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LADIES ONLY: At what point would you say a man masturbates too often?

Test boy

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My greatest embarassment is how often I get myself off. At what point does a women become alarmed about a man "taking matters into his own hands?":o
 
mmm....that's a hard one (pun intended...so sorry but I just had to!!).

Well, lots of masterbation is cool, I like to know that my man enjoys himself. I especially like it when he lets me join in...in fact, neither of us like to masterbate alone anymore....only if we HAVE to..you know what I mean.....
 
If a guy jerks the jiffy every day (and he has a girlfriend) he has problems

Or

His girlfriend sucks at sex

Or

He is just a nympho


It would be quite distressing if I was with a man, and he jerked off everyday, or even 3 times a week is bad. Especially if I was giving it to him all the time. I'de be very worried.
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:
If a guy jerks the jiffy every day (and he has a girlfriend) he has problems

Or

His girlfriend sucks at sex

Or

He is just a nympho


It would be quite distressing if I was with a man, and he jerked off everyday, or even 3 times a week is bad. Especially if I was giving it to him all the time. I'de be very worried.

So now, you know better than men about thier sexual body parts? Excuse me but guys, in general, are just horny. Lay off.
 
Dude

No need to get defensive OK

I know guys are just horny, but to crank the spank everyday when in a relationship (I'm not saying this guy does it) is a bit off-putting.

:)
 
I'm not getting defensive...but girls do two things when they hear that we jerk and fuck when dating. Think we're perverts or think they are inadeqate. It's no offense but you're making an assumption and comparing your sexual drive with ours.

You can't do that since we think sex WAY more than you ladies do. It doesn't make us pervs...it's in the system.
 
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ok ok GT baby

I get what your saying.

I actually agree with you, how chicks would think they are inadequate, I would feel this way, and I don't know why, it's just a girl thing I guess....

You'll be surprised how much some girls DO think about sex, and I am sure it is just as much as guys

:D
 
I'm a snippy bastard. Sorry! What girls are these? Must be a diff. species of female compared to my GF. She thinks about it like once a week and always at the worst times, like when we're chillin with my mom and pop.
 
:D

I tell ya, I think about it A LOT....

Yesterday I had to go to a family gathering and I was so god damn horny but my man was an hour away! :bawling:

I think about it heaps.........
 
i have to say that if i knew i was giving it to my guy and afterwards he still needed to whack off i'd be a bit concerned... that or if he liked his porn better than me...
 
smallmovesal said:
i have to say that if i knew i was giving it to my guy and afterwards he still needed to whack off i'd be a bit concerned... that or if he liked his porn better than me...

Well, it's not like we crank it RIGHT after you we bang you ladies...It's more like the times of the day when we don't bang you for like more than two hours.
 
The more sex I have, the more I want. It's MY body, I can touch it if I want to. I think most people are like that. I've gone AGES without sex and not been interested in masturbating either, just not in that sort or mindframe at the time. As for how much is too much? Does it interfere with your day to day life, are you too exhausted to perform with your gf? If not, don't worry about it.
 
I'm not having sex right now:mad: (new girl, waiting for right time), so I whack it 3-4 times a day(even more on a cycle). When I am getting some it's usually 1-2 times a day. I always do it before i go out (like in "something about mary"). I have a huge right forearm. If someone notices how much bigger it is than the left, I tell them that I play a lot of tennis (a 300 pounder playing tennis, now that's funny). I'm a horny guy, sorry if that bothers anyone. By the way, how many times a week do you ladies do yourself?
 
I MUST BE A NYMPHO CAUSE I HAVE SEX LIKE THREE TIMES A DAY GOOD SEX AND I STILL JERK IT AT LEAST TWICE A DAY. I DON'T THINK THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH ME I JUST HAVE NOT FOUND A GIRL WHO COULD KEEP UP WITH MY SEXUAL APPETITE.
 
Honeynut said:
As for how much is too much? Does it interfere with your day to day life, are you too exhausted to perform with your gf? If not, don't worry about it.
Yes it does interfere with my life. I only whack it 1-5 times a day but I go for an hour or two or three sometimes. The more I do it the more I get into it and enjoy it. After its over...I'm like OMG, what am I doing with my life?
 
LOL.....My boyfriend masturbates several times a week AND satisfies me several times a week! So what's to worry about? He's a horny boy. Better that than hiding girls in the closet...again(with a former "lay-mate") He has no shame about his habits of self satisfaction...hell...sometimes I ask if I can watch, even if I don't want any. It's all good!
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:
If a guy jerks the jiffy every day (and he has a girlfriend) he has problems

Or

His girlfriend sucks at sex

Or

He is just a nympho


It would be quite distressing if I was with a man, and he jerked off everyday, or even 3 times a week is bad. Especially if I was giving it to him all the time. I'de be very worried.

Yep, what she said!!
 
I think if my guy was going at it 3 times a day instead of being with me I would take it a slam against me. Now if he was wearing me out and I just couldn't go more round then heck whack away.
How would you guys like it if we took matters into our hands instead of you?
 
Ummmmm, I can honestly say that no man that I have been with has felt the need to masterbate...unless, of course, we were not geographically desirable for a period of time.

I take GREAT PRIDE in the fact that MOST MEN can NOT keep up with me!....Heck, I nearly killed the hunny the last time I saw him. But I have to give credit where credit is due. The last time I saw him, he DID wear ME OUT (Has NEVER happened before)...so I felt obligated to wear his gorgeous ass out this time around! :D
 
It's definitely too much if it interferes with your sexual relations with your girl. Other than that, I think the lines get a little fuzzy....

I went with a guy when I was maybe 18 who jacked off at least a couple times a day, and had since he was 17...he was like 25 at the time that I knew him. We had sex constantly. He just had a hard on all the damn time and was extremely sexual, all the time. Had he not been so personable and a real sweetie, I would never have gone near him, but it somehow seemed acceptable for him, but definitely not normal by any means. I think he needed psychotherapy.

I dated another guy who did it almost every morning in the shower. That struck me as normal.

My husband almost never does it, and with our conflicting schedules, sometimes we're lucky if we can squeeze in sex any more than once or twice a week...then he gets "blue balls" and cries about it. THAT seems unhealthy, I wish he would do it more.
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:
You just sound like the mega porn star sex goddess!

:D

Oh BikiniMom, how can I totally blow my mans mind?!

:D

hehehehheeeee

Just try and surprize him with new stuff. ie - fuck him wearing nothing but a garter black, stockings and patent leather, stilleto heeled go-go boots.... surprize "just because you are so yummy" bj while he is driving. (Nothing sez that you are making him go crazy more than because he is INCAPABLE of staying on the road because you are giving him head.) - NOTE....this is either a show of better things to come or PULL OVER to finish the act LOL! ....of course, there is always the "surprize - I AM WAAAAAAY HORNY - middle of the night bj. ....fuck him in the restaraunt/club bathroom or dressing room in department store. PUBLIC SEX IS ALWAYS COOL. Do not be afraid to enjoy yourself..... if you are having a grand time while he is fucking you, don't be afraid to reach down and rub your tweeter a bit - your pleasure is heightened and I KNOW guys DIG THIS. I also know that guys REALLY dig watching girls masterbate.

What else? hhhhmmmmmmmm, the list goes on and on.

Be comfortable with yourself, your body and your sexuality. I have been told by men that they find a woman who is not afraid to completely enjoy herself VERY AROUSING.

PS - if you try something and you or he are just not into it...giggle a bit and move onto something else. No need to get all hung up.

Also for kitty lickinz...try this:

Have him on lie on his back and you lay on top, abdomen to abdomen (69)...for some reason, I find this position for oral just amazing. (Sadly, I can not concentrate on pleasing him while I am gettin' it like this..... save this for either after he has already gotten off or for like the third or fourth round.) Just grab onto the sheets or headboard and go to town! I can't explain it, but it is just intense! :eek2:

OK, DAMMIT now I am horny. :kaioken: I gotta wait two weeks before I get some. :bawling:
 
Test boy said:

Yes it does interfere with my life. I only whack it 1-5 times a day but I go for an hour or two or three sometimes. The more I do it the more I get into it and enjoy it. After its over...I'm like OMG, what am I doing with my life?
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Seek therapy, or some new stimuli. If the duration of your sessions were shorter, you'd have an easier time fitting them in your life.
 
Do what more? Masturbate or make love?

Hehe...well of course I want more sex, but it's just not always possible. But damn he needs to jack off more when we can't, just to keep him sane. Plus it makes me feel burdened, like I'm supposed to "drop and give him 69" right then and there to alleviate his suffering...even though I'm on my way out the door for work when he comes home. Once in a while, okay...but all the time? No. So I wish he would masturbate more :confused:
 
Honeynut said:
Test boy said:

Seek therapy, or some new stimuli. If the duration of your sessions were shorter, you'd have an easier time fitting them in your life.
Well...I can easily quit my marathon sessions and keep things down to 2/day. Hell, I could quit altogether but then I can't sleep. A huge problem. But then I think...OK, what is more fun, nursing a big boner or reading a book, watching the boob tube, working etc.? Orgasms are just sooo much fun that other things have a tough time competing. Right bikinimom???
 
Really once a day for a guy tends to be the norm. I think you are heading towards the excessive range Testboy but I would have to know your age first. Sexkitten candy when Plifter acts up just remind him of his two inch cock (that's with an erection) and he tends to shut the fuck up.

Star
 
Who wants to be normal??? I am old enough not to tell my age. If I did, the high school girls would not talk to me. I do it more now than in high school...I was always trying to quit in high school and college. Went three days without and wound up in the university medical center with blue balls. The doc told me to grab a Playboy and spank it. Wound up throwing in the towel after that. Thanks.
 
The reason I said how old because as you know boys tend to do so more often. If it is compulsive (which 5 times a day is) I suggest you find the root (get it root...hehe) of the problem and get some help. Anything that interferes with the day to day goings on of your life is a problem and obviously since you are asking you already know that.

Star
 
The fact alone that he would share that nfo w/ me would be a turn on & maybe just maybe he'd let me watch & I'd let him watch & then it could maybe turn into something more....if he had the need to do it everyday then I would just hope he would want to include me & not have to feel defensive abt his needs......
 
My friend is getting divorced because she found her husband whacking off under a blanket in the same room where their young kids were watching TV. THAT'S when you hafta worry. Adults who get off on children are sick.
 
I'll agree with the children thing.

Note to some posters, I said 1-5/X a day. Not 5/X a day. I probably knock out 5/X a day twice a year. 1-2/X is the norm. It's not like I'd be making the world a safer, greener place by abstinence.
 
JESUS... 3-4 times a day?! That's crazy.

Some of you guys need to get a girlfriend, get a better girlfriend, or occupy yourself with... umm... more productive pursuits.
 
Who said anything aout 3-4/X day? Learn to read before you write. The post above yours said 1-2/X dayis he norm. In addition, the poll said: Ladies Only. Perhaps there is a remedial reading program available at your local school for the handicapped.:mad:
 
I am now in a relationship and I save what I have for her... she likes it lots and I have a hard time as it is giving her what she wants....
 
GaryWary said:
I am now in a relationship and I save what I have for her... she likes it lots and I have a hard time as it is giving her what she wants....
Some women are insatiable. You poor fellow.
 
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