I'm going to have a cry.

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Because I don’t want to seem like I am trying to change him. He likes to do it, I mean, I don’t mind when he does it, but I just think he does it a little too much… It pisses me especially when we go to his mates joint and they all start pulling buckets or whatever, I just hate being there, when they are all munged out.

 

[spongebob]

Juice does a body good but then again, it can cause insomnia

"i couldn't sleep at all last night"........dut..dut.dutta..duh.

 

[ALCATRAZ]

Because I don’t want to seem like I am trying to change him. He likes to do it, I mean, I don’t mind when he does it, but I just think he does it a little too much… It pisses me especially when we go to his mates joint and they all start pulling buckets or whatever, I just hate being there, when they are all munged out.

Well, if he truly cares for you, and you explain it in a rational fashion, he won't see it as you whining or bitching or trying to change him. He'll see it as an expression of your concern for his well-being.


Alcatraz

 

[spongebob]

hey kitten, if you have a problem with him smoking ganja then you need to address it now. in my experience, people rarely ever quit so if you plan on staying with him for a long time then it needs to be addressed. either he has to take your feelings into consideration or you have to bury them inside and learn to deal with it. is this what you want in the long run.

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Hmm, my main concern is his health of course, he smokes as well, I have asked him to give up just one of those two GROSS habits. He said he is going to, but still hasn’t. I plan to be with him for a very long time, I mean this guy is all I want, if only he would stop smokin so much weed man.

I was gonna make love to you but I got high
I was gonna lick your pussy to but I got high

I guess I could just tell him he is like kissing an ashtray.


I say, baby, why do you do it he says babe, because I like to. I say baby, but you got me you don't need pot to relax, he says babe, I like it.

 

[ALCATRAZ]

OK, here's another tactic. Just point at your pussy and say "Baby, no more of this till you get rid of the pot." I guarantee, he won't be getting high much longer. Either that, or he'll dump you and find a woman that will get high w/ him.


Alcatraz

 

[Kahn]

kitten, I've been with my beautiful wife for 6 yrs and she'd lie to her grandmother about stopping smoking. Its a habit that is stronger than a non smoker like us can understand. They are fucking stupid for starting, they are helpless against it and we can't do shit till they want to for themselves first. Deal with it and don't let it fuck you two up. Be strong enough to walk away if it fucks him up and hurts you. Don't waste your life on a stoner that'll never grow up, hope that isn't him for your sake.

 

[smallmovesal]

tell him to cut down... tell him it bothers you. that way you aren't forcing him to quit, and if he loves you he'll respect you for being honest and concerned.

 

[Frackal]

Juice does a body good but then again, it can cause insomnia

It sure does!

 

[Taps]

<-----Crack! The ultimate dieting drug.

Kitten, would you consider talking to him if he was getting drunk every day? Well, weed isn't nearly as bad as alchohol, but a habbit is a habbit. Tell him your concerned about his health but don't come off all high and mighty.

If he cares about you, he'll at least listen to what you have to say.

One of the reason's I never keep weed around is that I'm basically useless when I smoke up. If I had 1/2 an oz in my freezer, I'd just sit around stoned all day.

Maybe you could try keeping him away from the type of environment where he'd want to smoke up.