How did women get so naive? I hate having a heart.

[discussion]

When I was a freshman a girl that I knew was crying one day.

I know a girl crying is not horribly unusual but this was different. This was not the "I need attention" cry or the "my boyfriend is a bastard" cry; I mean she was really crying. I later found out that a very close friend of hers was beaten into a pulp and gang raped by a group of guys who she thought was her friends.

I don't know too many other details about it but ever since this I have been very empathetic to women and had a very hard time trusting guys.

There is one guy in particular who I sometimes talk to. He really is a very good example of everything feminists hate about men. He is a vile, disgusting sexist pig. He is not so bad when no girls are around but he loves to brag about all the girls he mind fucks. And the really bad thing is that those girls are at least 2 years younger than him. They think he is charming even though he is very fat, hairy and ugly.

For the most part I ignore it since I figure those girls really should know better.

A while ago I warned a friend of mine about him. And she took me seriously for a few months but today she decided to hang out with him.

I am not sure weather or not I can really call this girl a friend but I am none the less very confused by all this because I know she is smarter than that and no matter how she lies to me she never did anything to deserve him and I can’t bring myself to stop worrying.

I have warned her and I know I could make things worse if I try to force my help on her but It is getting so hard just to sit back and watch…

was this guys name duritz?

 

[hellorhih2o]

He might not boot me out but he will try to straiten me out and harass any B/Fs I might get. So I will have to leave regardless.

Eventually yes (for your own sake) but he'll be back in your life. On your terms (once you've left).

 

[Tiervexx]

don't assume you'll get booted out. you're still his son and you might be surprised how far a parents love for his kid goes.

I might not get booted out immediately but he is a HUGE control freak. I know that is what all teenagers say about their dads but I know many others who have told me that they are happy they don't have my dad.

He might not boot me out but he will try to straiten me out and harass any B/Fs I might get. So I will have to leave regardless.

 

[Tiervexx]

Re: Re: How did women get so naive? I hate having a heart.

was this guys name duritz?

This is the first time I have laughted all day, I will give you karma when I can, but i'm out now.

 

[Tiervexx]

Eventually yes (for your own sake) but he'll be back in your life. On your terms (once you've left).

my current relationship with him and my sister is based of lies that I have to maintain since I refuse to move in with that girl who I am afraid would only welcome me out of guilt and sympathy. I refuse to become a burden on somebody.

I know that I would be rejected by my family because I hear them talking about others often. My mom is the most open minded by far, but I’m afraid she is not talking this well.

The sad truth is that I do not truly have a family. And no the fact that I am blood related to them does not count for much. Love and acceptance is what makes a family a family.

 

[Imakarum_Mirabilis]

The problem, to me, is that women are so much more easily violated, and their "purity" (I'm just calling it that, so chill) stripped.

They make easy victims, by nature. In some ways, it has a charming feel to it. If you think about it too much, as I did when I was a teen, it will tear your mind apart.

There comes a time, a moment of realization, where you recognize and have no choice but to accept the fact that there is truly not a fucking thing that you can do to save the world and the people you love who inhabit it.

Man, this is close to fucking me up. Time to switch to cold.

 

[Tiervexx]

The real crushing thing is that out of all the reasons I have for weight training the first and largest one is so that when something happens I can protect the people I care about.

But all my strength is useless if she won't let me help her.