The older I get the higher my drive goes...in the "prime years" I think. But...seems like so many men in my age group have been beaten down by life, ex's, work and so on and sex is the last thing on their mind (Spy Wizard, you are one exception that comes to mind). I'm single now but my last relationship was the first time I'd ever been in a relationship and felt lonely and neglected in the sex dept. I would have been happy with once or twice a week!! It's a bit of a mind fuk...and not in a good way! lol
V, I'm like you in the sense that I use the physical expression as a way to connect.