MEN: do you trust bi-sexual women?

[Sinistar]

i hear alot of stuff about bi women on here. i was just wondering if the men on here thought/think they could trust a bi female?

personally, i think there whole purpose is to be used sexually till they go all the way around to leg licking lezzie.

more of my thoughts later. what are yours?

 

[Warik]

Of course not.

-Warik

 

[Nathan]

It depends on the person. I have dated at least two bi-sexual women in my short time on this Earth. I felt uncomfortable most of the time to be honest. One of them was particularly bad at asking me if I thought certain women were hot, obviously because she was attracted to them. Freaked me out and i had no idea how to respond. I don't think I'm an orgy kind of guy and she was obviously into it. I shouldn't knock it until I try it, sure but still. I dumped her for other reasons before it came to that, namely she annoyed the fuck out of me. So yeah, her I never truted not that I cared, but others I suppose in theory it's possible.

 

[2Thick]

You are assuming that I would trust a straight woman.

 

[BigRedCat]

Not trust her why? Because she likes chicks like you do? I have never had a problem with my girl looking at hot chicks just like I do.

 

[TC2]

You are assuming that I would trust a straight woman.

Extremely good point.

 

[TheStromba]

My wife is bi.

We have been together 19 years.

Trust is a matter of character, not sexuality.

 

[jerkbox]

my ex girl thought she was bi........god she was a dumb bitch.

 

[gwl9dta4]

my ex girl thought she was bi........god she was a dumb bitch.

LOL!

 

[Sinistar]

rotflmao

2thick man i dont know what the fuck i was thinking about.

 

[The Whole F/N Show]

No offense to anyone but I have dated 5 or 6 bi women and would never date atempt to date one seriously again. Each of my experiences with bi women have involved too much craziness and drama for my liking.

 

[Citruscide]

You are assuming that I would trust a straight woman.

BOO-YAH!!!! You get karma bootles when I can hit again.

I have straight women low on my trust list... but I have bisexual women even LOWER... having dated a couple... I find it rediculous how having sexual relations and initmate contact with another woman would be considered "not cheating"....

If that's the case, then I could go fuck other women to... no??? Ohh... that's right... the irrational double standard comes into play.

C-ditty

 

[Sinistar]

i get a warm feeling with all this hate.

heres another thing about switch-hitters: if you wont allow them to indulge, whether they want you in it or by themselves, they will go out and get it anyhow. theres no dealing with them.

and they think they are gods gift to men, dont you know. give me a break. like being an evolutionary freak is a badge to be worn with honor. lmao.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

my girls bi,I find it sexy.

 

[Citruscide]

Re: i get a warm feeling with all this hate.

heres another thing about switch-hitters: if you wont allow them to indulge, whether they want you in it or by themselves, they will go out and get it anyhow. theres no dealing with them.

and they think they are gods gift to men, dont you know. give me a break. like being an evolutionary freak is a badge to be worn with honor. lmao.

The biggest problem I have faced, is when you tell them it bothers you if they would "hook up" with females while you were dating them... it is like, you are telling them they can't wear sexy clothes or something rediculous.. .because "it's just women" they say "You can make out with MEN if yo uwant..." sorry... but if she makes out and fucks women, so should I...

But guess what, I don't want that in my relationship... nor the thought of it occuring... so I would just steer clear.

C-ditty

 

[Sinistar]

bump this bitch

so is the concencus that these women arent any good long term?

 

[machaveli]

You are assuming that I would trust a straight woman.

tru.....the girl i'm seeing is bisexual. she had a three year relationship. i saw a pic of that chick and boy she was fine. anyways, 2thick nailed it, i dont trust any woman, straight or bi

 

[p0ink]

fuck no. any woman that say she's 'bi' screams emotional baggage and other related problems.

 

[PolishHammer1977]

No way jose'. Not a chance in hell. I dated one a while back. Yes, it was fun for all the sex and enjoyment but in the end, just like C says, double standards. Mad bullshit. I learn to leave those women alone and the guys that want to go after them, good luck.

 

[BigRedCat]

You guys are funny. You guys hate women dont you? They are all evil eh? Do you guys get laid at all? Just with Ho's or what? What is acceptable, a virgin?

I guess Stromba and I are the only ones that like bi women and dont have trust problems. Oh and by the way, I just had a threesome with my girl and another hottie over X-mas. I fucked them both about 10 times. So there! I have my cake and eat it too. You just need to find an intelligent(I know its hard to find) woman that understands the double standard. Ask Stromba, he has been married a long time and no problems in this area. Not all women are ruthless whore's you know. Maybe look outside the strip clubs for a girlfriend eh? haha.

I swear the way some of you talk, I wonder if you've ever had a girlfriend.

I think it comes down to how secure you are yourself. If your always insecure about her looking at women or like the drivel Supernav was talking about then you might freak out. Its not for everyone.

 

[p0ink]

You guys are funny. You guys hate women dont you? They are all evil eh? Do you guys get laid at all? Just with Ho's or what? What is acceptable, a virgin?

i would have an easier time trusting a child molester with a herd of children, than i would trusting any girl i date. they, honestly, have been that fucking evil.

but even though i cant stand the overwhelming majority of women, i did get laid jan 3rd.

 

[The Whole F/N Show]

Re: Re: i get a warm feeling with all this hate.

they say "You can make out with MEN if yo uwant..." sorry... but if she makes out and fucks women, so should I...

But guess what, I don't want that in my relationship... nor the thought of it occuring... so I would just steer clear.

C-ditty

and that's bullshit too. I don't think any bi women dating a straight guy would be feeling it if her man told her he had sex with some dude last night.

 

[BigRedCat]

Guys,guys guys- if you go out there with the attitude that all women are evil then no wonder you are not in relationships. Women can smell that attitude. Sometimes it looks like confidence at first but its obvious nonetheless. You can be careful without thinking women are only out to screw you over. Maybe your looking to hook up with the wrong kind of women. Women by nature are kind, despite our societies influence on them to be independant and whatnot.

I have a wonderful relationship(as I'm sure Stromba does as well)- my girl likes girls too but its not like she lusts after them of something. It is simply an option if we BOTH feel like it from time to time. We dont do it often but once in awhile its fun. Its that simple. To her, there is no replacement for my almight dick. There is no secret motive like she wants to hook up secretly with all kinds of chicks. Its just not necessary. The rule is: if your interested in other chicks it has to be done with each other- simple enough. If you are as good in bed as you think you are then you dont have to worry about your girl wanting girls more than you. Know what I mean?

Now, you dont want to "settle down" with a bi-stripper who is known for doing 2-3 chicks a week but that is obvious isn't it? Not all bi girls are sluts. You guys could be missing out on allot of good women by having such a bad opinion of them.

 

[Citruscide]

Re: Re: Re: i get a warm feeling with all this hate.

and that's bullshit too. I don't think any bi women dating a straight guy would be feeling it if her man told her he had sex with some dude last night.

I don't think so either... but I had a woman tell me that "If it bothers you that I want to be with women... then go be with men... " I'm like... "No... you are with WOMEN... I will go be with WOMEN" --- to me... if you are with ANYONE else in a relationship... it's bogus... it's not NOT cheating if you are with the same sex....

C-ditty

 

[Citruscide]

Guys,guys guys- if you go out there with the attitude that all women are evil then no wonder you are not in relationships. Women can smell that attitude. Sometimes it looks like confidence at first but its obvious nonetheless. You can be careful without thinking women are only out to screw you over. Maybe your looking to hook up with the wrong kind of women. Women by nature are kind, despite our societies influence on them to be independant and whatnot.

I have a wonderful relationship(as I'm sure Stromba does as well)- my girl likes girls too but its not like she lusts after them of something. It is simply an option if we BOTH feel like it from time to time. We dont do it often but once in awhile its fun. Its that simple. To her, there is no replacement for my almight dick. There is no secret motive like she wants to hook up secretly with all kinds of chicks. Its just not necessary. The rule is: if your interested in other chicks it has to be done with each other- simple enough. If you are as good in bed as you think you are then you dont have to worry about your girl wanting girls more than you. Know what I mean?

Now, you dont want to "settle down" with a bi-stripper who is known for doing 2-3 chicks a week but that is obvious isn't it? Not all bi girls are sluts. You guys could be missing out on allot of good women by having such a bad opinion of them.

Dude... I don't think I'll miss a GOOD girl if she comes my way... I don't approach women and say "Hi, how are you you bitch... doing well... good... I'll bet you are after you shit on someone's heart!!!"

I give everybody a decent shot out of the blocks... I know that I do not open up like I used to, as quickly, but there isn't anything wrong with that... everybody has their own comfortability level...

The main thing to remember, especially about what I have TRIED to say in the past, is that yes... I know men are bad too... but I don't have to DEAL with dating men... this is why I focus on women... and how to avoid the bad apples... when I hear "certain" things... it is a red flag for me... when I hear "I really want to see you, but I need my independance too" -- Red Flag.... if I hear "I am a bisexual" -- RED FLAG... she may be a good girl... but i choose who Iwant to date and what drama I want to put up with.... that is just drama I don't feel I need to deal with... not now... not ever...

C-ditty

 

[gimp]

sexual orientation has nothing to do with trust, but, the girls I have known that have been bi...have been really NUTS. I love and respect women, but, shit, I've never met a bi woman that I could stand, let alone trust.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

I once dated a woman who claimed to be bisexual. I came to find out she was only pregnant, so I kicked her in the stomach and laughed. Then I played Atari and dropped acid.

 

[Sinistar]

Satanic Goatslayer Should Have A Memorial.

you know whats kinda funny is like 3 guys have come on here to say positive shit about women, and they all act like its OUR problem. then they pull that half assed slap on our manhood.

there hasnt been a woman in here yet to say anything. ANYTHING.

my final thoughts on Bi women is that there brains are directly connected to there clits.

it appears that the exp with bi women is universal. sluts to be banged and used for stories 20 years down the road. universally cannot be trusted. crazy. hypocritical. whorish. all leading to dyfunctional relationships ending in a unhappy unfullfilled life.

i wish we could get some feedback from the ladies, but i think we caught on to them. in closing, i would like to plaugerize a tasteless line from one of my all time fave albums.

My words are like a dagger with a jagged edge so ill stab you in the head whether you a fag or lez. homosex, hermaph, or a trans-a-vest, pants or dress, hate fags the answers yes.

im just playing ladies you know i love you.

 

[Puddles]

BigRedCat is right on the money.

You guys must have really had some awful experiences with women. That sucks. But, please, don't just associate all women with your bad experiences.

I would imagine that bi-women are typicly a bit wilder than straight women, but they're not all out there to fuck with your heads. As in any relationship there should be boundries that are agreed upon and respect for each other's feelings. I had my first bi experience before I met my husband, but once we were together, I didn't act on those feelings because I was committed to him. It was only after 18 yrs. of being together that we even really discussed it. And, it was HIM that brought it up, wanting to try out 3-some stuff if I was game...he hadn't forgotten about me being bi. It's fun to check out chicks together, but neither of us would do anything without the other being involved...that's really the fun of it all...sharing it with the other partner. I appreciate everything about a woman that a man does, but like BRC said about his girl, I'm not out there lusting after and picking them up for myself. If either of us finds a girl we're attracted to, we will point her out to each other and talk about her. It's fun. It's harmless. But it's probably best just saved for people who are mature and trustworthy...it's not for everyone.

I just noticed Sinistar's last post. I imagine the reason most of the bi-women on the board haven't replied to this thread is because of the immaturity and hate that's been displayed twards them. This is the first time I saw the thread and I had to get my 2 cents in.

 

[Sinistar]

you get a clap from me honey

finally somone stepped up and said something. but why are we immature?how do you reach that conclusion?

 

[BigRedCat]

With maturity comes the ability to trust. None of you trust anyone from the sound of it. Especially women. Relationships are based on trust so how do you expect to be able to have a relationship if you cannot trust? Are you that afraid of pain? I bet allot of you train intensely enough to feel pretty severe pain on a regular basis. So, why are you so afraid of the possiblity of emotional pain? Fear comes from weakness. Strength comes from confidence.

 

[Citruscide]

BigRedCat is right on the money.

You guys must have really had some awful experiences with women. That sucks. But, please, don't just associate all women with your bad experiences.

I would imagine that bi-women are typicly a bit wilder than straight women, but they're not all out there to fuck with your heads. As in any relationship there should be boundries that are agreed upon and respect for each other's feelings. I had my first bi experience before I met my husband, but once we were together, I didn't act on those feelings because I was committed to him. It was only after 18 yrs. of being together that we even really discussed it. And, it was HIM that brought it up, wanting to try out 3-some stuff if I was game...he hadn't forgotten about me being bi. It's fun to check out chicks together, but neither of us would do anything without the other being involved...that's really the fun of it all...sharing it with the other partner. I appreciate everything about a woman that a man does, but like BRC said about his girl, I'm not out there lusting after and picking them up for myself. If either of us finds a girl we're attracted to, we will point her out to each other and talk about her. It's fun. It's harmless. But it's probably best just saved for people who are mature and trustworthy...it's not for everyone.

I just noticed Sinistar's last post. I imagine the reason most of the bi-women on the board haven't replied to this thread is because of the immaturity and hate that's been displayed twards them. This is the first time I saw the thread and I had to get my 2 cents in.

No one is saying that ALL bi's are fucked in the head... and for you to say that "bi women are typically more wild then non" -- well, that's a generalization much like "all women sleep around" -- I'm not saying it... but it IS a generalization...

I'm not saying all Bi's are slutty women... I'm not saying that all people who use cocaine recreational are fucknuts... but I am chosing not to date bisexual women (because of experiences with the 3 I've dated) and I'm chosing not to date women who use drugs... (obvious reasons) -- it's a choice...an interpretation...

I've had bad experiences... but none of them directly correlate to the fact tht any women I have dated was bisexual... it was just an unpleaset situation that was full of drama... I care not to revisit that in the future...

It also goes to the fact that I don't want to be with someone intimately who is always wanting to be with someone of the opposite sex... I can't do that for them... I can do what any MAN can do, but not woman... It's not somehting that is good for a relationship.

C-ditty

 

[Puddles]

Re: you get a clap from me honey

finally somone stepped up and said something. but why are we immature?how do you reach that conclusion?

Name calling (licking lezzi) is immature...

personally, i think there whole purpose is to be used sexually till they go all the way around to leg licking lezzie.

and being bi doesn't turn someone into being gay.

Another immature comment...

i would have an easier time trusting a child molester with a herd of children, than i would trusting any girl i date.

p0ink...you are not serious, are you? If so, then you should probably spend some time with a shrink. Seriously.

And as for marrying one...i'd feel sorry for the kids watching mommy getting picked up at the house by hot chicks for dates.

Supernav...if a bi woman was to go out with her g/f, why would it seem strange to her child? What would make it any different than her going out with a "regular" friend?

I could cut and paste more, but enough is enough.

Citruscide...you pointed out that I made a generalization...that's what you do all the time in regards to women...generalize them into this category of bitches. Suddenly it's wrong to generalize? Or is it just wrong for women to generalize?

Like BRC said, with maturity you learn to deal with the emotional pains of life. There's no need to turn it into hate and anger. You can learn and grow from experiences. Without opening your hearts and learning to trust, you will never experience love. Sometimes you're gonna get fucked over, but you deal with it, accept it, and move on. That's maturity.

 

[TEXgrl]

BigRedCat is right on the money.

You guys must have really had some awful experiences with women. That sucks. But, please, don't just associate all women with your bad experiences.

I would imagine that bi-women are typicly a bit wilder than straight women, but they're not all out there to fuck with your heads. As in any relationship there should be boundries that are agreed upon and respect for each other's feelings. I had my first bi experience before I met my husband, but once we were together, I didn't act on those feelings because I was committed to him. It was only after 18 yrs. of being together that we even really discussed it. And, it was HIM that brought it up, wanting to try out 3-some stuff if I was game...he hadn't forgotten about me being bi. It's fun to check out chicks together, but neither of us would do anything without the other being involved...that's really the fun of it all...sharing it with the other partner. I appreciate everything about a woman that a man does, but like BRC said about his girl, I'm not out there lusting after and picking them up for myself. If either of us finds a girl we're attracted to, we will point her out to each other and talk about her. It's fun. It's harmless. But it's probably best just saved for people who are mature and trustworthy...it's not for everyone.

I just noticed Sinistar's last post. I imagine the reason most of the bi-women on the board haven't replied to this thread is because of the immaturity and hate that's been displayed twards them. This is the first time I saw the thread and I had to get my 2 cents in.

i haven't replied before now, because i didn't want to be beat up, but here goes! i had my first bi experience at my husbands suggestion, because he wanted to try a threesome. i never had any attraction really to women before then, and for the most part, now, i don't actively look for girls to be with. The girls i feel an attraction to aren't plentiful, and i've never had a desire to be with one outside of my marriage. they can be fun to be with, and alot of the excitement comes from the experience of my husband being there. if he wasn't there, it wouldn't even happen. he's what does it for me, adding a girl there for us both to be with is like having a special dessert, ok every so often, but not every day.

 

[The Architect]

Bi girls as girlfriends are alot of fun- but if she were to say that she was gonna hook up with another girl without me I'd tell her to get lost. And if you can't trust the person your with get out of the relationship and save yourself the stress.

 

[kronk]

I have a different definition of what I bi sexual female is than what most people think. So in my mind, I could NEVER be with a bi-sexual woman.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Like 2 slick says.....I very rarely trust a woman. My experience is that bi-sexual people are very, very sexual and very good in bed. But absolutley not to be trusted.

Besides....it frankly turns me off. Never ceases to amaze me that women will proudly advertise their bi sexuality as though it should impress me. May as well show their hemorroids.

 

[TEXgrl]

Like 2 slick says.....I very rarely trust a woman. My experience is that bi-sexual people are very, very sexual and very good in bed. But absolutley not to be trusted.

Besides....it frankly turns me off. Never ceases to amaze me that women will proudly advertise their bi sexuality as though it should impress me. May as well show their hemorroids.

for the record, i have never cheated on anyone, ever. i've been cheated on, and after feeling the pain that results from being betrayed, as well as what it does to your self esteem, i would never want to put anyone thru that.

 

[PolishHammer1977]

You guys are funny. You guys hate women dont you? They are all evil eh? Do you guys get laid at all? Just with Ho's or what?
I swear the way some of you talk, I wonder if you've ever had a girlfriend.

BigRedCat,

I don't hate ALL women. There not ALL evil. Yes, I have sex on a very regular basis with my GF now. I do not have sex with anyone else nor would I bc I am faithful completely. Yes I have had girlfriends. I hope that cleared it up for you.

A statement;

Hate is too strong a word to use. Dissapointment and deceat are the two I would most commonly use when describing SOME women. Personal intentions supercede everything in life.

 

[TEXgrl]

Dissapointment and deceat are the two I would most commonly use when describing SOME women. Personal intentions supercede everything in life.

the same can be said of men too, its unfortunate but true. there are good and bad people everywhere.

 

[Sinistar]

crimeny

look at the man hating crew come out. FemiNazis in the basest form. its a damned shame this thread has degenerated into this. thanks ladies.

 

[Citruscide]

Re: crimeny

look at the man hating crew come out. FemiNazis in the basest form. its a damned shame this thread has degenerated into this. thanks ladies.

BAWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA get used to it around here!

C-ditty

 

[PolishHammer1977]

 

[Sinistar]

bump for my input

 

[spongebob]

does it even matter. just throw the meat to em regardless. i dont even trust myself, how am i gonna trust someone else.

 

[Haz]

I'm with 2Thick on this one, I don't trust women, period.