I asked her what kind of perfume she had on

[jet]

It matters becuase she is saying it to my co-workers who know my wife...

 

[angel_eyes]

I guess it would depend on how you asked her...tone of voice, gestures. Also, past history with the co worker and any previous statements on her appearance may have contributed to it. Actions speak louder than words, if you think she is hot, she probably is getting that vibe from you.

You may want to reconsiders making any comments to her that could end up as "Sexual Harrassment." Stupid as it sounds, and not that I agree, but she could go to Human Resources and file a complaint. If you value your marriage, keep your mouth shut. Keep the office remarks to good morning, and good night.

Just some advice. Women can be bitches.

 

[jet]

sexual harrassment....GEEEEEEZus. I just asked her what kind of perfume she had on.

And to be honest, I think she wants me so she is telling all her gal-friends that i'm hitting on her....

 

[angel_eyes]

Stupid as it sounds, and not that I agree, but she could go to Human Resources and file a complaint.

Just some advice. Women can be bitches.

Like I said, just some advice....Sexual Harrassment does work both ways. Something else to consider if she is spreading rumors about you.

 

[jet]

She just stopped by my desk to ask me a "question" about work...and she made sure she was nice and close..and of course she had gallons of that perfume on.

I guess she has a thing for me and thats why she palyed up me asking about the perfume...Oh well, can't go near her!!!!

 

[VooDoo Lady]

maybe you DO want her

 

[jet]

VooDoo Lady, I probably do but I can't. Even if I ever did cheat, it wouldn't be with someone who knows my co-workers...because they know my wife.. Anyway, I don't think I would cheat under any circumstance.

 

[katz]

I've had guys at work ask me that very question. I didn't think it was a come on. I've asked guys which cologne they were wearing..and promptly purchased it for significant other

 

[jet]

Katz, thankyou very much...

 

[Bigsatan13]

If it smells good, fuck it!