Ladies: If you have sex and don't orgasm

[vinylgroover]

are you still satisfied.

I mean as a man, i can't be happy if i haven't blown a mutha load, but obviously women don't orgasm all the time. So, do you still enjoy the physical act even if you don't cum. Is it a case of the journey being more pleasurable than the destination, or is the destination all important.

Don't get me wrong, i still love the sensation of getting a BJ or the warm sensation of sliding into the punani or the vice like grip of a girls bunghole, but if i don't blow, it's like having to getting up and leave half way through a nice meal.

What about the ladies

 

[Bikini Mod]

I don't have this problem. If I don't get off then he just has some more fucking to do! hehehehhee

Either that or he can lick the kitty. It is all good either way!

 

[magdelana]

I always want to cum when i am having sex. The journey AND the arrival are both wonderful.

However, there have been some women that i had very strong feelings for. These women were sweet and wonderful, but sometimes not very good lovers. In those times, i looked to find other ways to enjoy the sex as sometimes they were not able to give me a orgasm.

It is a myth that all bi and homosexual girls of course know exactly how to lick pussy. Some are quite poor at it.

 

[VooDoo Lady]

99.99% of the time I cum before he gets ANYTHING So I already have one under my belt right out of the gate. Any more are just icing on the cake

But there have been times that I was just too tired to be into and I didn't have an orgasm....but that's few and far between!

Go VDL's hubby!

 

[Blondie Girl]

yea I'll be satisfied,.... but then roll over an hour later and make the guy give me an orgasom!

 

[the nature boy]

I always try to take care of them from the beginning.

 

[Puddles]

The journey should be as much fun as the destination. Earlier this week I got my husband off in the morning without me having an orgasm. I actually stopped him from fucking me so that I could get him off with a quickie b/j because I had to get to work. I went around all day so damn horny. Later that night he took care of me though. It was worth the wait!

I guess it could be compared to having some Hershey's chocolate (that's just the sex part) vs. Godiva (the orgasm), it's all yummy, but some are just better!

 

[BronzedGoddess]

if you've never known what an orgasm feels like, it's hard to feel unsatisfied. the only unsatisfying thing is sex with some one you dont care about and know you will never see again. IMO

 

[katz]

I cum 99.9% of the time. When I don't I'm frustrated.

 

[Gladiola]

I guess it could be compared to having some Hershey's chocolate (that's just the sex part) vs. Godiva (the orgasm), it's all yummy, but some are just better!

I agree - great analogy!

I usually cum at some point (sometimes after him, sometimes before, occasionally simulataneously!), but on occasion I don't. I don't mind when I don't, I still enjoyed it.

Of course, before my current bf, who I've been with for 2.5 years, I NEVER had an orgasm from any man or woman - so my perspective is a little different.