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BronzedGoddess
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If it physically and emotionally hurts her why would you want to do it so badly? I would think you would be turned off by anything that would cause your significant other pain. Just my .02
Me and my girlfriend got into an argument about anal sex on the phone tonight.
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John Holmes
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Dude, if she won't let you, you are SOL.
If it means that much to you, find a chick that is willing, or hire an escort that is willing.
Anal is something that you can't push on a chick.
If it means that much to you, find a chick that is willing, or hire an escort that is willing.
Anal is something that you can't push on a chick.
John Holmes said:
Is asking someone to do something pushing something on to someone now days?
This whole argument with me and her over the phone started as just kind of playing around. If you read my post she said she'd do anything,,, then I with a smirk on my face I said anything huh, and she said anything but anal, I said why not and it pretty much started from there.
So I don't understand where you get the idea that I'm pushing anal on her, also if you read my post it says that in the time that we've been dating I've asked to try it 10 or 11 times, (ASKED,, not pushed) about 4 or 5 of those times she let me try a little bit. The other 5 to 6 times she flat out right said NO!!! end of disscusion.
If I was pushing her wouldn't I have nagged her a least 1 or 2 of those times when she said no , pouted or done something along those lines. Isn't that pushing? I don't remember doing anything like that.
If you think our argument is a form of pushing it on her, well maybe it is, but thats not what I was trying to do with it.
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John Holmes
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I didn't say that you were pushing her into it, I said that you (meaning people in general) can't push anal sex on women, as in all women.
But, since trying 10 or 11 times isn't pushing, I guess I owe you an apology.
But, since trying 10 or 11 times isn't pushing, I guess I owe you an apology.
John Holmes said:
Ok, I've been with her for roughly 18 months. I've asked,,, ASKED her to try 10 or 11 times. Asking and trying are 2 different things. Now when I say I've asked her, I mean its like slightly bringing it up. For instance just to give you an idea.
Me and her getting busy and I say: can we try a little An,,, before I can finish the le of anal she says NO,,, I don't feel like it, or No ect.
After that, its over, its not like I sit there and use lame lines pressureing her saying come on, well this girl would let me, or you don't love me, or what ever lame shit I could stoop to say. This is how I kind of look at the subject of pushing and why I don't feel like I am. (maybe I'm wrong for thinking like this)
Take 18 months,,, I've asked about 10 or 11 times now thats like asking once every 2 months. The 4 or 5 times we have tried, now thats like trying once every 5 to 6 months.
Im not saying that every 2 months I've asked her or ever 4 or 5 months we've tried, but right there I don't really think that is pushing.
Its not like we argue about this all of the time people, this is the 1st of its kind.
John Holmes if you were not saying I was pushing her into it, than your comment about "you (meaning people in general) can't push anal sex on women, as in all women" would have no place here or have any meaning on this thread.
Anyways no need for the apology John,,, I guess I owe you the apology seeing as you didn't say I was pushing her into it.
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Delinquent
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Nothing a couple drinks and a xanax can't cure
crimson coal
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If you and her are into toys you could always try using a toy on her and at some point down the line ask if you could try it while she uses her toy on herself at the same time. I would think that if she's gonna put up with anal she should at least be able to get some pleasure for herself at the same time. I have always found that this works better than just you your self gettin off while she endures the pain of it.
crimson coal
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OH...and add a bottle of wine to the mix before hand.......Not gin or Vodka...Wine is best I think and gets a lady in the mood rather than just sloppy drunk.
