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Then dominant me, baby!!!
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I thought that we both understood that I am all talk...?
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Ladies, big guys or lean?
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I thought that we both understood that I am all talk...?
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I voted for "shredded." But can't someone be "shredded" and lift heavy weights?
If we're talking about the 'dream man,' I like 'em like 'em ranging from the more buff underwear models to the smaller "pretty boys" like Brad Pitt, Keanu Reeves and the Abercrombie fellows.
Here's what I'm talking about. (I'm bracing myself for the rotten tomatoes!!!) Most male models these days seem to have 6-packs, but it's not all about the abs for me. I like the total package.
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If we're talking about 'real life,' then I'd say some level of muscle tone is ideal, but no bony guys and no grossly overweight guys. Just about anything in between is negotiable -- but be sure to dress well for your body type - if you have a flat butt, don't wear tight jeans! The last man I was with, I would have never picked him out if I saw him at the beach. He had skinny legs, an ass that was BEYOND flat, and no muscle tone. On our first date, he told me that his friend told him that he was "shaped like a suitcase"! But he had naturally broad shoulders and because he played tennis, he had strong shoulders, arms and hands. He was a great dresser - wore clothes that really accented his bod. A good-looking, brilliant, funny guy, a great cook and the best lover I ever had...
If we're talking about the 'dream man,' I like 'em like 'em ranging from the more buff underwear models to the smaller "pretty boys" like Brad Pitt, Keanu Reeves and the Abercrombie fellows.
Here's what I'm talking about. (I'm bracing myself for the rotten tomatoes!!!) Most male models these days seem to have 6-packs, but it's not all about the abs for me. I like the total package.
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If we're talking about 'real life,' then I'd say some level of muscle tone is ideal, but no bony guys and no grossly overweight guys. Just about anything in between is negotiable -- but be sure to dress well for your body type - if you have a flat butt, don't wear tight jeans! The last man I was with, I would have never picked him out if I saw him at the beach. He had skinny legs, an ass that was BEYOND flat, and no muscle tone. On our first date, he told me that his friend told him that he was "shaped like a suitcase"! But he had naturally broad shoulders and because he played tennis, he had strong shoulders, arms and hands. He was a great dresser - wore clothes that really accented his bod. A good-looking, brilliant, funny guy, a great cook and the best lover I ever had...
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Bump for the women who love big strong guys...
I hope I never look like those guys in your links "M"...guess my goals are just different...lol
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I hope I never look like those guys in your links "M"...guess my goals are just different...lol
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c3bodybuilding
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Yikes! I hope I never look like the guys in those links either, wait I used to! That was about 2 years ago... 
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C3 <----- happy to be getting strong and bigBaby Gorilla
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You ask a hard question. I remember seeing a documentary on this stuff. What men and women find attractive in each other is dictated by genetics. If a man is athletic in build (narrow waist and broad shouldered), that's what most women desire. I suppose excess to either extreme doesn't fit the mold and so women don't care for them as much.
I'm out to be a freak. However, my current goal of 220 with < 5% body fat might never be obtainable without more time and work than I'm able to give. I have fast-twitch muscle, so I get lean and shreadded more than I put on mass. My G/F thinks I'm pretty huge now and doesn't understand why I'd want to be some freak at 250+.
This indicates to me that the average woman wants to walk into a room with a good looking guy whose built enough that he can't help but draw attention (he's her trophy) but not so big that he's out to draw attention for his own ego (remember, she want's to come first).
So, super freaks don't get the vote, bean poles don't get the vote, but average lean guys with some definition turn the magic switch. Still comes down to genetically-programmed attraction.
I'm out to be a freak. However, my current goal of 220 with < 5% body fat might never be obtainable without more time and work than I'm able to give. I have fast-twitch muscle, so I get lean and shreadded more than I put on mass. My G/F thinks I'm pretty huge now and doesn't understand why I'd want to be some freak at 250+.
This indicates to me that the average woman wants to walk into a room with a good looking guy whose built enough that he can't help but draw attention (he's her trophy) but not so big that he's out to draw attention for his own ego (remember, she want's to come first).
So, super freaks don't get the vote, bean poles don't get the vote, but average lean guys with some definition turn the magic switch. Still comes down to genetically-programmed attraction.
Baby Gorilla: WoW!!!! Very good observation..
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I agree with Kitkat that a "V-shape" is what catches a girls eye. Nothing is more attractive than a narrow waist, nice stomach and broad shoulders.
Overall though - you have to be well proportioned.
I disagree with men who think that "upper body" is all where it's at. There is nothing funnier than seeing a defined chest, broad shoulders, and a nice flat stomach on a guy - then when you see him in the swimming pool or with shorts on he has these little bird legs. He's missing a key part to BODY building.
I agree with Kitkat that a "V-shape" is what catches a girls eye. Nothing is more attractive than a narrow waist, nice stomach and broad shoulders.
Overall though - you have to be well proportioned.
I disagree with men who think that "upper body" is all where it's at. There is nothing funnier than seeing a defined chest, broad shoulders, and a nice flat stomach on a guy - then when you see him in the swimming pool or with shorts on he has these little bird legs. He's missing a key part to BODY building.
lilchit said:
time to cut her loose, fella.jk. im sure shell learn to love 250 pounders.
just out of curiosity..........when you guys get really huge, can you still be satisfied with skinny little average sized girls? or would you want a hoss of a woman who could spot for ya?
I currently weigh 285 and would like to weigh a lean 300-310 in the next 2 years. Night Fly likes me now and I hope that she would like me better by then. 21" arms, 58" chest, 33" quads, 19" calves, 22" neck, 41-43" waist...I hope she will like that.
Night Fly and I work great together. She isn't a small woman. She is built a lot like me...strong and in shape. I don't like skinny women...I like women with muscle. I also like women who are strong and not afraid to get a bit dirty. Abs on a woman? Great if they have them...but if they have them then their goals and mine are probably not the same.
The day when Night Fly desires a flat stomach, broad shoulders, ripped abs, shaped chest, and a great quad sweep...will probably be the day that we part. I doubt that will happen though. I wanna be a freaking house...a rhino...a bull...a freakin animal.
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