OK... so my number is not too high... but it is higher than I would like it to be. To tell ya the truth I regret being with half the guys... I was a virgin until I was 18. I thought I met a great guy, and after a month of being with him I decided to have sex...
Before then... I Really wanted to wait until I was married. I dated this guy for over a year, then had my heartbroke. I deployed, and when I came back things just were'nt the same... When I came back from my 6 week stateside deployment he was acting different. I called him one day and he said he was "busy..blah blah blah..." So I proceed to say "ok, I 'll let you get back to what you were doing" Thought to myself.... he will have to call me, cause no matter how tempted I was to call him, it does'nt seem like he wants to talk.... never heard from him again.
After a month I decied it has been enough time, so I will date other guys. Well, I was on the rebound. At that time I was thinking that I have to have sex, then the relationship would follow... I never forced the relationship issue though... My number of partners were going up a little... less than 10 though... and had one of those friends w/ benifit deal going on....
I realized that I need to stop, because this is not how I want to end up. So I did....
Now, I am 22, I found a guy that I can be myself around. I even love him more than the i did the first guy, he is soooo much better. In a way I am glad things worked out how they did.... I got some experience without going wayyy overboard,I am still not happy about the number.Now, I know what is out there, but I am happy with what I have and would never do anything to jeperdize(sp?) our relationship.... To me it means alot more to be with someone you love....