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Is a little jealousy healthy?

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Right when cw made his thread I was about to ask the same question. Don't read too much into this...lol I am just wondering.

For example..if I was an actress I know for a fact taht Johnny wouldn't have give a shit. Most guy's I've dated trust me and I can do whatever I want. Sometimes I wonder if they ever care/cared.
 
a little jealousy sbows that you care. Too much shows you're possessive or controlling.

It also depends on your culture or background. Latin people tend to be jealous, and I somewhat inherited that. trust goes a long way but I think anyone who loves somebody is going to be prone to at least bouts of jealously in speciic instances.
 
calveless wonder said:
a little jealousy sbows that you care. Too much shows you're possessive or controlling.

It also depends on your culture or background. Latin people tend to be jealous, and I somewhat inherited that. trust goes a long way but I think anyone who loves somebody is going to be prone to at least bouts of jealously in speciic instances.
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I think you're right. :(
 
I think it depends on what you get jealous over. Getting a teeny bit jealous is warranted over some things, but if for example you get jealous because say your SO is texting and you automatically assume it's to someone worth getting jealous over, then no it's not healthy. Because if that's the case you clearly don't trust the person enough to be with them.
 
not to mention didn't you tell johnny about that when you cheated on johnny at the bar and he didn't care.

Red flag right there.
 
or maybe he did care, but didn't show it.

He was pry like, fuck this i'm gonna tell cindy i'm going hunting and pick up some strange.
 
I never cheated on Johnny...ever. You are just twisting it to sound that way and I'm not going to indulge you by responding to it.
 
calveless wonder said:
a little jealousy sbows that you care. Too much shows you're possessive or controlling.

It also depends on your culture or background. Latin people tend to be jealous, and I somewhat inherited that. trust goes a long way but I think anyone who loves somebody is going to be prone to at least bouts of jealously in speciic instances.
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I agree but lol @ how you always bring culture into it. You're the resident ethnicity expert.
 
inkspot said:
No, I don't think any form of jealousy is healthy, it just means you are not in control of yourself.
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Please .... Get off the soapbox. Jealousy is one most primal and instinctive emotions. it's normal to feel in a small dose given certain circumstances, even if it's brief and you have to rationally frame it to calm it.

If you're completely devoid of it, it means you're not emotionally invested enough in that person. That doesn't mean be a controlling psycho but there are specific situations that can make any rational human being jealous. .
 
calveless wonder said:
Please .... Get off the soapbox. Jealousy is one most primal and instinctive emotions. it's normal to feel in a small dose given certain circumstances, even if it's brief and you have to rationally frame it to calm it.

If you're completely devoid of it, it means you're not emotionally invested enough in that person. That doesn't mean be a controlling psycho but there are specific situations that can make any rational human being jealous. .
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Fuck, is that what it means???
 
calveless wonder said:
Please .... Get off the soapbox. Jealousy is one most primal and instinctive emotions. it's normal to feel in a small dose given certain circumstances, even if it's brief and you have to rationally frame it to calm it.

If you're completely devoid of it, it means you're not emotionally invested enough in that person. That doesn't mean be a controlling psycho but there are specific situations that can make any rational human being jealous. .
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Yep.....a little is caring about a person ..too much is nuts.

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cindylou said:
Right when cw made his thread I was about to ask the same question. Don't read too much into this...lol I am just wondering.

For example..if I was an actress I know for a fact taht Johnny wouldn't have give a shit. Most guy's I've dated trust me and I can do whatever I want. Sometimes I wonder if they ever care/cared.
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If most guys you dated trusted you that much, you are probably a goody-two-shoes and they didn't feel there was anything to be jealous about.

That's the way it is with my wife. She's incapable of bending even the smallest of rules so I know there's no way she'd cheat.
 
TRUE jealousy is an outgrowth of the jealous person's inherent insecurity issues. It's about fear of losing the object of their affection because they don't believe they are worthy.

It is possible to desire to be monogamous, to not resent any outside intrusion yet not become green eyed about it, and yet not be possessively jealous. It's a maturity thing, really.

I think poly/open relationships can work ... that being said, I don't think those relationships can ever be as truly intimate (psychologically) as monogamous relationships have the potential to be.
 
calveless wonder said:
Please .... Get off the soapbox. Jealousy is one most primal and instinctive emotions. it's normal to feel in a small dose given certain circumstances, even if it's brief and you have to rationally frame it to calm it.

If you're completely devoid of it, it means you're not emotionally invested enough in that person. That doesn't mean be a controlling psycho but there are specific situations that can make any rational human being jealous. .
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stop trying to justify your insecurities :)
 
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cindylou said:
Right when cw made his thread I was about to ask the same question. Don't read too much into this...lol I am just wondering.

For example..if I was an actress I know for a fact taht Johnny wouldn't have give a shit. Most guy's I've dated trust me and I can do whatever I want. Sometimes I wonder if they ever care/cared.
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it depends what you want.

if you want them, jealousy is good because it shows they care.
if you want them no jealousy is good because it shows they are secure.

if you dont want them anymore, jealousy is bad, the clingy lil faggot!
if you dont want them anymore, no jealousy is bad because that fucker didnt even give a fuck!

hope this helps:stilleto:
 
Sub-Zero said:
it depends what you want.

if you want them, jealousy is good because it shows they care.
if you want them no jealousy is good because it shows they are secure.

if you dont want them anymore, jealousy is bad, the clingy lil faggot!
if you dont want them anymore, no jealousy is bad because that fucker didnt even give a fuck!

hope this helps:stilleto:
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i see youve dealt with many a woman
 
The irony of this thread is that most people who say they aren't jealous or dont need to be in this thread have either been guilty of cheating/infedility , or at the minimum...super shady dealings outside their marriage.
 
calveless wonder said:
The irony of this thread is that most people who say they aren't jealous or dont need to be in this thread have either been guilty of cheating/infedility , or at the minimum...super shady dealings outside their marriage.
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unpossible, this is the internet where all intentions are clean, pure, and innocent
 
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Sub-Zero said:
bro my teacher talked about phagocytizing today and i almost stood up and yelled with an angry face:


"YOU FUCKING PHAGOCYTEEEEE"
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if you did that while recording on video or something i would have paypaled you some fuckin cash
 
nydj66 said:
If most guys you dated trusted you that much, you are probably a goody-two-shoes and they didn't feel there was anything to be jealous about.

That's the way it is with my wife. She's incapable of bending even the smallest of rules so I know there's no way she'd cheat.
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Bro...I so wish this was true and unconditional. Def not teh case. Shit happens, circumstances arise, and mistakes can be made if your not on top of your game.
 
calveless wonder said:
The irony of this thread is that most people who say they aren't jealous or dont need to be in this thread have either been guilty of cheating/infedility , or at the minimum...super shady dealings outside their marriage.
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I was never jealous when it came to my ex and I probably should have been at times. I just knew I wasn't going anywhere and didn't think she was either. She'd tell me when her clients or others would hit on her and I'd wonder why they'd hit on her when they knew she was with me, but I always felt confident in our relationship.

pwnt
 
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jnevin said:
I was never jealous when it came to my ex and I probably should have been at times. I just knew I wasn't going anywhere and didn't think she was either. She'd tell me when her clients or others would hit on her and I'd wonder why they'd hit on her when they knew she was with me, but I always felt confident in our relationship.

pwnt
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i fuckin hate those sketchy fucks who are all flirty wit your girl behind your back, and all faux respectful to your face. its like you are fucking terrrified of me but still all "im such a badass" in front of my girl when im not around. only the whoriest of whores will fall for that shit.

and i too have experienced the shit when girls tell you about everyone in their day that has hit on them. very annoying, and instead of getting my attention just makes me desire them less
 
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Never said i wasn't jealous. Sometimes I get a little upset/jealous whan my wife hangs out with certain friends but thats about it.
 
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I think that there is a certain amount of concern that happens when you care about someone that is appropriate and isn't destructive.
 
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Sub-Zero said:
i fuckin hate those sketchy fucks who are all flirty wit your girl behind your back, and all faux respectful to your face. its like you are fucking terrrified of me but still all "im such a badass" in front of my girl when im not around. only the whoriest of whores will fall for that shit.

and i too have experienced the shit when girls tell you about everyone in their day that has hit on them. very annoying, and instead of getting my attention just makes me desire them less
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I'd flirt with your girl right in front of you.


Then I'd flirt with you in front of her. :heart: :unicorn: :rainbow:
 
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