How did women get so naive? I hate having a heart.

[Tiervexx]

When I was a freshman a girl that I knew was crying one day.

I know a girl crying is not horribly unusual but this was different. This was not the "I need attention" cry or the "my boyfriend is a bastard" cry; I mean she was really crying. I later found out that a very close friend of hers was beaten into a pulp and gang raped by a group of guys who she thought was her friends.

I don't know too many other details about it but ever since this I have been very empathetic to women and had a very hard time trusting guys.

There is one guy in particular who I sometimes talk to. He really is a very good example of everything feminists hate about men. He is a vile, disgusting sexist pig. He is not so bad when no girls are around but he loves to brag about all the girls he mind fucks. And the really bad thing is that those girls are at least 2 years younger than him. They think he is charming even though he is very fat, hairy and ugly.

For the most part I ignore it since I figure those girls really should know better.

A while ago I warned a friend of mine about him. And she took me seriously for a few months but today she decided to hang out with him.

I am not sure weather or not I can really call this girl a friend but I am none the less very confused by all this because I know she is smarter than that and no matter how she lies to me she never did anything to deserve him and I can’t bring myself to stop worrying.

I have warned her and I know I could make things worse if I try to force my help on her but It is getting so hard just to sit back and watch…

 

[velvett]

Sometimes you have to let people fall and just be there to pick up the pieces.

 

[Tiervexx]

My primary concern is for her but what makes this even harder to watch is that when my family boots me out(is destined to happen once my dad finds out) She and her parents are the only ones I can turn to.

 

[big4life]

You can't protect people from themselves, as much as you would like to.

 

[Tiervexx]

I know I can't, I just wish I could accept that.

 

[Tiervexx]

Sometimes you have to let people fall and just be there to pick up the pieces.

I really do wish that I could be too stuiped to know what is going on...

 

[Frackal]

Sometimes I forget about guys who are like this too...what a piece of absolutel shit

 

[Tiervexx]

Sometimes I forget about guys who are like this too...what a piece of absolutel shit

you got that right, I even tell him to his face that I don't like him at all, but as other people said before I can't protect her from her own stupid choice

 

[jackangel]

Shave his back and choke him with his own hair.

 

[hellorhih2o]

he loves to brag about all the girls he mind fucks.

= he's insecure as all hell.

when my family boots me out(is destined to happen once my dad finds out) She and her parents are the only ones I can turn to.

don't assume you'll get booted out. you're still his son and you might be surprised how far a parents love for his kid goes.