How many men have you boned?

[foreigngirl]

It really is a lot of the same stuff... It's hard to describe, but a guy does experience some huge shifts in his biochemistry. There are a lot of studies that look at how a man's hormone levels shift over the course of a relationship. A guy in a mature relationship, when presented with "strange" can really experience some dramatic changes in his hormone levels.

Oh yes... and dr phil is the complete suck. He's figured-out that you can make a killing by being a male and telling women what they want to hear. He's a traitor to all men -- if he wants to ack like a chick then we should cut his balls off and make him one. Hell... he's an out of shape piece of shit and sold a diet book! Go figure.

I hate all those talk shows. IMO its enough if a girl had a guy friend (noy gay) and he is gonna tell her - listen, there is NO hidden mesages when a guy sais something to you. Dont cry and hope he will come back, just move on.

 

[BUBBLES]

It really is a lot of the same stuff... It's hard to describe, but a guy does experience some huge shifts in his biochemistry. There are a lot of studies that look at how a man's hormone levels shift over the course of a relationship. A guy in a mature relationship, when presented with "strange" can really experience some dramatic changes in his hormone levels.

Oh yes... and dr phil is the complete suck. He's figured-out that you can make a killing by being a male and telling women what they want to hear. He's a traitor to all men -- if he wants to ack like a chick then we should cut his balls off and make him one. Hell... he's an out of shape piece of shit and sold a diet book! Go figure.

Are you saying that men are inclined to cheat no matter how much they try to block the want of sleeping with other women?

 

[foreigngirl]

Are you saying that men are inclined to cheat no matter how much they try to block the want of sleeping with other women?

not cheat - have sex with a lot of women. Based on the DNA programing that tells guys to spread the sead as frequent as possible. Womens DNA is programed to find a "special" male specimen to mate with only. He is trying to say that thats why its ok for guys to have had sex with more people than women. I thinks its BS

 

[BUBBLES]

not cheat - have sex with a lot of women. Based on the DNA programing that tells guys to spread the sead as frequent as possible. Womens DNA is programed to find a "special" male specimen to mate with only. He is trying to say that thats why its ok for guys to have had sex with more people than women. I thinks its BS

I understand but women are programmed to be jealous and it would be very hard to find a woman who will allow an open relationhips where a man would spreading his seed like that.

 

[foreigngirl]

I understand but women are programmed to be jealous and it would be very hard to find a woman who will allow an open relationhips where a man would spreading his seed like that.

Bubbles, we are not talking when in a relationship. Just about how many people you have had sex with in your lifetime. But lol...that was funny

 

[mrplunkey]

I understand but women are programmed to be jealous and it would be very hard to find a woman who will allow an open relationhips where a man would spreading his seed like that.

The notion of monogomy is a relatively young idea. Solomon had what... 800 wives and 2000 consorts or something like that? The notion of powerful men having a wife, additional wives, mistresses, ... whatever has been around a very long time. Heck... remember when the PM of France died a few years ago and his wife and long-time mistress were just feet away from each other at the funeral? And in developing countries, where the wealth distribution is ridiculously skewed (some arab countries, some asian countries) they still practice polygomy (or some form of it) even today.

Again... men aren't hopelessly destined to try to spread their seed, but there is a strong biological urge there. There are a ton of animal studies that show when a male animal has sex to exhaustion, you can remove the female and put a different one in and he'll muster-up the strength to keep going. I personally think that's also the mystery behind the F-M-F threesome. It's just strange that so many guys share that fantasy.

 

[mrplunkey]

not cheat - have sex with a lot of women. Based on the DNA programing that tells guys to spread the sead as frequent as possible. Womens DNA is programed to find a "special" male specimen to mate with only. He is trying to say that thats why its ok for guys to have had sex with more people than women. I thinks its BS

I am not saying, nor have I ever said, that "its ok for guys to have had sex with more people than women." What I am explicitly saying is that men have an underlying drive to spread their seed that is biologically-rooted. Therefore, it's an instinct... a propensity... a bias... an urge. Do they have to be slaves to it? No they don't. Having said that, telling us to "just ignore it" would be like telling a nesting pregnant mother to "just ignore it". I mean... think about that one. WTF is there to nest over anymore? It's a well-documented female behavior just prior to childbirth, but when's the last time the viability of a baby depended on a mom's nesting ability?

 

[delete]

LMAO, 30 guys at age 20 aye, you trying to break some sort of record. You could look like catherine zeta jones and I still wouldnt touch you with a 10foot poll.

30 guys at age 20 LOL. Good luck having a relationship in the future.

a good weekend at the White Party could get you almost that many; in just 48 hours...lol

 

[Island Son]

My guess is that most women have given head to more guys then they had sex with. So say a woman had sex with 8 dudes, im guessing she had oral sex with all of them plus another 2 or 3 guys she gave oral to, but never had sex with.

most women don't count oral or "he only lasted 10 seconds" as sex. I - i mean, men will include the 10-second pleasure-o-rama.
there was such a huge mismatch between women's averages and men's averages in one self-reported study that they even gave lie detector tests, both were convinced their numbers were right.

 

[biteme]

I am not saying, nor have I ever said, that "its ok for guys to have had sex with more people than women." What I am explicitly saying is that men have an underlying drive to spread their seed that is biologically-rooted. Therefore, it's an instinct... a propensity... a bias... an urge. Do they have to be slaves to it? No they don't. Having said that, telling us to "just ignore it" would be like telling a nesting pregnant mother to "just ignore it". I mean... think about that one. WTF is there to nest over anymore? It's a well-documented female behavior just prior to childbirth, but when's the last time the viability of a baby depended on a mom's nesting ability?

The only thing that kept me from fucking around on my wife was guilt. I loved her and to look at her and know what I had done would be too much to bear. No woman could have stolen me away from her. Not 1 in the world, and that is love and dedication. But, if she'd have let me, I could have fucked many women. THe urge is always there.