I'm going to have a cry.

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Taps

He listens to me, I have asked him to sort of try and give it up, he said he is going to (one day soon), he still hasn't yet. He cares for me heaps I know this... May be I will ask again, I just don't want to be a whinging girlfriend, you know how us women get...

thanks

 

[Hannibal]

"No man is worth your tears, and the right one won't make you cry."

Kitten...just talk to him about it. Expressing you feelings is entirely different from whining. Plus you aren't exactly asking him to quit....yet. Just asking him to tone it down a bit. If he cares for you...it shouldn't be a problem. Besides like you said...why does he need pot to relax him...he's got you

 

[stopher]

jesus christ. its only weed. how many deaths a year are directly caused by smoking weed? feel fortunate tht he's not into harder drugs and live with it.

 

[WODIN]

Heroin is the answer! A little smack at bed time and he'll be floatin....

 

[Longhorn85]

I suggest that you dump him, now. I've seen your pics, you are a young attractive woman. You seem smart and have your whole life ahead of you. You can certainly do better. You say you want this guy to be the only one? Why? Do you want the father of your children to be a drug addict?

Better get out now before bigger problems come down the road.

 

[frorider6]

Juice does a body good but then again, it can cause insomnia

Don't forget the nightsweats too.

 

[karde]

There is a problem if you need to use substances to do what should be a normal function, which in this case is sleep.

 

[MasterMind]

Hey the truth is that if it isn't really interfering in his professional life then he doesn't feel the need to stop it....maybe I'm crazy, but start somking with him and his friends...act like a total idiot, tease him a bit and then when you get home after you have him all worked up pass out.......the next morning tell him you had a ball and you want to smoke with him from now on....trust me...he'll cut down

 

[Crazier]

Does he beat you when he tokes up or something??? I mean, it's not like he's getting drunk and angry, violent and all that other shit. All I hear you say is "I hate pot." Why don't you like to be around him when he is high??? Leave the poor guy alone, and let him toke some damn reefer with his friends, bitch.
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[Honeynut]

If you never say anything about it, you can't blame him for not doing it on his own. You can tell him you don't really like hanging around everyone when they're high, because you don't smoke and it's kind of uncomfortable to be the only sober person in the room. You'll spend less time together, and one of two things will happen - either he'll start cutting down to be with you more, or he'll distance himself 'cause he prefers getting high with his buddies to hanging out with you.

Personally, if my boyfriend was getting high all the time, it would bother me, and I'd probably get a little whiny with him. I don't want to be a whiny girlfriend either. I'd do my best to tell him what was bothering me so we could fix it together... I don't want to change anyone, but this is still my relationship too! I have a right to speak up when I'm not happy, just as my boyfriend does. If he was unwilling to meet me in the middle to resolve an issue that was threatening our happiness as a couple, I'd find another boyfriend.

A close girlfriend of mine is a complete pothead,and it's so boring sitting around with all her friends when they're high. I have nothing against it, I would just prefer not to be there. When she wants to get high, she can hang out with those friends. When she wants to get off her ass and do something, she can call me.