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I hope I wasn't over-reacting...

CatOwner1966

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And how would something like this make you feel?


Yesterday,a man in my gym who I talk to once in a blue moon
asked me what my bodyfat percentage was before I lost
this weight(and he even started to throw numbers at me) and then he had the nerve to ask me to get
on the scale(Which is in the back of the gym)and of
course I didn't then he had the nerve to ask me what I
weigh now with his wife chuckling in the backround(like I'd ever tell him) well, I got so upset
that I called my husband and he came up and confronted
this man and the owner of my gym and I then had to
explain to this man that I had an eating disorder for
19 years which is why I do not get on the scale and he
swore he wouldn't tell anyone else in the gym but I'll
believe that one when I see it knowing how his wife
can be. I also know that she has talked about me in the past to others. Well, These are the last people who I really wanted to tell something like this to knowing that they talk but I was at the point where I felt that I really had no other choice but to tell them about me having an eating disorder int he past or they'd keep bugging me to get on the scale and get every detail out of me that they could so that they (especially her) could have something to tell others . I was about to quit going to this gym but reconsidered although I am concerned that they may still talk about me. ANyway, Who in the hell cares how "Fat" I was before? The point is that I did something about it and plan to take care of myself for the rest of my life now. Alot of people in my gym do not put the time and effort into this as I have and wonder why they don't get results and single ME out? It's messed up. Now I feel awkward about showing my face in there for approaching this man and the owner. I feel like I'll be the laughing stock of the gym now. :(
 
I think that's none of his business. Who the hell asks someone they don't know that kind of question? I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
 
WTF?? :rolleyes:

What an ass!! No, I don't think you're overreacting....I'd of told him to go F himself....
 
who cares if they talk about you. everyone at the gym must know how they are so who will listen to them anyway?
 
I don't think you are over re-acting!!

These people sound horrible!!

I have no idea why they want to try to bring you down, but DON'T worry about them!!

Noone will think anything of you! It's these people they should laugh at.

I'm sorry you had to deal with this! Please do not let these people affect your goals / self esteem at the gym.

Take care girl & just keep your head held high!
 
People are stupid.

The only thing that is important is that you stay focused on your goals. If these people's lives are so slow that they need to bring this up again or continue to bother you, you can just simply say "I am only interested in where I am going, not where I came from." And walk away.

Most people will catch on that certain discussions are just in poor taste and move on w/ their lives. If they don't then you can either let them know or just remove them from your realm of interaction.
 
No way I would have done the same thing, his wife sounds like a cow too. Sounds like jealousy more then anything.
 
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