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Is Having A "F*#k Buddy" Realistic??

Tried a couple before I left San Marcos(Texas State)this summer and with in 2 weeks they would be texting "I already miss you" 2 seconds after I left their house at 5 in the morning or they would bug about how I need to tell them that atleast I like them because they knew I did....IMPOSSIBLE after a period of time..."with time spent emotion grows"
 
Bobber said:
Tried a couple before I left San Marcos(Texas State)this summer and with in 2 weeks they would be texting "I already miss you" 2 seconds after I left their house at 5 in the morning or they would bug about how I need to tell them that atleast I like them because they knew I did....IMPOSSIBLE after a period of time..."with time spent emotion grows"
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Were the ground rules laid out before the action began?
 
StickFigure said:
Were the ground rules laid out before the action began?
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I try my best to never lead anyone on...in those cases they knew full well that I was graduating and that it was my last summer in college. God I miss those days.
 
I had a girl that was my drinking buddy back when I was a teenager. We sometimes fooled around when we were drunk but we just acted like nothing happened once we sobered up. However, we never actually had intercourse, just making out and oral sex.
 
there r no rules when the heart is involved.. and not always women who develop feelings
 
ceasar989 said:
I turned down a fuck buddy just this past month actually... but it was because I've been talking with this other girl for a year now who's kinda far away and we arent actually seeing each other because of the distance...but even still, I feel a committed to being with this girl and I just feel bad when I get involved with other girls from around here. I get feelings of guilt and what not...it's weird considering we arent even together. I told her this and how I felt (for about 8 months, we talked as friends) and she said that she was the same way and she said she wants to wait it out for me because she just feels like its gonna work when we come together.
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She's cheating on you.
 
A girl I know juggled about 6 fuck buddies at a time for a year. when she got tired of one she told him off and found a new one.

Shes very insecure and dishonest. She brags about her sexlife all the time.
 
well i dont care much about feelings, mainly cause i have no morals. im about go for the 2/4/2. 2 different girls in 2 nights
 
Before I met my current GF, I had regular sex with an ex of mine. Both of us knew we just didn't work, but we both needed sex. We often got together, had sex, and went about our lives as normal. I think it worked because we had the ground rules set.
 
Falklands said:
I'm my own fuck buddy!!!!
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same for me. but i love myself.
 
It's absolutely possible and can go on for years with a full blown friendship between the participants. It all depends on the participants and their expectations of the relationship as far as how well it works for them. It's been my experience that sex doesn't usually start out as an objective but is something that just evolves from a friendship if it's going to last. It works best if the people don't live in close proximity but it works with neighbors just fine too.
 
SublimeZM said:
having a fuck buddy is basically what a relationship is
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Exactly, it was a clever marketing idea from guys.
How do I get to have sex with a woman and not treat her right, the weaker minds of the female populace fell for it.
There always exceptions to the rule, butl human nature takes place and one invariably becomes attached.
I think itd be funny if someone wanted to break up with a fuck buddy is to like every time they had sex, the guy left her like a 50$bill. See her reaction after she recognizes the pattern, a reality check
 
Ulter said:
It's absolutely possible and can go on for years with a full blown friendship between the participants. It all depends on the participants and their expectations of the relationship as far as how well it works for them.
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My best friend has the same theory and I totally disagree with it

if one can separate the act from the emotions I feel that hat is dangerous territory for the soul

darn you guys lol
 
OMEGA said:
My best friend has the same theory and I totally disagree with it

if one can separate the act from the emotions I feel that hat is dangerous territory for the soul

darn you guys lol
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I agree. Besides, why would you want to remove the emotional aspects? That takes everything to a whole new level.

Having a fuck buddy is something that I just cant do.
 
I have a few friends that i have known for awhile who have similar situations; divorced, kids, career, etc. When I am in need of their company I call and plans are made and vice versa. Ill admit that things can get complicated and out of hand if you let them, that is why I am up front with what I want and what I do not want. I have never had any of them ask me about taking it any further, but I think that is because I am an asshole and they can only stand being around me for a couple of hours a month. But thats ok with me.
 
ceasar989 said:
I agree. Besides, why would you want to remove the emotional aspects? That takes everything to a whole new level.

Having a fuck buddy is something that I just cant do.
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I think that people say that they can have a *uck buddy say that in order to legitimze their need to satisfy the Lower Basal Self.
I also think to treat another as an object for pleasure only negates the higher part of our humanity which contains love, affection, and sacrifice.
 
Yes, I have two. One i've had for a couple of years. THe other about 6 months now.
BUT, if i'm dating someone, or they are, we don't do anything.

Whiskey
 
Short term yes, long term probably not. If a girl isn't the clingy type and you dont give a shit if she wants to date you then it could probably work for a while.
 
I have a goodie drawer full, no emotions, no demands, no fugging man brain to deal with. I just have to make sure i have a back up of batteries.

other wise.. I say no. Some how some where down the line something will screw up
 
Ulter said:
It's absolutely possible and can go on for years with a full blown friendship between the participants. It all depends on the participants and their expectations of the relationship as far as how well it works for them. It's been my experience that sex doesn't usually start out as an objective but is something that just evolves from a friendship if it's going to last. It works best if the people don't live in close proximity but it works with neighbors just fine too.
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didn't know you visted c&c good sir..
 
StickFigure said:
Discuss.
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yes its realistic untill she finds out that you are also sleeping with her girlfriend's sister.

you have to be really, really good in bed and pretend to be horrible in all the other departments....

like talking on the phone with them.
listening to thier problems (especially on the phone)
taking them out


dont do anything that a boyfriend does. Give her no other reason to want to keep you around but one, that being your ability to bang her till she is blue in the face and says "I just dont know howww you dooo it, wow'

happy humping,

Exosist :redhot:
 
Ulter said:
Well I started stalking Raina about a week ago and I ended up here.
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Nice to see you 'round here.

Agree on your points about the distance helping maintain the "relationship".
 
its possible. both parties have to be adult about it and have a good understanding about the relationship, but don`t expect it to last a long time because someone will start to care. See eachother every once and a while, don`t hang out doing other things and never tell them you love them( even if its just to get some ass)
 
For a while I'd run into a chick at the bar and every time we'd fuck. I guess it was kind of like having a fuck buddy. Her friend would call me occasionally and say "hey, you going out tonight?" If I said yes, this chick would always be there and I'd get laid.

Of course, that ended right about the time I found out she was still married and not divorced like she claimed.


There was another chick that we agreed in the beginning that we were friends with benifits, nothing more. That didn't work out very well. One week she'd say "let's just be friends, no benifits." I was cool with that. The next week she'd say she wanted the benifits back, so I was cool with that. Then the following week she wanted a serious relationship, and I was not cool with that.

That went on for about 3 months until she finally stopped coming around. She showed up one time unannounced (she lived ~2 hours away) and I was out all night. She had the nerve to get pissed at me when she found me the next day, asking where I was. I said, "there is no boyfriend-girlfriend relationship here, so don't give me that 'where were you' shit."

She had some issues.
 
I had my first fuck buddy this summer, for a few months, I've always been a long term guy until this. Amazing sex, no dates or dinners or drama, just sex.

It's not my thing, I want more than that out of a relationship with a woman. I like dating, going out together, doing things together; having just sex gets old hat without the intimacy and the actual building of a relationship. Sex without feelings or trust just isn't for me I guess...
 
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