CatOwner1966
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And how would something like this make you feel?
Yesterday,a man in my gym who I talk to once in a blue moon
asked me what my bodyfat percentage was before I lost
this weight(and he even started to throw numbers at me) and then he had the nerve to ask me to get
on the scale(Which is in the back of the gym)and of
course I didn't then he had the nerve to ask me what I
weigh now with his wife chuckling in the backround(like I'd ever tell him) well, I got so upset
that I called my husband and he came up and confronted
this man and the owner of my gym and I then had to
explain to this man that I had an eating disorder for
19 years which is why I do not get on the scale and he
swore he wouldn't tell anyone else in the gym but I'll
believe that one when I see it knowing how his wife
can be. I also know that she has talked about me in the past to others. Well, These are the last people who I really wanted to tell something like this to knowing that they talk but I was at the point where I felt that I really had no other choice but to tell them about me having an eating disorder int he past or they'd keep bugging me to get on the scale and get every detail out of me that they could so that they (especially her) could have something to tell others . I was about to quit going to this gym but reconsidered although I am concerned that they may still talk about me. ANyway, Who in the hell cares how "Fat" I was before? The point is that I did something about it and plan to take care of myself for the rest of my life now. Alot of people in my gym do not put the time and effort into this as I have and wonder why they don't get results and single ME out? It's messed up. Now I feel awkward about showing my face in there for approaching this man and the owner. I feel like I'll be the laughing stock of the gym now.
Yesterday,a man in my gym who I talk to once in a blue moon
asked me what my bodyfat percentage was before I lost
this weight(and he even started to throw numbers at me) and then he had the nerve to ask me to get
on the scale(Which is in the back of the gym)and of
course I didn't then he had the nerve to ask me what I
weigh now with his wife chuckling in the backround(like I'd ever tell him) well, I got so upset
that I called my husband and he came up and confronted
this man and the owner of my gym and I then had to
explain to this man that I had an eating disorder for
19 years which is why I do not get on the scale and he
swore he wouldn't tell anyone else in the gym but I'll
believe that one when I see it knowing how his wife
can be. I also know that she has talked about me in the past to others. Well, These are the last people who I really wanted to tell something like this to knowing that they talk but I was at the point where I felt that I really had no other choice but to tell them about me having an eating disorder int he past or they'd keep bugging me to get on the scale and get every detail out of me that they could so that they (especially her) could have something to tell others . I was about to quit going to this gym but reconsidered although I am concerned that they may still talk about me. ANyway, Who in the hell cares how "Fat" I was before? The point is that I did something about it and plan to take care of myself for the rest of my life now. Alot of people in my gym do not put the time and effort into this as I have and wonder why they don't get results and single ME out? It's messed up. Now I feel awkward about showing my face in there for approaching this man and the owner. I feel like I'll be the laughing stock of the gym now.