If a random dude were sending cock shots to my wife, I would definately not beat her up. I would prolly not beat him up either, unless my wife told me to. I mean cmon, I enjoy the fact that most guys are jerking off to my wife, means im alpha.. =D
Then again, I may have too much selfesteem, more than what is good for me i guess.
Inescure guys is the worst, in the end they will not be able to hold on to their woman, they are bound to lose in the long run.