This is how I put it, I'd love a few tats on my girlfriend! (I.E. lower back, ass cheek, inner thigh, back of shoulder)
Slutty = sexy when it comes to the girll friend!
Now.... as for the wife...
I"ll have to agree with hiatussin, I think the human body is beautifull and shouldn't be messed with by mankind. as far as decorations. I mean how hot is an 80 year old woman with a lower back tat? ewe