If you died, How would people remember you?

[Wilcox]

Ehhh nobody really knows me here, although I do design for a few of the sponsors on this board.

 

[cindylou]

Same for me. I've left instructions for a big party to be held, open bar, I'll get a few tears shed in my memory one way or another

Oh, and my husband would be completely lost until he figured out where the life insurance policy was and how to pay the bills.

lol..part of me does not want people to be upset when I die...I really don't, I care about them......but...another part of me (if I was standing there) would be like WTF at the idea of a huge party at my passing. Don't you guys give a shit that I'm gone? Don't you miss me? lol! Guess that's my selfishness speaking.

 

[musclemom]

lol..part of me does not want people to be upset when I die...I really don't, I care about them......but...another part of me (if I was standing there) would be like WTF at the idea of a huge party at my passing. Don't you guys give a shit that I'm gone? Don't you miss me? lol! Guess that's my selfishness speaking.

OMG, party is a MUST!

It's the only thing that makes the memory of a funeral bearable, that's why you do it

 

[uamaverick]

Since I'm single and don't have any dependents, I don't think many people would really give a shit. My immediate family would obviously care. Since I just moved here and I only have like three friends I doubt there would be anybody here that gave a shit. My friends back home would be shocked.

I don't really know how people would remember me. I get told I have a brilliant mind all the time, so I guess they would remember my intelligence. Some of my closest friends would remember me as a "flirt slut", apparently I'm a womanizer without knowing that I am. Of course, I'd be remembered by the ladies as a hawt guy with a huge cawk.

I think the only people on EF that would miss me would be Cindz, Shirlz, jngr, nigbus, dave, and maybe SB if he hasn't already gotten Alzheimer's by then.

 

[the.gladiator1987]

Id miss u bro

 

[uamaverick]

'Preciate it Broseph Goebbels

 

[lartinos]

I have a large family and also a large amount of friends and past employers so I am guessing it would be a pretty big deal. People would remember me as someone who was trustworthy and for my business sense and partying/travel/networking and here at EF for Adderllin and my abs and chat. But who cares? You will be dead and it doesn't matter. Thinking this way is more of an exercise of what you are currently doing with your life and what peoples current perceptions of you are. What you wanna change and how you got to where you are today. It makes you evaluate relationships in your life as well.
When you are dead you are dead and many people keep up this delusion that they will be alive in some way. You will not be so make the best of your life right now and get the dreamland fantasies out of your brain.
People just don't understand the concept of death or do not want to. I am an organ donor and when I ask people why they are not I have heard some really ridiculous answers. Why would you want to keep your organs in your carcass when they can save someone else's life? If you are dead you do not exist, possessing something is impossible. Instead you are donating it to hungry worms. We write our own obituaries everday.

 

[cindylou]

lol @ having to picture yourself dead to do some introspection.


What reasons do people give for not wanting to be an organ donor?

 

[SouthernLord]

They would play freebird and will the circle be unbroken at my service.

My remains would be scattered into my favorite fishing spot in the icw.

 

[lartinos]

lol @ having to picture yourself dead to do some introspection.


What reasons do people give for not wanting to be an organ donor?

Well, it gives insights that people don't think so deeply about. It can indeed give you a better perspective.
"they're my organs I want to die with them" "I don't want my body to look funny if I have an open casket"