The other day I was truely in control of my penis for the first time and fucked for an hour straight and then came purposely. It was good. it gave me confidence. we tried a whole bunch of new positions too.
Usually Id fuck quite shortly, a bunch of minutes I guess, though Im not sure cuz ive never timed it. I'm big into foreplay and oral, my girl got her orgasms but i hadn't ever been a mr fuckman before. now I was mr fuckman and i could have gone on forever it seemed.
I'm not sure what made the difference. Being comfortable and having fun doing it helped but something else was different, Im not sure what.