Ditto this, I pack a mean punch. My blood is boiling right now. I am SO sorry you are in that situation. As all of these ladies have said, 1 hit was 1 too many. Unfortunately, it seems you've allowed yourself to get addicted to this situation. Please don't get caught up in the "good dad" act. A good father/mother will, without regard, always respect you A. for being the person they love but B. because you're the mother of their child. This man does not respect you and more so, knows that no matter how many times he mentally, physically, or emotionally abuses you....fact is, you will always be there. He sounds like a control freak who needs to be brought to his knees. I can almost assure you (from experience) your two children that aren't his...will be next in line. A man/woman who is allowed to pyhisically hurt their significant other at some point ALWAYS turns to the next in line. Know this....Just being there does not nominate him for father of the year. Seek help...the ladies were right above...there are TONS of people who can and will help you.dirty~d~ said:Where do you live? I'll come beat that fucker down myself. You need to take care of yourself and your children sweetie. Him hitting you this one time is one time too many, regardless of how mad he was. This man does not deserve your loyalty or your love. Please protect yourself and reach out to those who can help you out of this situation. It will only get worse from here if you stay.
OH, and the ordeal about your past and him being a jackass about it...do me a favor and tell him to go sit on his thumb and rotate. (ok, maybe YOU shouldn't say that...u don't want to initiate a fight but think about it next time you look at him)
You and your children are in my prayers.