Ideas on breaking the ice with some chick at the gym (she workouts with another girl)

[tatman3177]

Re: Ideas on breaking the ice with some chick at the gym (she workouts with another g

what does she wear? theres this girl at the gym i go to and damn she wears the tightest outfits available. so i just walked up to her one day and told her that i didnt mean any disrespect or offense but you look damn good. i am married but i just had to tell her she was hawt.

 

[DIVISION]

please, keep all the "i dont want to be disturbed when im at the gym " crap to yourselves. This girl is beggin, i catch her staring at me all the time...if she was alone it would be easier for me to just say hello, but she workouts with her chubby friend , how should i break the ice...she is waiting for me to say something...its obvious. she is really pretty, she could be the next Ms. NJjuice.

I know this is a reach for you, but how about just being honest and asking her out?

Not DURING the workout you stupid fuck!

Wait 'till you're done or she's done and ask to speak with her away from her friend ie ALONE. Then just be yourself and let her know you find her attractive (compliment her in a classy way), and ask if she'd like to go out (think of something entertaining, less intimate than a date).

It's not hard, Dunk.......the main thing is you need to be genuine and nice, that's mainly what women are guaging when they look in your eyes at first impression.





DIV

 

[concordsize]

i personally like the idea about introducting yourself and handing her a number saying you would like to do something sometime. Puts the ball in her court a bit. If she realy likes you she will call if she dont she wont.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Ever think of simply walking up, introducing yourself and handing her your number? Leave it real casual, tell her you would love to talk to her sometime, take her out, whatever and she should give you a call if she ever wants to shoot the shit. No pressure, very casual, creates some mystery and intrigue on her end, and makes you seem pretty confident.

This is the only part that I disagree with. Sure there's a possibility she'll call you, but you didn't step out there and risk any rejection by asking for her number. Any guy can hand any girl his number, she doesn't respect that. If you ask for her number, in her eyes it makes you look like you have some balls.

She knows the "game" (yeah I know it sounds childish but it naturally comes with the territory). All women do. Except maybe some of the virgins.

 

[lilred]

This is the only part that I disagree with. Sure there's a possibility she'll call you, but you didn't step out there and risk any rejection by asking for her number. Any guy can hand any girl his number, she doesn't respect that. If you ask for her number, in her eyes it makes you look like you have some balls.

She knows the "game" (yeah I know it sounds childish but it naturally comes with the territory). All women do. Except maybe some of the virgins.

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well said!

 

[DIVISION]

This is the only part that I disagree with. Sure there's a possibility she'll call you, but you didn't step out there and risk any rejection by asking for her number. Any guy can hand any girl his number, she doesn't respect that. In her eyes, it makes you look like you have some balls.

She knows the "game" (yeah I know it sounds childish but it naturally comes with the territory) All women do. Except maybe some of the virgins.

Yes, but it's KillahBee's nature to avoid baring his vulnerability by asking for her number. That's his "healthy mistrust" that he clings to in regards to women. Personally I think Killah just needs to go to Italy and find a traditional Italian girl. Then he will be able to drop his insecurities and be himself without all the guards up.

@Hansel: I agree with you about baring your soul and asking for the number, it's just that alot of guys don't have the balls to do it in the way it needs to be done. You've got to be genuine without coming off like a sexual predator, it's a fine line. I think alot of it is what they guage from eye contact, women like eye contact.




DIV

 

[KillahBee]

This is the only part that I disagree with. Sure there's a possibility she'll call you, but you didn't step out there and risk any rejection by asking for her number. Any guy can hand any girl his number, she doesn't respect that. If you ask for her number, in her eyes it makes you look like you have some balls.

She knows the "game" (yeah I know it sounds childish but it naturally comes with the territory). All women do. Except maybe some of the virgins.

I disagree - you are talking about games that silly little boys with low self esteem need to play. That is the beauty of my approach - it reeks of self confidence and is non-intrusive. It is basically saying to the girl - it's no big deal and I will not even think about it if i never hear from you (in a good way though).

 

[concordsize]

IMO giving your number to a girl works in some situations.
1) The girl knows alittle about you and doesnt think your a freak!
2) Your approach is seamless, you sound like you are no harm but fun to hang with.
3) You go to approach a girl where she works and if she is not there you leave a message with your number. This works if she knows you obviously.

 

[bran987]

Don't listen to everyone telling you to get rid of the the fatty!! This is everyones mistake!!!!!!! You must embrace the fatty.

can't read 4 pages of this but this is the key
you have to disarm the warpig by being friendly to her and ignoring the hotter chick, only after you have the warpig loving you will she allow you to approach her friend cockblock free, and in fact will encourage the hottie to get with you, plus the hot chick will be fucking out of her mind crazy as to why you are talking to warpig instead of her yay

 

[Maverick]

pull out your pee pee and smile