for diet I dont count calories, but use judgement to stay around 2800-3000. I am 6'1'' at 220 right now.
Breakfast:
two cups oatmeal, 1% cup milk and 1 cup whey all mixed in.
Snack:
Protein shake (milk, whey, banana)
Lunch:
Either dinner leftovers or chilli beans with a chicken breast, or tuna can.
Snack:
Protin shake (milk, whey, strawberry mixed in)
Dinner:
lean meat (steak, or chicken or fish), some sort of salad and maybe
cup of beans or brown rice if still hungry
Before bed
Pistachios or low sugar yogurt.
One problem thou, the days I squat I usually eat more, cant help it, after leg training I am hungry like an animal all day!