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If you found out your spouse had an affair. What would you do?
- Thread starter biteme
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ponyfitness
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So let me sum this up:
She fucked a guy - unprotected - and also let him jizz inside her so that's about as intimate as it gets. Means she doesn't care about her own health or yours obviously. Then she came home and fucked you as well probably with the other guys stuff still inside her. That's just freaking evil and messed up.
She lied until you caught her and now she is telling you that it's your fault and sleeping in your bed peacefully while also threatening that she can do it again anytime just by walking over to his place.
You have been in this relationship only 18 months, have no kids and you own all of the property and assets?
This is a no brainer. Pack her shit up, throw it on the lawn and change the locks. Let her go over to his place for somewhere to live. But, like the other guys have said, have your ducks in a row first re:divorce lawyers and do it when she least suspects it. Preferably at 1am.
Also, make sure all of her friends and family know why you're throwing her out and if the other guy has a wife, tell her too.
Every time you think you can't do this, remember that time she fucked you knowing that she had another man's dick in her mouth and pussy hours before and that she was laughing at you when she did it.
She fucked a guy - unprotected - and also let him jizz inside her so that's about as intimate as it gets. Means she doesn't care about her own health or yours obviously. Then she came home and fucked you as well probably with the other guys stuff still inside her. That's just freaking evil and messed up.
She lied until you caught her and now she is telling you that it's your fault and sleeping in your bed peacefully while also threatening that she can do it again anytime just by walking over to his place.
You have been in this relationship only 18 months, have no kids and you own all of the property and assets?
This is a no brainer. Pack her shit up, throw it on the lawn and change the locks. Let her go over to his place for somewhere to live. But, like the other guys have said, have your ducks in a row first re:divorce lawyers and do it when she least suspects it. Preferably at 1am.
Also, make sure all of her friends and family know why you're throwing her out and if the other guy has a wife, tell her too.
Every time you think you can't do this, remember that time she fucked you knowing that she had another man's dick in her mouth and pussy hours before and that she was laughing at you when she did it.
redshirt27se
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lol.. i just thought about that..Smurfy said:
like its one thing to cheat, but to tell someone details of that kind just show you how inconsiderate of a person they are. i'm sure if i ever cheated i'd feel guilt and remorse, based on that she seems almost proud of it.
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silverstar1025
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Wow biteme I am sorry this happened to you. I would totally leave her ass. Not only did she cheat on you, but disrespected you. What she has told you it sounds like she really doesn't give a shit about you or your feelings. Why give her a second chance?
If my husband cheated on me I would be out the door. I do have kids and I know it would be hard on them, but I just could not do that to myself. My ex boyfriend cheated on me two times. The first time he of course said all the right things and I gave him a second chance only for him to hurt me again. Now I know once a cheat always a cheat. They will always have that desire and if they think they can get away with it they will do it again.
Honestly I am not worried about my husband though. He loves his family a lot and knows that I would not tolerate that shit. No chances with me putting up with it. Plus he and I keep things interesting in the bedroom so he should be pretty satisfied there anyway.
Even though my ex did that to me I don't worry about my husband or freak out about things. I know they are two different men and until my husband does me wrong I have no reason to be jealous or worried. What kind of life is it if you constantly have to worry or be sneaking up on them and shit. It would get real old real fast.
If you stay with your girl you will only feel the need to check up on her all the time and always wondering " I wonder what she is doing" that is not a fun life to live. I say move on!
If my husband cheated on me I would be out the door. I do have kids and I know it would be hard on them, but I just could not do that to myself. My ex boyfriend cheated on me two times. The first time he of course said all the right things and I gave him a second chance only for him to hurt me again. Now I know once a cheat always a cheat. They will always have that desire and if they think they can get away with it they will do it again.
Honestly I am not worried about my husband though. He loves his family a lot and knows that I would not tolerate that shit. No chances with me putting up with it. Plus he and I keep things interesting in the bedroom so he should be pretty satisfied there anyway.
Even though my ex did that to me I don't worry about my husband or freak out about things. I know they are two different men and until my husband does me wrong I have no reason to be jealous or worried. What kind of life is it if you constantly have to worry or be sneaking up on them and shit. It would get real old real fast. If you stay with your girl you will only feel the need to check up on her all the time and always wondering " I wonder what she is doing" that is not a fun life to live. I say move on!
Powerlifting57
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Faulty Wiring............just saying!
blueta2
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lots of angry men in this thread. Just for them, my both ex's cheated on me. My ex of 11 yrs cheated on me with a girl who he knew had hiv and he fucked her unprotected. So not all women are whores
Biteme, I read this entire thread and the details are still so unclear to me. She came right out and told you she let a guy cum in her? So it's 101% sure she cheated?
You're assuming?
I'm not clear.
If you're 100% sure, well then you need to have her leave. I would say if this was a "sound" relationship before to get some therapy.
My concern is you're a unhappy dude and will either let her stay or find the exact same person to replace her.
In any case, I know it sucks and sorry for your pain
Biteme, I read this entire thread and the details are still so unclear to me. She came right out and told you she let a guy cum in her? So it's 101% sure she cheated?
You're assuming?
I'm not clear.
If you're 100% sure, well then you need to have her leave. I would say if this was a "sound" relationship before to get some therapy.
My concern is you're a unhappy dude and will either let her stay or find the exact same person to replace her.
In any case, I know it sucks and sorry for your pain
