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PaganPunkstress
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harsh words but very very true
I need help, please
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PaganPunkstress
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I should do that hopefully by the summer time I will for sure.
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My ex beat me.... ONCE.
I told him to get the fuck out.
I have several children with him - was faithfully married to the asshole for over a decade.
I made A LOT of bad choices after that because I had zero self-esteem and never thought I could make it on my own.
THERE ARE TONS OF SOCIAL SERVICES TO HELP WOMEN LIKE YOU. I SUCKED IT UP AND FINALLY TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THEM AND NOW THINGS ARE A THOUSAND TIMES BETTER FOR ME AND MY KIDS.
YOU ARE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. GO TO A SHELTER AND SEEK HELP. IT IS THERE FOR YOU AN YOUR CHILDREN.
YOU HAVE ZERO EXCUSE.
YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE A BETTER FUTURE THAN TO SEE THEIR MOTHER BEATEN BY SOME ASSHOLE.
PERIOD.
WOMEN HELPING WOMEN = EXCELLENT ORGANIZATION FOR COUNSELING SERVICES.
SOCIAL SERVICES = TAKE YOURSELF DOWN THERE TOMORROW, ASK and ACCEPT ALL THE PUBLIC ASSISTANCE YOU ARE ENTITLED TO.
If you have any questions and I can be of help PM ME.
My benefits have been sharply reduced (after 6 months) and will end soon altogether. Makes me a little nervous but proud at the same time. I am STILL embarrassed for people to see that I pay for our groceries with food stamps (live in a middle to upper middle class suburb) but my children are fed so what do I give a fahootie what anyone will think.
DO IT FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN - YOU OWE IT TO THEM TO LEAVE.
STAYING IS THE EASY WAY OUT.
IF YOU WERE YOUR KID, WHAT WOULD YOU WANT YOUR MOTHER TO DO?!?!
I told him to get the fuck out.
I have several children with him - was faithfully married to the asshole for over a decade.
I made A LOT of bad choices after that because I had zero self-esteem and never thought I could make it on my own.
THERE ARE TONS OF SOCIAL SERVICES TO HELP WOMEN LIKE YOU. I SUCKED IT UP AND FINALLY TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THEM AND NOW THINGS ARE A THOUSAND TIMES BETTER FOR ME AND MY KIDS.
YOU ARE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. GO TO A SHELTER AND SEEK HELP. IT IS THERE FOR YOU AN YOUR CHILDREN.
YOU HAVE ZERO EXCUSE.
YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE A BETTER FUTURE THAN TO SEE THEIR MOTHER BEATEN BY SOME ASSHOLE.
PERIOD.
WOMEN HELPING WOMEN = EXCELLENT ORGANIZATION FOR COUNSELING SERVICES.
SOCIAL SERVICES = TAKE YOURSELF DOWN THERE TOMORROW, ASK and ACCEPT ALL THE PUBLIC ASSISTANCE YOU ARE ENTITLED TO.
If you have any questions and I can be of help PM ME.
My benefits have been sharply reduced (after 6 months) and will end soon altogether. Makes me a little nervous but proud at the same time. I am STILL embarrassed for people to see that I pay for our groceries with food stamps (live in a middle to upper middle class suburb) but my children are fed so what do I give a fahootie what anyone will think.
DO IT FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN - YOU OWE IT TO THEM TO LEAVE.
STAYING IS THE EASY WAY OUT.
IF YOU WERE YOUR KID, WHAT WOULD YOU WANT YOUR MOTHER TO DO?!?!
Sassy69
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Damn. Makes me feel like stopping by to kick the living fucking shit out of this guy ...
PP I'm so sorry about that. All the above info is great - you don't need to make any drastic decisions, but you should have everything in place to be completely independent of this guy if you need to. These are the things that you have the right to do and they will give you the basis to take control of whatever you need to take control of when you can't rely on other people to treat you the way you should treated.
PP I'm so sorry about that. All the above info is great - you don't need to make any drastic decisions, but you should have everything in place to be completely independent of this guy if you need to. These are the things that you have the right to do and they will give you the basis to take control of whatever you need to take control of when you can't rely on other people to treat you the way you should treated.
Tink!
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Just always remember, never let children be the reason you stay, because it will end in more regret...also...you have to be a romodel for those to beauties. What ever they see you endure, they will most likely grow up accepting a man like this.
So much more i would love to say, but it has all pretty much been summed up before me. No matter how much you love him, no matter how much you think..well...i don't want to be alone..or even if it is negative attention, at least i am getting attention...anything like this, you will be way better off with out him as will your children. Hang in there and if you ever need anything, we are all here.
So much more i would love to say, but it has all pretty much been summed up before me. No matter how much you love him, no matter how much you think..well...i don't want to be alone..or even if it is negative attention, at least i am getting attention...anything like this, you will be way better off with out him as will your children. Hang in there and if you ever need anything, we are all here.
http://www.theretreatinc.org/
This is a place by me maybe they can help you find someone by you to reach out to.
No one deserves to be beaten.
This is a place by me maybe they can help you find someone by you to reach out to.
No one deserves to be beaten.
wend
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Not only are you teaching your daughters that it's okay to accept abuse, but you're teaching your son to be an abuser.
3 or 4 times is one too many? Once is one too many. Abuse always escalates. My best friend put up with extreme abuse for a long time until she realized what I just said above (she had two sons and one daughter). Her childhood had prepared her to accept abuse, but as a rational adult, she refused do that to her kids.
Love does not hurt you. He doesn't love you. He wants to own and control you. There's a world of difference.
Good luck, and take care. (Physical assault is illegal, you know, and you could call the cops and have him spend the night in jail while you pack your things and get out.) Yes, leaving will be traumatic for the kids, but not as traumatic as watching you get the crap beat out of you.
3 or 4 times is one too many? Once is one too many. Abuse always escalates. My best friend put up with extreme abuse for a long time until she realized what I just said above (she had two sons and one daughter). Her childhood had prepared her to accept abuse, but as a rational adult, she refused do that to her kids.
Love does not hurt you. He doesn't love you. He wants to own and control you. There's a world of difference.
Good luck, and take care. (Physical assault is illegal, you know, and you could call the cops and have him spend the night in jail while you pack your things and get out.) Yes, leaving will be traumatic for the kids, but not as traumatic as watching you get the crap beat out of you.
Where do you live? I'll come beat that fucker down myself. 
You need to take care of yourself and your children sweetie. Him hitting you this one time is one time too many, regardless of how mad he was. This man does not deserve your loyalty or your love. Please protect yourself and reach out to those who can help you out of this situation. It will only get worse from here if you stay. 
You need to take care of yourself and your children sweetie. Him hitting you this one time is one time too many, regardless of how mad he was. This man does not deserve your loyalty or your love. Please protect yourself and reach out to those who can help you out of this situation. It will only get worse from here if you stay. Similar threads
