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Bikini Mod
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Shouldn't make a damned bit of difference.
If the guy is using steroids as an excuse for his behavior - EVER - then he is an ass/loser/dickhead of epic proportions and you should run as quickly as you can in the opposite direction.
If you stay with a creep now that you know - that will be on you.
If the guy is using steroids as an excuse for his behavior - EVER - then he is an ass/loser/dickhead of epic proportions and you should run as quickly as you can in the opposite direction.
If you stay with a creep now that you know - that will be on you.
Sassy69
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Some people may also have dickhead moments and not realize the change may be due to the steroids. (e.g. tren is notorious for this but it or any other doesn't affect every guythe same way so you can't reverse the scenario BMom suggests and make a blanket statement that the AAS is making him an asshole either.)
I guess I would also ask what do u mean specifically "handle it"? Is there somethig specifc that you are having an issue with? I would say if you are "afraid of it" because you only know what you 'hear' about it, then research it some & find out at least the basics about it. The biggest issue is going to be his choice to use / not use and also if you see specific issues or concerns with it. That at least gives you a place to start. I don't believe in being "scared" of something and then turning that fear into a point of contention between u if you don't have real info about it. Then you have something legitimate to discuss & if it has an impact on u or your relationship.
I guess I would also ask what do u mean specifically "handle it"? Is there somethig specifc that you are having an issue with? I would say if you are "afraid of it" because you only know what you 'hear' about it, then research it some & find out at least the basics about it. The biggest issue is going to be his choice to use / not use and also if you see specific issues or concerns with it. That at least gives you a place to start. I don't believe in being "scared" of something and then turning that fear into a point of contention between u if you don't have real info about it. Then you have something legitimate to discuss & if it has an impact on u or your relationship.
Sassy69 said:
Well he has a temper without tacking steroids which is okay with me i can deal with that cuz i know whats sparks it and its ussauly not me. His normal temper takes a while to build up just like it would for anyone , but when he takes roids i dont know whats going to make him mad and when. I know its not an excuse for behavior and what hes taking this cycle is alot better then last , but me and him are fighting more not really over anything its just now he gets sparked and i myself get sparked easily so we kind of go at it. I think i can get worse then him though , but i just dont know when hes gunna get in this mood. He took test and eq. last cylce i belive and this one hes taken tren. and clomid but im not sure about everything?!?!?! is the steroid rage an excuse or not?
Sassy69
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Tren has a real impact on some people's chemistry -- like Bmom said - AAS is not an excuse to allow yourself (himself) to go off on you or anyone else - if he chooses to use something that knowingly alters his ability to handle things, then it is completely his problem and not yours. I.e. not your responsibility to feel like you are egging him on more & you need to stop -- its all him and its all his chemistry.
By the same token, if he's cycling, there is a discerniblel change in his demeanor & handling of temper, but he won't admit that it could indeed be due to the drugs (esp tren), then he's not even aware. I've seen that as well. Unless he's open-minded enough to at least admit that its possible, then you also have a problem.
RE: tren - let me dig up a couple posts on this....
By the same token, if he's cycling, there is a discerniblel change in his demeanor & handling of temper, but he won't admit that it could indeed be due to the drugs (esp tren), then he's not even aware. I've seen that as well. Unless he's open-minded enough to at least admit that its possible, then you also have a problem.
RE: tren - let me dig up a couple posts on this....
Sassy69 said:
I really dont think i can take it or him anymore . He lets his anger get in the way of everything! We had plans tonight , but i came home early because i didn't feel like dealing with him and getting myself all upset and having him make me feel like its my fault he is the way he is. I love him to death and i use to say everything about him , but now its getting to the point that i can't allow myself to be around him because im going to get emotionaly hurt.
Sassy69
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That sucks. If you can tell him that very frankly, even w/o the steroids -- maybe he'll catch on. Otherwise, move on. If he can't control his temper just as a normal person, the steroids may be aggravating it, but either way, he may not be a safe person to be around and he certainly doesn't sound like he's adding anythign to the quality of your life. Its not your job to deal w/ his anger & insecurity.
My previous significant other had some issues with temper/mood/stress and I gave him two options; either go get some help (anti-dep) from the Doctor or watch me walk out the door. He chose to get the help. It didn't stop however. He was taking the anti dep's and roids - that lethal combo resulted in one of the worst nites of my life.
I can only advise based on my own personal experience, I was never told about the roids (this is probably what the initial moods were about) and he denies taking them, but he had a stash of them at his office.
I would definately proceed with caution, before the juice gets the better of him and you. There are no excuses!
I can only advise based on my own personal experience, I was never told about the roids (this is probably what the initial moods were about) and he denies taking them, but he had a stash of them at his office.
I would definately proceed with caution, before the juice gets the better of him and you. There are no excuses!
