Hypothetical broad/dood situation

[awittyusername]

awitty hits the nail on the head yet again.

When is your book coming out?

also, when are you coming out?

LOL

Actually, I have been offered to write a book on something related to that. But, I have a hard enough time convincing the younger guys in person. I guess its just something we need to learn on our own

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Broad is dating someone and has been for a little while. Broad meets some dood and starts diggin his vibes. Dood and broad hook up and start getting into each other.

Let's say broad and dood fall for each other. Broad tosses boyfriend to the side like Smurfy tosses Virgina Slims out her 5.0 Mustang window. Can dood ever truly trust broad, since dood only met broad cause broad cheated on boyfriend? I would think not. But then again, if you believe in true "love", then you have to believe that nothing should stand in the way of it. Yes? No? Mortadella?

This is an interesting dilemma. But the "once a cheater, always a cheater" applies here too. It ultimately depends on how strong your faith is in the notion that people can "change".

 

[foreigngirl]

I think it depends.
a person who is a cheater- say kb who admits to always cheating in the past- is that the same as someone who has been faithful their whole life, and then got pushed away in a relationship at a time when someone great came along?

people make mistakes, learn, grow. its different from being a leapard with permanent spots i think.

I agree. If one person is miserable in the relationship and feels lost, then finds someone to treat her/him right, it might not be considered cheating

 

[nycgirl]

I agree. If one person is miserable in the relationship and feels lost, then finds someone to treat her/him right, it might not be considered cheating

If your husband told you the following:

No, hun, it wasn't cheating. You let yourself go, all you do is nag, you don't respect me as a man . . . oh, yeah you don't put out anymore. I was MISERABLE and LOST & found Sheila (while still married to you). She treats me right.

Are you telling me you wouldn't consider that cheating?

 

[foreigngirl]

If your husband told you the following:

No, hun, it wasn't cheating. You let yourself go, all you do is nag, you don't respect me as a man . . . oh, yeah you don't put out anymore. I was MISERABLE and LOST & found Sheila (while still married to you). She treats me right.

Are you telling me you wouldn't consider that cheating?

I was not even thinking of myself when I typed that out I would be pissed off and hurt. But I ment hypotaticly, if both people in the relationship are miserable with each other. If its only one person, they can talk it out and hopefully make it work without incidents

 

[EnderJE]

Dta...

 

[nycgirl]

Dta...

????

 

[EnderJE]

Don't trust anyone.

 

[nycgirl]

Don't trust anyone.

Oh, I should have known.

 

[foreigngirl]

Don't trust anyone.

simple. yet true