It's official

[zwhit]

I agree moving on is best, but not so serious so fast

 

[HAYEZ]

i am going thru the exact same thing right now...my wife said she wanted a divorce unless i changed...so i got my act together and was a role model for all husbands since last summer...my xmas gift was she said she doesnt want to be married to me anyhmore hahaha so now im moving to cali and she is taking my house that i owned outright...fuck getting a new gf...ill be single for rest fo mylife now

I'm not sure what to make of it to be honest. In a nutshell, my wife asked for separation. I was devastated. I asked her to re-think about it and asked her to give me her word that we will separate for a while but work on ourselves to come back and be together....she said she can't promise me anything. I was very depressed for a few weeks. Almost lost my job, stopped going to work, didn't care about getting out of bed. I found a condo, moved into my own place, bought furniture and did it all in under a week...it was hectic and hard to do by myself...I have no family in Canada....and all my friends were her friends before so everyone just ditched my ass because they blamed me...so here I was, no family, no friends....etc...

After 2 weeks of misery, I start thinking about this with a clear head and decide that even though I love her and want things to work out, we have nothing in common, we don't get along and we're always fighting...we just don't mesh...I called her one month before we were supposed to get together to make a decision and told her it was over. She was devastated...cried for hours, begged me to take her back....I couldnt do it. I said this is best for both of us....I said it breaks my heart but I cant be in a relationship with someone who is not happy with me...we havent had been intimate for a few months and everyone knows what that does to a man. She said she bluffed and didnt really want a divorce...she just wanted me to change. I said this is my life and you can't bluff something like that. I told her I loved her and wished her luck.

We started the divorce and haven't talked since.

I miss her a great deal and love her more than words can say. I'm heartbroken and not ashamed to say I feel like I made a mistake by not taking her back. The mature part of me says that I did what's best for both of us.

On the bright side, my new girlfriend is a beautiful Irish, German, Lebanese woman - 31 yrs old...4 years older than me. She owns a sports bar and she loves me to death. She's already moved in with me. She does my laundry, cooks for me, cleans my condo, does my grocery shopping and I don't even ask her to do it.....and it also helps that we have sex 2-3 times a day...and our sex life is amazing. We have so much in common. I spent Christmas with her family at their house and spent Thanksgiving at their cottage...good times.

I still miss my ex-wife and wonder what she is doing everyday. I cannot help but feel very guilty about how this went down.

 

[EarthRider]

so the moral of the story is, if you do steroids you will get a divorce?

 

[the_alcatraz]

Beauty - wife
Sexiness and friskiness - gf

Here are the facts:

This new gf made me work hard for her...she turned me down at first because she said she had no time. She just opened her sports bar 6 months ago and she works long hours...I did my thing and got her. This was a homerun from the start. We have so much in common (more than I ever had with any girl) We are both nature oriented, like to hike, ride horses, fight, swin, rock climb, run, etc...we like to travel and experience new things. We both love sex and we're both really good at it...so it works great. Did I mention she loves doing everything for me...and to be honest man, she made me fall in love with her in 4 months. That has never happened to me...ever. This is not a rebound. I went on a sex binge and slept with more woman than half the guys in this thread ever did...in one month. I dated / slept with so many women I swear to you just sex got boring. I need someone in my life and it feels good to come home to someone who makes you feel like a real man....who years for you to climb up on top of them and who ride like a champ, in bed and on the street, so to speak....she's down for whatever and we're great together. We even go salsa dancing and have a great time. It helps that she owns her own business and she's independant. I don't have to feel like I have to babysit because she's 4 years older than me....definately marriage material but not until another 3-4 years at least...if all remains well.

CW, I know exactly what you are saying bro....but maybe something that may start as a rebound can turn into something a lot more?

Bino, CEO and everyone else...I love you guys. Seriously. CEO, you would be the ultimate wingman.

Rachel, we were supposed to meet up a while back but never did. I'll hit you up when I'm in your area again. I think I still have your digits.

 

[ceo]

Best way to heal is to move on to someone else. Way to go Traz!

LOL! Best way to get over someone is to get under someone new!

Hellz yeah!!! ^5

 

[wootoom]

*were

lol!!!

 

[miplank]

I got an eyelash in my eye, need hydros.

 

[wootoom]

I got an eyelash in my eye, need hydros.

LOL that actually hurts...i would need 4 for an injury that severe

 

[miplank]

Lolllolololol

 

[ceo]

Beauty - wife
Sexiness and friskiness - gf

Here are the facts:

This new gf made me work hard for her...she turned me down at first because she said she had no time. She just opened her sports bar 6 months ago and she works long hours...I did my thing and got her. This was a homerun from the start. We have so much in common (more than I ever had with any girl) We are both nature oriented, like to hike, ride horses, fight, swin, rock climb, run, etc...we like to travel and experience new things. We both love sex and we're both really good at it...so it works great. Did I mention she loves doing everything for me...and to be honest man, she made me fall in love with her in 4 months. That has never happened to me...ever. This is not a rebound. I went on a sex binge and slept with more woman than half the guys in this thread ever did...in one month. I dated / slept with so many women I swear to you just sex got boring. I need someone in my life and it feels good to come home to someone who makes you feel like a real man....who years for you to climb up on top of them and who ride like a champ, in bed and on the street, so to speak....she's down for whatever and we're great together. We even go salsa dancing and have a great time. It helps that she owns her own business and she's independant. I don't have to feel like I have to babysit because she's 4 years older than me....definately marriage material but not until another 3-4 years at least...if all remains well.

CW, I know exactly what you are saying bro....but maybe something that may start as a rebound can turn into something a lot more?

Bino, CEO and everyone else...I love you guys. Seriously. CEO, you would be the ultimate wingman.

Rachel, we were supposed to meet up a while back but never did. I'll hit you up when I'm in your area again. I think I still have your digits.

Sounds like you got your head on right! I'm proud of you bro! And what's right for one person isn't necessarily the same for all. People deal with things differently. Some people get over things faster than others, or accept things quicker. Nice job on banging all them hoes! Atta boy! We would be unstoppable bro. I got your back.

As for the differences (beauty vs. sexiness/friskiness), I'd take the sexy/frisky any day. A girl like that is way better than a frigid beauty. Who cares how beautiful a woman is if she's a bitch or you always argue or she has little interest in sex with you. A sexy woman who is turned on by you and initiates sexual activity with you is more beautiful to me than a gorgeous beauty who is a cold, harsh bitch.