strangebrew
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Forge said:Actually in some ways I agree with strange. While sex is extremely enjoyable, I think that society and peer pressure make it a bigger deal than it really is.
I think of sex as something two people who care deeply about each other can share together. For me, just the act of having sex itself isn't enough, I only really enjoy it if it's with someone I care about. Most people today view sex as something "cool" people do on a regular basis with anyone they can, and if you aren't having sex (doesn't matter if you even like the partner or not) then you are a loser or just wasting your life away. It's a shallow viewpoint IMHO, there is so much more to life than just sex. If someone I don't even like offers to have sex with me I turn them down (I've turned down more partners than I've had in my life) because I have better things to do with my time than spend them fucking someone I have no future or interest in.
Of course I'm old fashioned for today's world too, maybe I'm just behind the times.
Good post.