I've got a problem

[momsgettinfit]

If you read my intro you know that I have just gotten back into working out about 2 or 3 months ago and have done a complete over haul of our diet. My husband and I joined the gym together well we actually did a family membership at the y,my problem is that he's getting mad at me for going into the heavy weightroom to lift. I have asked him to go with me and we could lift together but he refuses to go in. He lifts but not as serious as I do. Like example last night I was in there and I looked out the window and could see him in the gym playing ball and stopped to watch me and who I was talking to. How do I know he was doing this b/c he questioned me about who they were and what they wanted. GRRRR!!! I feel like choking him!!! Have any of you had this problem and if so how did you deal with it.

 

[*MissFit*]

Tell him to join you or SHHH

 

[momsgettinfit]

Tell him to join you or SHHH

That's pretty much my attitude now. For the first couple of months I didn't even go in there b/c of the way he was acting but when I decided to get serious about what I was doing I knew I had to get in there. I would love for him to join me but if he doesn't I can't let that hold me back from my goals. LOL I swear I married the closest to a woman as I could get. LOL

 

[*MissFit*]

My boyfriend and i have been working out together.. i find it pretty hot.. seeing him getting sweety is a turn on

That's pretty much my attitude now. For the first couple of months I didn't even go in there b/c of the way he was acting but when I decided to get serious about what I was doing I knew I had to get in there. I would love for him to join me but if he doesn't I can't let that hold me back from my goals. LOL I swear I married the closest to a woman as I could get. LOL

 

[momsgettinfit]

My boyfriend and i have been working out together.. i find it pretty hot.. seeing him getting sweety is a turn on

I have talking to him about lifting with me and he's thinking about it. My only problem is that he's a basketball junkie and says if he's lifting with me all the time he won't be able to play. I'm hoping that we can meet in the middle with this, it would nice to have him with me.

 

[Sassy69]

He can have his BB time & you can have your DB time.

 

[Raina]

I agree with Sassy. Unless someone is training with me, I'm in my own little world at the gym. I'm ultimately there for ME. That's my time.

 

[momsgettinfit]

I have no problem with each of us doing our own thing but I don't want him thinking he has to keep checking on me and questioning who talks to me or who I'm talking to and what we talked about. He went in with me last night and we talked about things last night and he said he doesn't like going in there b/c the guys are so much bigger than he is. I told him they were born like that,I said they work hard for it,they eat the right foods(at least I hope they do) and work out hard to get the results they want. I added that if it were that easy to have bulk or tone and muscle we all would have it. He stuck his tongue out at me and mocked me a little(teasing) and then turned around and started searching Ebay. LOL

 

[Gymgurl]

Buy some headphones...listen to music and ignore the other people while working out..I tell my hubby deal with or workout with me...which he hates....but it is my time away from the kids!

 

[momsgettinfit]

Buy some headphones...listen to music and ignore the other people while working out..I tell my hubby deal with or workout with me...which he hates....but it is my time away from the kids!

I never go to the gym without my headphones. It's my time away from the kiddos too,I'm a sahm so it makes going that much better. Relaxing.