"Mean Girls". 15 year old girl commits suicide, nine students charged

[OMEGA]

she honestly should of stood up for herself. we've all been picked on or made fun of in life. you have to learn how to deal with it or put the "bullies" in their place

Bro if you get a loner with not the best parents/listeners

one can be alone and in the dark with no way out.

That is why I wish I was there.

I dealt with prolonged bullying 3 times in my life

2 times were do to moving ass-backwards to a new county, one was joining the football team varsity too early

 

[nefertiti]

she honestly should of stood up for herself. we've all been picked on or made fun of in life. you have to learn how to deal with it or put the "bullies" in their place

Bullies don't pick on people who are going to stand up for themselves. They target the meek. Expecting people to be able to stand against that kind of gauntlet during some of the most fragile, unsure times of their lives is...well...unreasonable. Teenage girls are terrible.

 

[iggy]

i agree to some extent. i'm not a teenage girl, but as a young kid i was bullied. i stood up to the kid and got suspended. it was the 4th grade.

but the most important thing is without some kind of mentor or parent, how is a kid going to learn to stand up for his/her self

 

[nefertiti]

i agree to some extent. i'm not a teenage girl, but as a young kid i was bullied. i stood up to the kid and got suspended. it was the 4th grade.

but the most important thing is without some kind of mentor or parent, how is a kid going to learn to stand up for his/her self

girls and boys handle things entirely differently.

 

[75th]

i agree to some extent. i'm not a teenage girl, but as a young kid i was bullied. I stood up to the kid and got suspended. It was the 4th grade.

But the most important thing is without some kind of mentor or parent, how is a kid going to learn to stand up for his/her self

lies!

 

[shirlene29]

I realize this is about teenage girls but my oldest daughter wouldnt get ready for school once when she was six...
I asked her what was up because she initially loved school...she told me she'd rather die than ever have to go back...and frankly she had an idea of what death was because that same year she asked me why people would rather jump out of a hole in a building and kill themselves then be killed in the building (WTC)

so further questioning revealed she was being bulllied at school every day by some little bastard

I went screaming to the school about it who initially tried to brush it off as 'kids being kids" until I told them what she had told me....

they looked into it and found that the little bastard was terrorizing several other little girls and several of them were mysteriously "sick" with headaches belly aches etc and werent coming to school
if kids that young that are more closely supervised at school are having that big of probs, what chance do teenagers have?


I vote for allowing the bullied to punch the shit out of the bullies....we don't allow it and now kids wind up killing themselves

fuck our upside down culture

 

[iggy]

shirl, it's been going on for hundreds of years.
it's nothing new.

what was your crew like in high school?

 

[shirlene29]

we beat the shit out of each other for it...thats what im getting at



someone got too lippy you punched them in the trachea or kneed their kidneys till they pissed blood

 

[OMEGA]

what was your crew like in high school?

After Freshman year mine was one of the most powerful if not the most ( but we did not flaunt it)

My Best Friend Jason and I were the leaders as well as Lucas , well the ones that people went to that is.

We were friends with everyone, but NO one messed with us

They knew we were nice as pie, but also at a moments notice could kick ass

We were a group of strong guys but NON of us fit in....
We were like Rogue beings who were nice and studious in class

and did not fit in conventionally with the typical groups like the Jocks, Skaters, Rich, Preppies, Latinos, Blacks, Asians , or Emo/mod kids.


Hi School was great but people who say its fake or not real, are pretending.

Thus When bullying goes on its VERY real and has REAL consequences.

 

[cindylou]

iggy when you were in teh 4th grade you were just be bullied at school and possibly on the way home. NOw the threats come through text message and on your facebook and myspace page, at school and on the bus. They are everywhere and you cant escape. I couldnt imagine it. Its hard as a teen to see past the weekend much less push through and see a point where your life will be enjoyable again.