Men. any idea?

[all the whey]

It all starts with a hug bro...then a kiss......next thing you know it's rubbing muff.

No I have to disagree.

From my experience it starts with a couple wine coolers.

 

[myway]

My husband says that I should just trust him...even if it doesn't make sense. It would be easier if he could provide me with a logical explaination to trust inbut he doesn't. He just says he doesn't know where they came from. Maybe he is trying to see what kind of wife I will be with this stuff. If he gets away with it...then he always will.

 

[myway]

I'm getting really tired(took my insomnia meds with some wine) but don't want to sleep in our bed. I think I'm gonna sleep in the baby's room until I decide what to do. I have a couple of options.If I stay here for 2 more weeks, I will be back at work and have money to move. If I go to my parent's house(as they requested) money wouldn't be an issue but I sometimes have problems with my mom.
I could go stay at my friends house but would feel bad because she is just starting over after a big, ugly divorce.
As long as I don't believe/trust my husband... it would be wrong for me to stay here with him providing for me. He said he would leave if I wanted him to go to his' parents house. I don't know how any of this would solve anything. We should try to work this out in a way that keeps us from hating each other. We have a little boy to raise. I just want to do what's best for my son. I still don't know the right answer.

 

[Longhorn85]

He can't give ANY of us a good answer.

Except that he insists that he doesn't know where they came from, right?

If you assume the worst, that means he either brought some girl into the house for sex, or somehow brought her drawers home with him. Why don't you ask him directly, "do those belong to some girl that you brought to our house when I wasn't home?"

If you assume the best, he has no idea where they came from, as he is telling you.

 

[Gymgurl]

The laptop incident was because of trust issues. He's been caught on the phone with an ex, plus, I installed a key logger that found some denied activity..... but I was never able to get solid proof. I had to chalk up the laptop incident to me over-reacting. I should have waited longer but it's hard to get anything on him since he's a cop. He drives around town free, 12 hours a day with no way to track him. I can't GPS a police car. Most of those guys have 2nd phones they don't bring home. I can't hack the police dept's email system. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt until I found some undeniable evidence. I can't think of any reasonable explaination for stray panties in my dryer.

Im sorry this is happening with a baby...BUT I think you have your answers. He hasn't changed and he seems to love to turn it around to make it your fault and he looks like the "good" guy. (((HUGS)))) You know in your heart what is up.

 

[BIGBUCK$]

damn he did u dirty!

 

[reno240]

The laptop incident was because of trust issues. He's been caught on the phone with an ex, plus, I installed a key logger that found some denied activity..... but I was never able to get solid proof. I had to chalk up the laptop incident to me over-reacting. I should have waited longer but it's hard to get anything on him since he's a cop. He drives around town free, 12 hours a day with no way to track him. I can't GPS a police car. Most of those guys have 2nd phones they don't bring home. I can't hack the police dept's email system. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt until I found some undeniable evidence. I can't think of any reasonable explaination for stray panties in my dryer.

Wow - if your thinking about all this stuff then you have some trust issues. Warranted or not - that's not good.

I brought this up earlier - I don't know if you saw the post - have you been shopping for clothes recently. Could the panties have been mashed up in the leg (etc.) of new clothes you were washing?

 

[lartinos]

maybe ur friend melissa is fucking ur man?

 

[nefertiti]

maybe ur friend melissa is fucking ur man?

genius child, read the thread. She said about ten times that they aren't Melissa's size.

 

[galaxy]

Did you pick them up at the laundry mat maybe?