How do you "players" approach some girl in your gym??

[healother]

Because. I don't date people who go to my gym. I said that. That place, and my home, are my two sanctuaries. I'm not taking chances messing that up for anyone.

some people say the same about the workplace. I've realized its funny cuz sometimes the places that are sanctuaries or the places we are around the most are the places we get to know people the best.

I have told myself that I wont shit where i walk as well, and as a result I don't hit on women at the restaurants that I go to every day.
It's funny though because there are a lot of beautiful girls who either work at or come into those restaurants.

But what if we go to the same beach once a week or the same bar once a week?
Sometimes I think we have to play it risky, either that or date people while travelling through different towns or meet them on the internet.

 

[jianee89]

Just go and say Hi , u looks hot .

 

[bottleneckblooz]

Challenge her to a posedown, but do it really loudly so everybody in the cardio area can hear you. Then when she doesn't get off the treadmill, scream "You fucking pussy!!!!" as loud and shrill as humanly possible, tear your shirt off a la HUlk Hogan and jump right into an Abs & Thighs pose, then a double bi. When you strike the double bi, spit on your own chest and smile.

Haha! I'm gonna join a gym just so I can do this!

 

[safety4lyfe]

Join curves...this is the most fail proof plan.

#1 Your biggest, jacked up, swell person in the gym
#2 There is a handful of women...if one ignores go to the next one

If that doesnt work, go to your regular gym...but next time throw on some sex panther. Appearantly, it works 60% of the time, everytime.

 

[Mysterio]

My goodness! You ladies on here are brutal!!!

 

[motiondo]

haha

have you done this before?

sounds like just about 95% of females would get turned on by this

Trust a brotha....that fuckin shit works! Its like having a magic panty peel.....

 

[Acela]

to the OP...did you ever talk to this chick @ ur gym?

 

[curvymommy]

Don't shit where you eat numbnuts.

ROFL!

 

[txbondsman]

I'm not gonna read the damn 19 pages, I hope somebody said to walk over an introduce yourself and tell her thet you think she's pretty and that you have been wanting to meet her.....

KISS, keep it simple. If she digging you, she'll let you know. Don't try and be such a "playa", be a nice guy that can speek in complete sentances w/o talking about yourself within the first 5 minutes. Chances are, if she is interested, she already knows your name, what you drive and what days and time you work out. Just build on that from what she gives you....

 

[Richard85]

if your just starting out in your player liftestyle or whatever I wouldnt cold approach a girl at your gym unless she is giving you clear signals of interest... i dont know about you but when im lifting im lifting... i like to be left the fuck alone even if carmen electra walked by i wouldnt give a fuck... do your pickups in other places so when you fail it wont be so bad

 

[deathdroprob]

don't

guys who hit on chicks at gyms; is the #1 reason women join women's only gyms

If you cant hit on them what good are they?
Somthing hot to look at?
Looks can be deceiving.

A distraction from lifting.

 

[deathdroprob]

don't

guys who hit on chicks at gyms; is the #1 reason women join women's only gyms

If you cant hit on them what good are they?
Somthing hot to look at?
Looks can be deceiving.

A distraction from lifting.

Just go over and attempt to deadlift 50% more than your 1RM and squeal like a pig and do anything just to lift the weight. She's bound to notice you then.

If not shes deaf, and you dont want none of that.....or do you?

 

[drsketch]

Dude their was some chic at my gym today freaking smoking hot.. I dont normally try to pick up women though in places where I frequent often... Could be some psycho and lifting is much more important to me than a one nighter.

 

[chazk]

gym are a place to excersize and lift weights.
I hate the douche balls that go around chasing the girls.

I have had a girl come up to me and tell me hey, This guy gives me the creeps he wont leave me alone , you mind if I just work out with you so he will stay away.
she actually looked to me for protection from this creep

Sure enough the fucker see's her then see's me but still comes over and tries to talk ,
She just starts listening to him and I listen to him . then after about 3 minutes i just said " hey fella we are working out if you want to talk then go to a startbucks "

He left .

I told her to get a ipod , she did and never has had a problem sense, I see her using it wisley, creepy dude wants to talk she takes out one earphone but leaves it playing and then say oh a few times uh huh and out back in the earphones and just keeps working out.

she is just down right a beautiful person in everyway physically menatally and guys want to get with it , and all she wants to do is work out I actually feel sorry for her

 

[RachelEFC]

This is a tough one... I have made the mistake of hooking up with somebody from the gym before, and rumors get spread through a gym like crazy. That being said, if you don't care, you don't care.

I say go for it, I completely agree with the logic that you may as well meet somebody that is health-conscious and enjoys being in the gym rather than meeting them at a bar.

So, that being said, do you guys think I was being hit on tonight:
Was getting my shit set on the squat rack and this tall ass dude (who bumped into the bar when I was benching last week and almost knocked my shoulder out of joint) said to me: "So what are your goals, I've been watching you the past few months and it looks like you're leaning out". I looked at him with a very perplexed look on my face, and he just said, "it's okay, take a compliment."

I'm thinking that I wasn't being hit on?

 

[vansmack2000]

hes been watching you for a few months, more like a stalker in training

 

[pappad]

gym are a place to excersize and lift weights.
I hate the douche balls that go around chasing the girls.

I have had a girl come up to me and tell me hey, This guy gives me the creeps he wont leave me alone , you mind if I just work out with you so he will stay away.
she actually looked to me for protection from this creep

Sure enough the fucker see's her then see's me but still comes over and tries to talk ,
She just starts listening to him and I listen to him . then after about 3 minutes i just said " hey fella we are working out if you want to talk then go to a startbucks "

He left .

I told her to get a ipod , she did and never has had a problem sense, I see her using it wisley, creepy dude wants to talk she takes out one earphone but leaves it playing and then say oh a few times uh huh and out back in the earphones and just keeps working out.

she is just down right a beautiful person in everyway physically menatally and guys want to get with it , and all she wants to do is work out I actually feel sorry for her

She's cheating on you!

 

[nikkita]

I think that if she has ipod, she wants to concentrate on her workout... if you approach her let it be at the end of the workout... at this point just be you.

 

[Bikini Mod]

If you cant hit on them what good are they?
Somthing hot to look at?
Looks can be deceiving.

A distraction from lifting.

Then get a set of blinders and your problem will be solved.

Ummmmmm maybe the women are there for THE SAME REASON you are?

Just because women don't have a penis that doesn't mean they aren't human beings that like to be treated with respect.

 

[Bikini Mod]

And for all of you who say, "Well if she didn't want me to make a fool of myself by drooling all over her then she wouldn't have been looking so fine..." I do 80% of my workout IN THE POOL... so what am I supposed to wear so no other guy in the gym will think, "DAYUM LOOK AT THE TATAS ON THAT BITCH!... THAT PIECE OF ASS KNOWS SHE WANTS ME. SHIT IF SHE DIDNT WANT ME TO DROOL OVER HER THEN SHE WOULDN'T BE WEARING THAT BIKINI."

 

[pappad]

Then get a set of blinders and your problem will be solved.

Ummmmmm maybe the women are there for THE SAME REASON you are?

Just because women don't have a penis that doesn't mean they aren't human beings that like to be treated with respect.

BM, you know wimminz are only at the gym to remind us men why we train! LOL

Just messin with ya!!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

BM, you know wimminz are only at the gym to remind us men why we train! LOL

Just messin with ya!!!

LOL

 

[iggy]

i can't figure out how my cousin does it. he'll be working out and some extremely hott girl will write her number on a paper and give it to him and say call me. (happened more than once) lucky bastard

 

[Smurfy]

if some motherfucker approaches me in the parking lot he's gonna get a roundhouse kick to the nutz

lol

 

[ghettostudmuffin]

13 fuckin pages and no answer as to whether he's asked the girl out or not.

Threads like these are just big, mental, masturbation tease sessions.

 

[Black Boxster]

...some pretty pathetic answers...I would give you the answer, but then what have you learned??? Life is about experiences. Ask her out. If things go well...remember what you said, how you acted..if it fails, move on, try again.

Be natural, be yourself, smile, and don't use some stupid one liner!!!! I could give you advice, but I would have to charge you...LOL

 

[Bikini Mod]

...some pretty pathetic answers...I would give you the answer, but then what have you learned??? Life is about experiences. Ask her out. If things go well...remember what you said, how you acted..if it fails, move on, try again.

Be natural, be yourself, smile, and don't use some stupid one liner!!!! I could give you advice, but I would have to charge you...LOL

With all due respect, my brother, I thought my insights were fairly succint?

 

[ghettostudmuffin]

Bump to this old ass thread.

Years later and still no response.

What a disappointing thread...

 

[George Spellwin]

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[PsychoLatino]

Ahh this thread made me smile. Thanks..Even though it's hella old!

 

[thelocal]

lol did u ask her out

 

[undisputedjaycee]

do wat u want bro . ask her out. get her number . get laid

 

[ytown25]

Challenge her to a posedown, but do it really loudly so everybody in the cardio area can hear you. Then when she doesn't get off the treadmill, scream "You fucking pussy!!!!" as loud and shrill as humanly possible, tear your shirt off a la HUlk Hogan and jump right into an Abs & Thighs pose, then a double bi. When you strike the double bi, spit on your own chest and smile.

That's fucking hilarious.

 

[under-cover]

easy....wait till she is checking u out again than just walk up to her lean up against the wall and be like...I noticed ur noticing me..so I just wanna putt u on notice that I noticed u too...

 

[shirlene29]

^^^^^^^ wow...thats almost as bad as KB's...hahaha

 

[Bsdr]

If she was a girl you just saw for the first time you could always say hey I'm not from here I am on vacation and luckily this place had a gym. She will definitely get with you thinking she won't see you again. Worth a shot.

 

[napowell22]

Take AAS. Every time I'm on cycle the chicks flock me at the gym. No joke.

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[irockinav661]

What a waste. Read this whole thing just to realize the f'in date. Guess op talked to said girl and said girl buried him somewhere remotely.

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[Kramitz]

Yes it's possible to pick up hot chicks in the gym, just like it's possible to get rich from playing lotto. There are just way too many other places to start up a conversation with a woman that will have a much higher close rate.

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