I'm not loud, but a gentle moaner...my body language certainly speaks for itself when we're having sex. I will say what I want and how I want it, but not in a demanding way. I'll talk dirty, but not constant yabbering...that doesn't turn me on. When I'm cumming, I'll say FUCK ME, that's about as nasty and demanding as I get though. When I'm watching Stromba fucking 38, I'll sometimes say FUCK THAT PUSSY...again, that's about as nasty as I am...and it's not said nasty...it's said out of enjoyment of watching them give each other that lustful pleasure we enjoy so much. When he's cumming from a b/j I'll tell him I want to taste him and I'll moan along with his moans...half of the time I'm cumming myself though too. LOL