I fully understood the question asked and answered accordingly. So your point is?
I would not have any sexual relations which just any willing participant(s).
To me, having sex/making love whatever you want to call it involves sharing your most intimate body parts with someone special. Everyone is not special! I wouldn't share my most intimate parts with John Doe or any other willing person that I did not have feelings for.
I've always pretty much been in relationships with dating in between. My last gf and me were together over 9 years. I really don't know how many and don't care.
Caseynyc up above is exactly right. It's sick nowadays, and a lot of the women would make most guys blush it's so aggressive. I don't mean just showing interest, which is cool. And I don't think women should be at the mercy of only choosing between those guys who decide to approach. But it's like they're are rushing to bed a guy as if that'll put their brand on him or something.
I think alot of the numbers on this thread are just Ego boosts...like posting BF%. Very few are honest, though I am surprised to see a majority, including myself with 10 or under! The 20 or so who posted over 100-200 are most likley just stroking their own ego! IMO
ok, com'on, don't lie.....how many? and remeber, if you lie on an internet chat board your a fucking tool......i've been with 8 girls.....but I've spent most of that time in monogomous relationships........it's ok to be a virgin, if your a virgin vote