Me and my girlfriend got into an argument about anal sex on the phone tonight.

[Gladiola]

I am a big fan of anal. Have been for years. Everytime I hear a friend (male or female) say they aren't into it - it's gross, painful, etc. I tell them they are missing out & try to shed at least a little light.

That being said - sex, particularly in a committed relationship, should be about 'getting off' & enjoying yourself, but also pleasing your partner. If this is making her upset - why are you continuing to bring it up & pressure her?

The more you push the issue, the less she is going to want to do it. People do NOT like to be pressured.

If you want to fuck your girls ass, don't whine to her like some bitch. What's in it for her then? It makes your whining stop? not worth it.

She should do it not b/c you want her to, but b/c it'll give a AWESOME orgasm. Does she cum when you fuck her? Do you use butt plugs? I prefer those to fingers. The orgasm from being fucked with a butt plug in is great too.

Don't talk about it anymore. But if you can get her to enjoy any type of anal stimulation SHE will start to want it eventually. That's your only ticket.

Sorry to ramble, I don't get to hang out on the sheets often enough

 

[painly]

painly

fuck your chick seems like she was quite the dirty slut, and now you get her in the "i wanna be innocent" days, fuck that, dump her and then eat something good, like cheesecake.

 

[Doggy Dogg]

This is a tested and proven method of getting that ass. Tell her that all your previous girlfriends let you hit the booty and wanted it more than getting fucked in their pussy. Then mention that some were hesitant at first while some craved it. Don’t forget to tell her that once they got accustomed to it, they started having insane orgasms and they wanted less pussy sex. Now that you’ve been spoiled, it’s just all part of sex to you now and that’s how she should think of it.

It may be pretty difficult for you to convince her at this point since it’s been over a year. You usually have to break hem into during the first month of sex. And also don’t bring it up on the phone, make sure it’s done in person, usually while you’re already fucking. There are a whole bunch of little mind tricks you can play on these silly ho’s. You should have the basic idea now. Just make up good convincing stories that would fit your situation and her personality.

This technique can also be applied for getting her to give you as much head as you can handle. Tell her about how your previous girlfriends sucked you off 3 or 4 times a day on the couch while you were watching TV, and now it’s become the norm for you and anything less doesn’t satisfy you like your previous girls did. You can also exaggerate a little more if you want and put in some of your persuasion style and you’ll have no problem bringing more of that ho out of her. It’s all about getting into that head of hers. Girls can be very easily convinced if you know how to do it correctly. Using other girls as an example is an excellent way.

 

[Pineapple Devil]

put her on her hands and knees, get behind her, take aim, then wham!! stick it in. she'll yell and clinch her sphinctor muscles which will in turn squeeze your wee wee really hard and you'll both be in pain. now doesnt that sound like fun sex?

 

[crash3837]

I am a big fan of anal. Have been for years. Everytime I hear a friend (male or female) say they aren't into it - it's gross, painful, etc. I tell them they are missing out & try to shed at least a little light.

That being said - sex, particularly in a committed relationship, should be about 'getting off' & enjoying yourself, but also pleasing your partner. If this is making her upset - why are you continuing to bring it up & pressure her?

The more you push the issue, the less she is going to want to do it. People do NOT like to be pressured.

If you want to fuck your girls ass, don't whine to her like some bitch. What's in it for her then? It makes your whining stop? not worth it.

She should do it not b/c you want her to, but b/c it'll give a AWESOME orgasm. Does she cum when you fuck her? Do you use butt plugs? I prefer those to fingers. The orgasm from being fucked with a butt plug in is great too.

Don't talk about it anymore. But if you can get her to enjoy any type of anal stimulation SHE will start to want it eventually. That's your only ticket.

Sorry to ramble, I don't get to hang out on the sheets often enough

I don't know if you really read my post or not but what I said was that I don't feel like I ask her alot or nag her, that was the 1st aggument of that sort that we ever had.

We have tried it maybe 4 or 5 times, I've asked and been turned down with an alright NO! from her probably about 6 times.

I don't really think that in the time I've been with her and the whole 10 to 11 times I've asked her to have anal you can consider that I'm whining like a little bitch.
Its not like I push the issue and keep bringing it up. I don't understand where you get off saying I'm pressuring her,,, the only form (if you want to call it that even) of pressure I've ever used, is when I said the other night in our arguement that it did mean something to me, and that "Yep nice guys finish last"
And is that not the truth with this issue?

 

[Spectre]

Crash,

"Yep nice guys finish last"

Don't throw in the towel bro. Don't argue on the phone, ever, you can't enjoy making up!

Let it slide for awhile, get some toys that have nothing to do with anal, then later on get some that do. In the mean time kiss and lick that star now and again and a little more later on down the road.

It's a lifetime investment, my wife do things we both never dreamed of or would consider before. Ten years and it gets better every time..

 

[Puddles]

Ever notice how your tastes change over time? Right now she's completely against anal, and since it really bothers her that much, you need to understand it's something she's just not into now. Maybe in time, her tastes will change and she'll be willing to give it another shot, but for now you need to back off and just accept her feelings about the matter.

Having a good long term relationship is far more important than a few minutes of anal...don't screw it up.

 

[DeathB4Dishonor]

And here a guy spends a week using her while his girlfriend is out of town and gets farther in a week than I ever have with her in 1 and 1/2 yrs.

that right there should tell you something about urself.

 

[crash3837]

Re: Re: Me and my girlfriend got into an argument about anal sex on the phone tonight.

that right there should tell you something about urself.

What does that tell me about myself?

 

[CAGED whiteman]

obviously you have no balls....just throw it in her ass like her old boy friend did....dont allow her to have any say in the matter at all.