ladies need your advice married man , beter relation?

[morf33]

ok ladies,and guys

been married for 7 years , five years ago i thought about seeing someone i meet online and talked to them for a while online ,me and my wife were haveing a hard time finachaly and we started to fall apart , well i had it setup to see this person online cuz she lived it the same city ,i went that nite got off early and as i was driveing i couldnt go thru with meeting this person ,so i headed home after that i walked thru the door and the wife was there with pages of the im i had with this person she had saved them all and we almost got a devorce right then and there , now after several year our relation has been kinda distant and whats totaly a trip is that i have more devotion to her now than i did then ,but she has floated farther away ,our personalitys clash
when we fight because we are both wont give in ,lattly we have worked on this but i have a hard time cuz i allways feel she will pay me back,by actualy doing it or she has given up on me , she sayes i have changed from when we dated ,and i want to show her i am still that person but she keeps me at a comtofable distance ,close ,but wont let me in like she did once ,what should i do ? what can i do ? how can i show her i dont want to hurt her agin ,(we both have been burned by our signifacant others before and i am afraid she will do it as well as she does )

 

[bigmann245]

ok ladies,and guys

been married for 7 years , five years ago i thought about seeing someone i meet online and talked to them for a while online ,me and my wife were haveing a hard time finachaly and we started to fall apart , well i had it setup to see this person online cuz she lived it the same city ,i went that nite got off early and as i was driveing i couldnt go thru with meeting this person ,so i headed home after that i walked thru the door and the wife was there with pages of the im i had with this person she had saved them all and we almost got a devorce right then and there , now after several year our relation has been kinda distant and whats totaly a trip is that i have more devotion to her now than i did then ,but she has floated farther away ,our personalitys clash
when we fight because we are both wont give in ,lattly we have worked on this but i have a hard time cuz i allways feel she will pay me back,by actualy doing it or she has given up on me , she sayes i have changed from when we dated ,and i want to show her i am still that person but she keeps me at a comtofable distance ,close ,but wont let me in like she did once ,what should i do ? what can i do ? how can i show her i dont want to hurt her agin ,(we both have been burned by our signifacant others before and i am afraid she will do it as well as she does )

that sounds like the seven year itch. some make it through some dont. hang in there. show her the way you feel, not just tell her. thats my advice. i know you were looking for a womans perspective but i hope this helps.

 

[bigmann245]

ok ladies,and guys

been married for 7 years , five years ago i thought about seeing someone i meet online and talked to them for a while online ,me and my wife were haveing a hard time finachaly and we started to fall apart , well i had it setup to see this person online cuz she lived it the same city ,i went that nite got off early and as i was driveing i couldnt go thru with meeting this person ,so i headed home after that i walked thru the door and the wife was there with pages of the im i had with this person she had saved them all and we almost got a devorce right then and there , now after several year our relation has been kinda distant and whats totaly a trip is that i have more devotion to her now than i did then ,but she has floated farther away ,our personalitys clash
when we fight because we are both wont give in ,lattly we have worked on this but i have a hard time cuz i allways feel she will pay me back,by actualy doing it or she has given up on me , she sayes i have changed from when we dated ,and i want to show her i am still that person but she keeps me at a comtofable distance ,close ,but wont let me in like she did once ,what should i do ? what can i do ? how can i show her i dont want to hurt her agin ,(we both have been burned by our signifacant others before and i am afraid she will do it as well as she does )

that sounds like the seven year itch. some make it through some dont. hang in there. show her the way you feel, not just tell her. thats my advice. i know you were looking for a womans perspective but i hope this helps.

 

[bigmann245]

ok ladies,and guys

been married for 7 years , five years ago i thought about seeing someone i meet online and talked to them for a while online ,me and my wife were haveing a hard time finachaly and we started to fall apart , well i had it setup to see this person online cuz she lived it the same city ,i went that nite got off early and as i was driveing i couldnt go thru with meeting this person ,so i headed home after that i walked thru the door and the wife was there with pages of the im i had with this person she had saved them all and we almost got a devorce right then and there , now after several year our relation has been kinda distant and whats totaly a trip is that i have more devotion to her now than i did then ,but she has floated farther away ,our personalitys clash
when we fight because we are both wont give in ,lattly we have worked on this but i have a hard time cuz i allways feel she will pay me back,by actualy doing it or she has given up on me , she sayes i have changed from when we dated ,and i want to show her i am still that person but she keeps me at a comtofable distance ,close ,but wont let me in like she did once ,what should i do ? what can i do ? how can i show her i dont want to hurt her agin ,(we both have been burned by our signifacant others before and i am afraid she will do it as well as she does )

that sounds like the seven year itch. some make it through some dont. hang in there. show her the way you feel, not just tell her. thats my advice. i know you were looking for a womans perspective but i hope this helps.

 

[bigmann245]

ok ladies,and guys

been married for 7 years , five years ago i thought about seeing someone i meet online and talked to them for a while online ,me and my wife were haveing a hard time finachaly and we started to fall apart , well i had it setup to see this person online cuz she lived it the same city ,i went that nite got off early and as i was driveing i couldnt go thru with meeting this person ,so i headed home after that i walked thru the door and the wife was there with pages of the im i had with this person she had saved them all and we almost got a devorce right then and there , now after several year our relation has been kinda distant and whats totaly a trip is that i have more devotion to her now than i did then ,but she has floated farther away ,our personalitys clash
when we fight because we are both wont give in ,lattly we have worked on this but i have a hard time cuz i allways feel she will pay me back,by actualy doing it or she has given up on me , she sayes i have changed from when we dated ,and i want to show her i am still that person but she keeps me at a comtofable distance ,close ,but wont let me in like she did once ,what should i do ? what can i do ? how can i show her i dont want to hurt her agin ,(we both have been burned by our signifacant others before and i am afraid she will do it as well as she does )

that sounds like the seven year itch. some make it through some dont. hang in there. show her the way you feel, not just tell her. thats my advice. i know you were looking for a womans perspective but i hope this helps.

 

[bigmann245]

ok ladies,and guys

been married for 7 years , five years ago i thought about seeing someone i meet online and talked to them for a while online ,me and my wife were haveing a hard time finachaly and we started to fall apart , well i had it setup to see this person online cuz she lived it the same city ,i went that nite got off early and as i was driveing i couldnt go thru with meeting this person ,so i headed home after that i walked thru the door and the wife was there with pages of the im i had with this person she had saved them all and we almost got a devorce right then and there , now after several year our relation has been kinda distant and whats totaly a trip is that i have more devotion to her now than i did then ,but she has floated farther away ,our personalitys clash
when we fight because we are both wont give in ,lattly we have worked on this but i have a hard time cuz i allways feel she will pay me back,by actualy doing it or she has given up on me , she sayes i have changed from when we dated ,and i want to show her i am still that person but she keeps me at a comtofable distance ,close ,but wont let me in like she did once ,what should i do ? what can i do ? how can i show her i dont want to hurt her agin ,(we both have been burned by our signifacant others before and i am afraid she will do it as well as she does )

that sounds like the seven year itch. some make it through some dont. hang in there. show her the way you feel, not just tell her. thats my advice. i know you were looking for a womans perspective but i hope this helps.

 

[swaptrex]

okay, we get it!! it's the seven year itch!!

 

[Cutiebaby]

wow.......

 

[MJM79]

okay, we get it!! it's the seven year itch!!

lmao..i guess he felt he had to post it 7xs

 

[allabs]

tell her what your telling us >If u dont c any changes soon ,run like the wind .You have 1 life ,if u feel that youve tried your best just leave dont sit there and hope ,do somthing.