It's official

[AFeedz]

hold up there! He didn't say anything about not wanting to meatup!

lol!

what a good wingman lol

 

[lartinos]

If you didn't lose any money than you got off easier than most. If someone says they don't want to be with you for that long they must have complaints. I am sure my ex I had for 4 years had a long list ( I know she did). But... I proved that bitch so wrong and she feels like a fool now I'm sure, lol.

 

[miplank]

If you didn't lose any money than you got off easier than most. If someone says they don't want to be with you for that long they must have complaints. I am sure my ex I had for 4 years had a long list ( I know she did). But... I proved that bitch so wrong and she feels like a fool now I'm sure, lol.

*then

 

[lartinos]

*then

Than and then always confuse me
But still the spelling mistakes I remember most are when you and Pick fug up... because you guys are always correcting others

 

[nangiggles]

How long were you completely single Traz? sounds like you found someone new to take care of you, first you gotta take care of yourself bro, otherwise you're just hiding from things.

 

[canadianhitman]

what a good wingman lol

+1

That was good bro material for sure.


Traz: congrats for having the courage to pull the plug on an unhappy marriage. Sounds like you have moved on like a champ...good on you, bro.

 

[PICK3]

Than and then always confuse me

i often get confused by "chose" & "choose"

and, "quit" & "quite"

 

[PICK3]

Traz,

who's hawter (just looks) the gf or the ex?

 

[EnderJE]

Traz,

who's hawter (just looks) the gf or the ex?

We need pictures, for science!

 

[calveless wonder]

I'm not sure what to make of it to be honest. In a nutshell, my wife asked for separation. I was devastated. I asked her to re-think about it and asked her to give me her word that we will separate for a while but work on ourselves to come back and be together....she said she can't promise me anything. I was very depressed for a few weeks. Almost lost my job, stopped going to work, didn't care about getting out of bed. I found a condo, moved into my own place, bought furniture and did it all in under a week...it was hectic and hard to do by myself...I have no family in Canada....and all my friends were her friends before so everyone just ditched my ass because they blamed me...so here I was, no family, no friends....etc...

After 2 weeks of misery, I start thinking about this with a clear head and decide that even though I love her and want things to work out, we have nothing in common, we don't get along and we're always fighting...we just don't mesh...I called her one month before we were supposed to get together to make a decision and told her it was over. She was devastated...cried for hours, begged me to take her back....I couldnt do it. I said this is best for both of us....I said it breaks my heart but I cant be in a relationship with someone who is not happy with me...we havent had been intimate for a few months and everyone knows what that does to a man. She said she bluffed and didnt really want a divorce...she just wanted me to change. I said this is my life and you can't bluff something like that. I told her I loved her and wished her luck.

We started the divorce and haven't talked since.

I miss her a great deal and love her more than words can say. I'm heartbroken and not ashamed to say I feel like I made a mistake by not taking her back. The mature part of me says that I did what's best for both of us.

On the bright side, my new girlfriend is a beautiful Irish, German, Lebanese woman - 31 yrs old...4 years older than me. She owns a sports bar and she loves me to death. She's already moved in with me. She does my laundry, cooks for me, cleans my condo, does my grocery shopping and I don't even ask her to do it.....and it also helps that we have sex 2-3 times a day...and our sex life is amazing. We have so much in common. I spent Christmas with her family at their house and spent Thanksgiving at their cottage...good times.

I still miss my ex-wife and wonder what she is doing everyday. I cannot help but feel very guilty about how this went down.

i'm sorry man...like bino, i also had no idea and thought you were happily married.

in one sense, i can't say i'm surprised. getting married young is a surefire way to get divorced sooner than later. but that doesn't make it any easier.

i feel for ya bro...it's good that you broke the cycle becasue you would have just prolonged the inevitable by taking her back. it takes strength to make that decision instead of just keeping people around because you're afraid to lose them or be alone.

however, meeting a new girl and letting her move in right away is NOT healthy. she's a rebound, and you're not thinking clearly. all that stuff is great about the cooking/laundry etc but you barely know this person and you just made a kneejerk reaction out of loneliness. you need to let yourself deal with all the feelings before you jump into a new relationship


trust me...i'm in a somewhat similar boat right now although no marriage tag was attached. i feel like complete crap and even though i feel lonely right now i know i'm not in a position to be in a relationship