new toy?? Boy toy
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Yeah, I guess bike is a bad analogy, because when I'm done with it the tires would be flat and the chain all worn out from my riding it so hard.
 
Gymgurl said:
when you know you love it and could hit it when ever you wanted...and you don't..okay lets rephrase this.......she is HOT...you LOVE being with her...you just seem to be busy..... :worried:
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It is very apparent you have never met me :heart: from reading your post I clearly see what you need. You need to be fucked down regularly to the point of exhaustion, dehydration and near cardiac arrest :p when can we get together???
 
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Ya know aside from it being a cliche, I really am tired a lot of the time. Mainly due to so much stress the last few years. Sometimes it's just too much work when I'd much rather just lay there and go to sleep.
 
I have definitely grown tired of fucking too often. Ya gotta make us miss it once in a while.
 
REFUSE? HELL NO. Never happen, unless she is butt ugly or something, and I just ain't drunk enough.

I just find that under some circumstances my desire to attack my significant just ain't there. She ain't offerin so I just leave it be. BUT, should she offer, bring it on baby. :evil: :chomp:

Well, I am guilty of wanting to complete whatever it is I be doing at the time. That seems to be a turn off for her so I get shut out afterward. :(
 
Men are genetically programmed to spread their seed, which is in direct opposition of the notion of spending the rest of your life in a monogomous relationship. The initial, intense sexual energy can drop off -- sometimes dramatically.

So is all hope lost for monogomy? Most definately not. You just have to "trick" your male partner's built-in evolutionary urges. Dress-up, roleplay, spontenaity, sex in strange/dangerous locations, different positions, different techniques... all these things send low-level signals that say "hey, this is different! You've got some seed to spread!"

Oh, and also remember that men's egos toward sex are fragile. A man asking for sex can sometimes (but definately not always) be seen by them as a referrendum on how you feel about the guy. As simple and emotionally dim-witted as we may seem, a lackluster response to one of our sexual advances can sometimes ding our egos! Of course you can always say "not tonight", just be delicate with it. Think of it as how you want us to respond when you say "do these pants make my butt look too big?" :)
 
well, to be honest, sometimes guys get spoiled or used to certain things. and when i don't get that anymore, plain ole' crackers don't do the job. i lived with a house full of strippers for some time and had dated those mysterious, crazy bitches exclusively for almost 10 years. i got used to chicks wearing spike heels and having a sex swing in the bedroom that stayed up year round. then, when i started dating librarians and the like, it was hard to go back to missionary position with all of the eye contact and that. some girls don't like to be spanked and called a slutty bitch while getting railed doggie style. my name is HT and this was my perspective......
 
U know what men say this.. but give them a chick that has a higher sex drive than them and things change..
 
People always say guys have a higher sex drive. in my social circle for some reason its the girls trying to get their fix with a guy that cant be bothered as much.

the only time when I outlust my gf is the early morning. she has to put herself to it if she wants to get horny then
 
I dunno. But, I'm with H. Normally, its the other way around and the woman is making the man feel insecure...
 
Maybe i'm not that attracted to her or her breath stinks or she stinks down there. those 3 are libido killers.
 
And Longhorn88 nailed it. Familiarity breeds boredom. A man wasn't meant to be with 1 woman sexually. That's something as a society we have created in order to survive.
 
"NEVER" Can't get enough. My gf always gets mad at me. She's the one that always says no. Bur yet when we are out somewhere, she hangs on my arm and get pissed if a chick looks at me. lol
 
LOL....or the moment you say no or ignore them for awhile they are all over you again what is up with that...I think you men lose contol of your emotions during sex and can't handle it some times....oh let the flaming for this one begin lol
 
Gymgurl said:
LOL....or the moment you say no or ignore them for awhile they are all over you again what is up with that...I think you men lose contol of your emotions during sex and can't handle it some times....oh let the flaming for this one begin lol
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I let go of mine intentionally. I'm not afraid of looking silly in bed. I always fuck like it's the last time I'll ever get any.
 
Dial_tone said:
I let go of mine intentionally. I'm not afraid of looking silly in bed. I always fuck like it's the last time I'll ever get any.
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I guess that's one of the advantages/disadvantages of marriage. You have a mortgage on the pussy instead of just renting it for a little while. :)
 
Gymgurl said:
well yes I might want to lol
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I'll see what I can put together.

I'm thinking 12 city tour, $50 admission to watch, $200 to participate (don't worry, 30 man maximum), and everything videotaped for DVD release. George can advertise it on EF with one of those annoying banners and PM spam.

cool.
 
Mavafanculo said:
I'll see what I can put together.

I'm thinking 12 city tour, $50 admission to watch, $200 to participate (don't worry, 30 man maximum), and everything videotaped for DVD release. George can advertise it on EF with one of those annoying banners and PM spam.

cool.
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Why do I like your sense of humor lol :heart:
 
I never turn it down . . .

there is nothing more that I would like than to spend hours non-stop pleasuring a woman. Especially being that I've never experienced the joy of giving a woman an orgasm. I don't care if she isn't in the same room as my dick I just want to lick that pussy dry! blablablablabhablabhrrrrblarrr lplplp slurp slurp
 
cyrex said:
there is nothing more that I would like than to spend hours non-stop pleasuring a woman. Especially being that I've never experienced the joy of giving a woman an orgasm. I don't care if she isn't in the same room as my dick I just want to lick that pussy dry! blablablablabhablabhrrrrblarrr lplplp slurp slurp
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I have never turned down a piece of ass. Never, ever, ever, ever. Even if I'm tired and shes in the mood I just tell her to get on top and do all the work.
 
there is a deference ..men want to get off ..Women want to get off yes but they want everything else as well ..sign me up for any no strings gettn down and dirty ....but once its over ..let me go ..eat, take a shower, roll over and sleep ...don’t ruin it ..and I would be more than happy to follow the same rules …before you say anything yes both parties should get there’s if you can provide don’t ride
 
Gymgurl said:
when you know you love it and could hit it when ever you wanted...and you don't..okay lets rephrase this.......she is HOT...you LOVE being with her...you just seem to be busy..... :worried:
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Cause the 18 year old at the bakery is giving me some....
 
I had that happen to me a few times when I was married, of course my drive was insane and I wanted it 4 or more times a day sometimes.
 
Erzulie said:
I had that happen to me a few times when I was married, of course my drive was insane and I wanted it 4 or more times a day sometimes.
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I'm like that to....when I train it is even worse! :worried:
 
You must have fucked a lot of fat chicks then :worried:

ryan04 said:
I have never turned down a piece of ass. Never, ever, ever, ever. Even if I'm tired and shes in the mood I just tell her to get on top and do all the work.
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I turn down sex all the time
its got to be on my terms
and I really dont have a huge sex drive for the friday night run through type of sex
now if I have a slut who really will get kinky...thats a diff story.
 
If my woman had been mean or bitchy (unprovoked) with me during the day or she maxed our credit card without telling me and she was trying to use sex to get me to forget how poorly she treated me or how much money she spent without even telling me about it, I probably would refuse. She should take responsibilty, show some respect for me and demontsrate some genuine remorse first.

I just don't think sex should be used for manipulation like that, and I would venture to say that women lose respect for you as a man if all they have to do is offer sex to get you to forgive and forget the way they have treated you. Hey maybe I should try what the ladies do-if they are real mean or bitchy and/or spends alot of money without at least informing me, I would make her sleep on the couch.

I wonder if any of the EF ladies have had something like this(a night on the couch not at their choosing) happen to them and why?
 
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5150guy said:
I wonder if any of the EF ladies have had something like this(a night on the couch not at their choosing) happen to them and why?
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I have been married twice and no, I cant say this ever happened to me. But then again I have never "used" sex. My sex is not a commodity. It is a gift.
 
Gymgurl said:
when you know you love it and could hit it when ever you wanted...and you don't..okay lets rephrase this.......she is HOT...you LOVE being with her...you just seem to be busy..... :worried:
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Fuck that!! I've learned to give it up everytime my wife asks for it and I do whatever she wants. That way, when I want it.......I get it.....anyway I want.
 
Hm, i did this to a gf of mine. She was in love with me, i wasnt in her. She wanted sex, i couldnt do it because i felt i would be leading her on. She got pissed, undressed, and played with hersef infront of me. Arent we allowed to say no? lol
 
Gymgurl said:
Fine....yes you are allowed to say no....but does that really ever happen???
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lol, i tell my wife no A LOT.

maybe its because she gets horny as fuck around 11/12pm... after ive been up all day since 5am and we've had dinner and smoked about 4-5 fuckin blunts lol.

Sorry honey, but if you wanted to fuck me you shoulda tried to jump me before I was so high I couldnt even find my own cock, and before I had to get up and go to work in 5 hours. Sorry, not gonna happen!

We're so opposite. She gets horny as hell late at night, and im ready to fuck anything that moves first thing in the mornin :chomp: :evil: :chomp:
 
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