ladies what in ur opinion is the difference between a cute, a hot, sexy guy?

[Yarg!]

Your cute.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

your sister.

yeah, that makes sense. you see, cute = harmless, with little or no sex appeal.

sexy = sex appeal matches non physical attraction/comfort, attraction is all there, but not prone to jump into bed just yet

hot = attraction really high, comfort unknown, either way, very close to the "lets jump into bed right now" threshold, maybe already there (depends on bodylanguage, tonality, eye contact, pupil dilation, flushing)

 

[caligirl]

Your cute.

no you're cute, fuggin kitty loverman

 

[caligirl]

(I am a guy)

pics? i dont believe you

 

[all the whey]

your sister.

 

[Yarg!]

yeah, that makes sense. you see, cute = harmless, with no sex appeal.

sexy = sex appeal matches non physical attraction/comfort

hot = attraction really high, comfort unknown, either way, very close to the "lets jump into bed right now" threshold

ok this is why i ask this:

it seems that i see in the media/hear it from women around me etc "oh that guy is so cute" "cutest guy ever" etc etc when referring to celebrities and stuff. these guys reek of sex appeal. like 12 packs, chiseled jaw lines, tall, high cheekbones etc etc. to me if i was gay or a chick, id say they were "hot" (im talking guys like josh barnett, pitt, etc). so wouldnt these guys be considered "hot"? yet some girls refer to these same men as hot or sexy, but the majority refer to them as cute. so where is the line drawn? im talking strictly looks nothing to do with personality.

 

[all the whey]

no you're cute, fuggin kitty loverman

No, I am not cute.

 

[caligirl]

ok this is why i ask this:

it seems that i see in the media/hear it from women around me etc "oh that guy is so cute" "cutest guy ever" etc etc when referring to celebrities and stuff. these guys reek of sex appeal. like 12 packs, chiseled jaw lines, tall, high cheekbones etc etc. to me if i was gay or a chick, id say they were "hot" (im talking guys like josh barnett, pitt, etc). so wouldnt these guys be considered "hot"? yet some girls refer to these same men as hot or sexy, but the majority refer to them as cute. so where is the line drawn? im talking strictly looks nothing to do with personality.

you just answered it for yourself, meaning each woman has a different deffinition for the words, sexy, hot and cute.

 

[Yarg!]

you just answered it for yourself

what?! youre confusing me. im going to bed.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

ok this is why i ask this:

it seems that i see in the media/hear it from women around me etc "oh that guy is so cute" "cutest guy ever" etc etc when referring to celebrities and stuff. these guys reek of sex appeal. like 12 packs, chiseled jaw lines, tall, high cheekbones etc etc. to me if i was gay or a chick, id say they were "hot" (im talking guys like josh barnett, pitt, etc). so wouldnt these guys be considered "hot"? yet some girls refer to these same men as hot or sexy, but the majority refer to them as cute. so where is the line drawn? im talking strictly looks nothing to do with personality.

in that case, the difference is context and tone.

consider:

"hes cute"
"hey...hes cute!"

what people say means a lot less than how they say it. download (or better yet, buy) the complete book of bodylanguage by the Pease couple. i was always pretty awesome when it came to talking to people, but that book gave me my black belt. now, i walk through a room, no one has spoken to me, and i get pissed off at people talking shit to me with their bodies...im like "Fuck you!!! shutup!!!"

useful skill to have