I like the ones that enjoy the whole experience of GIVING. Those women don't care if you are hard or soft, they don't get frustrated when you haven't cum in 2 minutes like their past partners have, and they love the smell, taste, and feel of my cock responding to their touch. It isn't even really about making you cum for them as much as it's about doing something for you that feels good for you, and letting them take control while you lie back and enjoy what they are doing for you. And when it does got to where you start to feel those feelings and you know you are going to cum, they just keep right on doing whatever it was that got you there in the first place. No spastic hand-job additions, no aiming it away while pretending she's going to lick the side of the shaft, just a constant, rhythmic motion, lots of saliva, and keeping that same thing happening until the last muscle twitches slowly subside after you cum. Now THAT is what works for me.