How old were you

[Fantom604]

Not yet, I'm 18.

Dilemma time:
1) Don't wanna do it till it's da perfect time with someone I luv
2) But don't I need practice so she'll like it and neva wanna leave?

So should I wait or should I go with some girls + get some practice in?

And I really don't wanna phuck up my life at an early age (stuff like STD's, and yes, children are STD's )

But how can u ask a girl that? It'll ruin the mood

Plus you got the girl to think about. It's her life that's going to be ruined if she has a baby when she's not ready. Sure my life won't be all that great, but I'm not the one getting preggy, so all I gotta worry about is staying with her and takeing care of what I started. She may be wanting it there and now, but that might be because she's so drunk she holds up a pack of budweiser and yells "It's miller time". So will she regret it in da morning?

That being said, I usually wait till it's clear the girl wants to take it to the next step before I actually do it. Nothing worse than doin something she doesen't like, and all that work both of you have done in a relationship is shot to hell and you have to start from scratch. Doesen't make me shy, just cautious. (heck I flirt alot, which pisses me off becuz when I'm going out with a girl, 5 more decide THATs the perfect time they say they like me.... sheesh)

And I don't like "easy" girls. First of all u don't know where she's been! (or you know too well, eek) Secondly, I like a challenge


Obviously I got some issues to work out. Evidently I think too damn much.

Nothin' wrong with that! My first time was 20, with a woman I had been dating for about 6 months, we got engaged, it didn't work out. In a way, I am glad I waited to be in love, but I am 23 now, and haven't slept with anyone else.... I can't stand the thought of easy women either, but I can't help thinking I missed a lot, catch 22...

 

[Raffaz]

14

 

[doubles1]

18 for me first yr in college

 

[ironpipes47]

right after i turned 16, i was going out with her. but she left me for a fag. her problem not mine. pleanty of pussy out there. im still 16

 

[Austin316]

mmmmm never lol, I'm not out to get laid and will not have sex with someone I don't have very strong feelings for, I will not settle for anything less then being able to say "The first time I made love was ...."

 

[Pinky Girl]

I was 15 and on acid!!! Not the first time that I had in mind...

 

[bigwillster]

I was 2 and she was 5.

 

[bigwillster]

I was 13 and she was 19. I had no idea what I was doing. She was a great teacher though. This was in Guatemala BTW>

 

[RussianBro]

Almost 19

I know, I'm a geek

Bro, you are alright. I was almost 20 when I've met my future wife. But, boy, was I ready for it!!!

 

[Sebass67]

I am 19...and still waiting for the right one.

Never been in a serious relationship. I don't like to settle.

I will remain disciplined and determined to find the one for me.

BTW might have found her but she's going out with someone else.

The search continues...