Hypothetical situation not as scandalous as KB's

[jackangel]

i was stoned, fuck alla u.

 

[javaguru]

So say your dating this girl she is Super Cute. Anyway 3 dates and things are all sunshine and roses. Work gets really busy for you and you have to put in a ton of hours. Cool chic that she is she understands and give you space.

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.

Honest answer, "He's not that into you" and cheating on you.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Saturday night text her: "hey babe want to see me tomorrow.
Her reply: "sure"
Sunday no call no text from dude.
Monday morning text from dude "Hey baby sorry I slept most of the day."
Her reply around noonish "that is what i figured."

As the dude what are you thinking to her reply and why haven't you text her back when normally even when busy you text her to 3-4 time in a day.

If I was said dude, I'd figure she was pissed (at least I could've called), and I would make sure she knew I wasn't playin games. TM, phone, dinner, flowers, whatever.
As for him not TMing her back, he's either really fuggin busy, or he's lost interest in her, looking for distance.

 

[HiDnGoD]

people who are assuming he is banging someone else are going too far. of course it's a possibility, but there is no evidence to support this. I was in this situation recently with a new chick I was dating and things were happening fast. eventually I found myself really into this broad and in unfamiliar territory - I just tossed attention at her cause I wanted to see her all the time. eventually, and even though I did not want to do this, I had to cut back a bit and play those games.

it's a part of the reality. deep down, she would like me even more if I fucked with her head a bit. it's an empirical truth.

Man, if I had to date again, I'd be fucked. I'm so lousy at head games, politics, etc.

 

[HiDnGoD]

So the guys is busy one day and stands you up...and you just drop him like that? damn women are brutal.

In this day of newfangled things like T.M.'s, or even phones, it should have been easy to deal with.
Unless he was maybe sleeping.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Just for the record I hate a lot of people on this thread mostly the ones with a cawk.

 

[Lestat]

Just for the record I hate a lot of people on this thread mostly the ones with a cawk.

f u too

 

[javaguru]

Just for the record I hate a lot of people on this thread mostly the ones with a cawk.

Just being honest and ...."don't be hatin" in my best B-Rad voice.

 

[Razorguns]

Just the ones with a cawk.

Hehe. You said cawk. hehehe.

 

[Kakdiesel]

if there is this much distrust at the beginning of this "relationship" then its not gonna work itself out.

cut your losses and move on.