I've had it with the "bitter OLDER man" syndrome...

[marshallmadman]

No, no darlin... my self-esteem is fine. It is just that I never really cared much what a man looked like naked as I was into his mind and personality. I guess I was treating a booty-call like it was someone that I would "care" about. We clicked initially, but when his clothing came off and it was showtime, dude came up lacking BIGTIME.

I get the picture now. You seem like a very intelligent individual. For example, you can spell, and form sentences that make sense. That's a lot more than I can say for most of the people that post here. (Just kidding. You are all like family to me.) It seems that you would require a man that is more intellectually stimulating than he is eye-candy. You can have both, you know. You just have to know where to look.

 

[Werd]

Okay! Where can I pick you up?

Seriously, why don't you call the last guy back and help him deal with his shit (sounds like a wife or something)?

Been trying, but there is nothing I can do.

I love him to death, want very much to marry him and for us to have a family together, but he needs to deal with *his stuff* on his own.

 

[EnderJE]

So then, why don't you want if you want to marry him rather then search around?

 

[wutangnomo]

LOL bitter? You make this determination from the .05 posts that I make every 15th day of the month? You must be psyhic!

heheheheheheheheheee

I use elite as a sounding board when I have time/opportunity/inclination to do so. This makes me bitter.... how?

It is really too bad that some are so shortsighted that they dont realize that what is posted up here (which is a sliver of a blink of an eye in the time that is my reality) is but a mere triliant of a facet that is who I am in real life.

bitter?... pissed off as hell that my ex is SUCH an asshole = one pisspoor excuse for a man.

older?... hehehehehehe THAT is the funniest part! I have life experience darlin.... I am anything BUT older... only a number on my birth certificate. My ass is 22, my attitude is timeless. Anyone who has ever only talked to me off the minimicrocosm that is elite knows this.




Funny thing? MOST WOMEN IN THE REAL WORLD AGREE WITH ME 100%!

Velvett.... I will be taking my baby to the city tomorrow to see the tree for her bday present. I'll be thinking of you as we watch the many skaters at R Center.

What does your post number have to do with anything? Your post clearly SCREAMS bitter. Funny that two others recognize and "voice" that same opinion.

As far as "older", yes you are an "older" woman. Sheesh you refer to men 40 and up as older, yet you're almost 40 yourself. Those same men you call bitter OLDER men may also have a timeless attitude and think they have the ass of a 22 year old, so if you can refer to them as older, well then, that makes you older as well.

Damn I must say you are sounding more and more like Jersey Art.

ps... Yeah I'm a psychic.

 

[MasterBates]

but come on she has an ass of a 22 year old and a smile thats neverending or whatever

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i think part of your problem is that youve swallowed the idea that people need to be part of a loving couple, hook, line and sinker. fact is, people dont, and our biological needs are different to those perceived needs instilled in us from birth

i think its wrong to get upset at this guy for being emotionally detatched (or at least, distant) after a bad experience, since some people do not have the coping mechanisms needed to get over that sort of thing.

dont take this the wrong way, werd, but i think what you dont like about these men is something that you, yourself, project. youve been burnt, you havnt fully recovered, and as a result, every time something goes wrong in your love life, you demonise men and have a big whine about them/their faults, rather than accept taht sometimes relationships dont go well, or that the root cause of the relationship failing was on your end.

i think you go into relationships loaded with preconceived expectations that can sometimes be abrasive, and lead to (the wrong sort of) friction.

chill. then chill some more. then have a vodka, and keep chilling. and have a merry happy new christmas

now, hola csonti? hola csonti? ot! OT DA CSONTI

 

[CrazyK]

PS - I am pushing 40 (a few years shy, have an ass that is 22 and a smile and spirit that is timeless).

Absolutely full of yourself. Lady, you are not even close to being on my level, and I don't even need a pic of you to prove that to myself.

 

[evansteve]

I am SO SICK and FUCKING TIRED of dudes in their 40's and up who have bitch-tits and hyuge guts, no ass (that is fucking hairy) and scrawny ass legs... who go on and on about how they "are tired of being taken advantage of" (whatever the fuck THAT means) and are ABSOLUTELY LOUSY in the sack....

HA! Here is proof that women are shallow, and care just as much about appearances as men do.

I decided to break my lifelong rule and go for younger men.

I'll let yall know how it works out. heheheheheee

Read the thread in Between the Sheets, I've already lined up

 

[Razorguns]

so you gonna apologize for all those threads praising older men, and chiding younger men for being immature? And lashing at all those who disagreed!!

(btw: all those qulaities you just described, exist quite plentifully in younger men may i add)

 

[H_T_]

well, good luck with that.