love does not exist. friendship does not exist.

[GoldenDelicious]

not my style. im very angry just now. disregard everything i say except the first post.

apologies to anyone i pissed off. im annoyed but i shouldnt act like a cunt to people.

 

[Taps]

Are you basing this on your experiences with one particular individual? Most likely a girl?

 

[SoreArms]

cant do what dont exist. love is a literary device. a fairy tale. at best, the misnamed dependence one person has on another.

keep this cliched bullshit the fuck out of my face. sell that shit to someone else

Bro, I felt the same way the first time that I was "really" hurt, I though it was the ned of the world. I also thought it was all bullshit and told myself that I would never let anyone that close to me again, that way, I couldn't get hurt. Well, as time goes by, you heal and then more time goes by and goddam, suddenly, somehow, some else in your life. And you know what, it feels great, that is until its over, but you will learn to cope and heal and each time the healing process is shorter and you learn to get on with your life only to repaet the cycle over and over unti lyou settle with some one or become a bitter loveless old man.

You're not the first one to go through this and you will not be the last one. Nothing anyone here can tell will make the hurting any less, only time and a strong mind can do that for you. Keep your chin up and cowboy up buddy, this is life.

 

[rpol]

Due been there done that too many times, but as life goes on I got over it, and found a new friend that restord my faith in people and women believe it or not, we just won't fuck it up by doing anything.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Are you basing this on your experiences with one particular individual? Most likely a girl?

no, i have been burnt by pretty much everyone important to me in my life. the latest one happened to be a girl, and held a special place in my heart. your suggestion has all sorts of juvenile boy-girl implications. this isnt about breaking up or any of that, its about trust being betrayed at a fundamental level for questionable gains. fickle, hurtful, unjust.

sorearms: i have been through all sorts of breakups, im usually not too fazed. for me to explain this one to you a little further would involve exposing too much of my personal life. im not about to do that.

i might be a little abrasive for a while. not sure how long.

 

[gonelifting]

i have fooled myself my whole life. i thought it is possible for people to be true friends. to always be there, thick or thin. same as i believed people could fall in love. to have and to hold, until death do us part.


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If you (one person) thought this was true, then it is, because if one person believes it, then another could as well.

 

[biteme]

Real sorry about that man. Love is the greatest thing in the world and the thing that can bring you the most pain. Keep your head up, it will come again.

 

[Lao Tzu]

not my style. im very angry just now. disregard everything i say except the first post.

apologies to anyone i pissed off. im annoyed but i shouldnt act like a cunt to people.

With that attitude you'll never make a bitter shut in.

Secondly, just because you largely cannot rely on people 100% of the time doesn't mean you can't rely on them 98% of the time. Families stay together when one is convicted of child molestation, friends share secrets that would get them beaten up or harassed with strangers. Relying on people 100% to always be there is dangerous but assuming everyone is an asshole 100% of the time isn't good either.

Remember when i told you pharmacists in the US made about $40 an hour? i did that just because i assumed aussie pharmacists maybe made closer to $25 an hour, i was trying to inform you of how you could make money. I did that for no reason other than to help you, i didnt stand to benefit from it at all. True, im not going to be there (no one is) 100% of the time, but at the same time the opposite view strikes me as more dangerous than being dependent on people to view you as their most important thing.

 

[juve]

i have fooled myself my whole life. i thought it is possible for people to be true friends. to always be there, thick or thin. same as i believed people could fall in love. to have and to hold, until death do us part.

biggest lie in the world.

people are out for number one. even the ones you think love you. even the ones who you think are your friends. everyone is a fair weather friend, or a fair weather love, to some degree.

guess im just bitter right now. person i love most in the world told me how much she loved me while she walked away, towards greener pastures. i suppose i should thank her for enlightening me.

to all the random people i have helped in life and/or over the internet, i apologise for helping propagate the myth that to do good unto others will mean that good is done unto you. forgive me for leading you to believe that there are truly good people in the world. karma is just a bunch of little green dots.

i would appreciate, if anyone sees me say something helpful on this board or others, to tell me to stop bullshitting myself and others, and get with it. get off the net, get off your arse, and help yourself, because thats all you have.

love/friendship - that is all but a concept designed to categorize and materialize oneself in the scope/eyes of others. once you abstract yourself from this intrinsically intuitive attachment to others you're considered socially inadequate, especially in the US - the country of extroverted majority with smiling grimaces and contempt at heart. How you perceive yourself in this dychotomy of personal and conventiona is what really matters - subscribe to absurdism (with me )


elite anarcho syndicalist association!

 

[atlantabiolab]

cant do what dont exist. love is a literary device. a fairy tale. at best, the misnamed dependence one person has on another.

keep this cliched bullshit the fuck out of my face. sell that shit to someone else

Boo Hoo...you whine because you have not been granted the end that people desire, as if it should simply fall from the sky or that you are entitled to this end, and when you don't receive what you believe is yours, then you become the victim of a "cruel joke", a lie told to children. Bah. You are becoming more foolish than you thought you were.

Such ends are virtues, they are values that man desires, "what ought be"; they are ends that require effort and are not his by right, they are the rewards for his actions. Contemplate a world where man did not strive for what he desires, not merely accepts what he has, and tell us how good such a world sounds? Is wealth not real, since so many do not acheive it? Is happiness not real, since so many are unhappy? Is justice not real, since it has been denied to so many?

Get out of the pity phase and learn from this lesson.