CFZB said:thats chick in the add looks like she would be to uptight and unhappy.
I like them otherwise.
.Gymgurl said:yeah right........
CFZB said:thats chick in the add looks like she would be to uptight and unhappy.
I like them otherwise.
jenscats5 said:I can't read print that damned small.....
.Lady Viking said:
artrius said:I'm sure your hubby can read it to you![]()
jenjenscats5 said:Doubt it -- he's more blind than I am....
SoKlueles said:jen
click on it and it gets bigger
i opened it last ight and couldnt see it, but then i got a bright idea to click on it, and poof, it gets bigger
i was like who the crap can read that???
btw its not worth reading, it sucks for women
needtogetas said:this is the year 2005 if you can get a wife like that her in the usa then you have struck gold
nycgirl said:I'm probably the only female member that agrees with most of that. I don't know if that is a good or bad thing (I was raised by old school mother and grandmother and a really old school dad).
I agree completely....if you can't meet each other in the middle there will never be a healthy balance.artrius said:A wife knows her place... which is right beside the husband, not behind.
TC2 said:I was discussing marriage and other castrations with some friends(girls) the other day.
They always ask me why i have no desire to get married at all.
I asked them why should a man get married now a days??
Women don't cook anymore
Women dont' clean anymore.
Women don't want to work anymore.
Women want to spend every dime you make, then run you into debt.
Women view sex as a bargining tool.
Women view marriage as a lifelong(or until they get there fill and decide to go be a "strong independent woman") all expensives paid vacation.
Then I ask them "What do I really even need a woman for?"
courtneybcca said:Everyone has to remember that this article was written in 1955... Back then women didn’t work... Unfortunately most families now have to have BOTH parents working to survive. Even then sometimes it is a struggle. So to expect your wife to do all those things is stupid because she is working just as hard as you... But in those days. The man brought home the money and the wife took care of the children, and the household. Which I believe is a fare. And actually for our children’s sake I believe this is better then going to daycare for 8-10 hours a day.
So if I was to have children, personally this is exactly what I would want... Otherwise I won’t have children because two full time careers’ is enough for a marriage to handle. People now take marriage WAY to lightly!! You can expect to get anything out of it if you don’t put any effort into it. Women should want to do those things for her husband, just like her husband should want to do things for her. TWO-WAY street!! It is suppose to be a partnership between two people, to get through life with your best friend, which you know you can rely on.
I believe most people just settle today. They just get married because they are lonely and they don’t marry the person they really want. So if you really don’t like that person all that much why would you go that extra mile to make them happy? So they get married, get sick of each other, and get divorced… Unfortunately that is what marriage has become now…
If I am to get married then I will have to find the perfect fit for me, be completely in love, and know deep in my heart that person feels the same for me. Otherwise what is the point? To walk around in life miserable because I have to go home and clean up some jerk’s shit, that I can’t stand. HELL NO!! I enjoy my own company way to much to do that… So if my “PERFECT” mate doesn’t exist then, my career and close friendships will be the most important thing to me. But if I am lucky enough to find (I think I have… but we will see) that perfect mate for me then “OUR” needs, wants, desires are the most important things in my life….
artrius said:I agree with a lot of what you are saying, but I also believe that women are useful in the workplace. Its fine if she wants to be a full time mom, but women are just as talented as men, and can do just as much good work as we can. Its up to what is good for the family, and if it can be supported.
As for the split of responsibilities back in the 50s, I'm not arguing the fairness... I just believe that husband and wife should BOTH make the important decisions. The wife shouldn't be forced to sit back and simply accept whatever he tells her. That's simply abuse. Yes, there are areas where it is best to have one person in control, but not all of them. (Why have 2 people do one person's job?) Total subservience has no place in marriage. EVER. (notice the "total") Like I said before, the man and woman are equal.
courtneybcca said:I believe women are very useful in the workplace and very much needed!! but I also believe that children need there mothers around... so there is a fine line there... during the development stage (until school) I believe the wife should be home!! but after that or before then work... But don't expect her to do all those things if she is also working... But if the man works and the wife stays home then she should take care of the house... So I totally agree with it being fare.. Not sure if you really read what I wrote... marriage is a PARTNERSHIP!! that is the only way it can work...
dirty~d~ said:If I ever became a stay at home wife (which will never happen) I would have no problem doing most of the things on that list. If both spouses work then that list won't work.
And I do know my place... The Queen gets to sit where ever she wants.![]()
TC2 said:Women view sex as a bargining tool.
artrius said:its just something from the 50's, thought it was amusingpeople actually thought that way. of course, that was before the civil rights movement....
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artrius said:heh well lets just say that doesn't work on me![]()
dirty~d~ said:If I ever became a stay at home wife (which will never happen) I would have no problem doing most of the things on that list. If both spouses work then that list won't work.
And I do know my place... The Queen gets to sit where ever she wants.![]()
courtneybcca said:that is horrible and another example of women marrying the wrong mate... SEX is WONDERFUL!! if you are using it as a bargining tool WTF.... how can people live there lives like that
courtneybcca said:that is horrible and another example of women marrying the wrong mate... SEX is WONDERFUL!! if you are using it as a bargining tool WTF.... how can people live there lives like that
artrius said:oh wait I think I read that wrong... my bad![]()
courtneybcca said:yeah you did no worries... I was talking about sex within a marriage...
artrius said:As for in the marriage, well I wouldn't know about that![]()

DIVISION said:Dee......I'm not arguing that you "should" be a stay at home wifey...but I do know for a fact that you can be tamed.
From one ex-soldier to another.......you CAN be tamed.
DIV
TC2 said:Women don't cook anymore
Women dont' clean anymore.
Women don't want to work anymore.
Women want to spend every dime you make, then run you into debt.
Women view sex as a bargining tool.
jenscats5 said:![]()
Way to generalize....
DIVISION said:You still with the same guy?
Have his eating habits improved?
DIV

jenscats5 said:
Still a vegetarian...
Doesn't stop me from eating a big ole steak tho....
DIVISION said:You seem like such a great cook.........shame that your hubby doesn't take advantage of it.....
DIV
jenscats5 said:Actually I've made a few vegetarian things he likes that he hasn't had before. I've got to try a few new recipes on him....
But I do love to cook.....![]()
DIVISION said:If you can conjure up a flank steak, brown rice and a caesar salad I'll do whatever you want......
anything.....
DIV
remember our deal and u will get many cakejenscats5 said:No roasted veggies??![]()
That menu is a piece O cake.... mmmmmmmmmm, cake....
jenscats5 said:No roasted veggies??![]()
That menu is a piece O cake.... mmmmmmmmmm, cake....
DIVISION said:Fresh veggies, Jennifer....
I know how to do a mustard baste for flank steak......
It comes out nice.
DIV
jenscats5 said:They'd be fresh......just cooked....
Never had roasted veggies?? YUM!!
The mustard base sounds good. I like mustard + garlic....![]()
DIVISION said:I like fresh veggies to balance out the rice and flank steak......I guess I never considered roasted veggies.
The mustard base has melted butter and garlic in it.....
It really boosts the flank steak to a whole 'nother level!!!
It's almost as good as sex......
DIV
jenscats5 said:I don't use butter.....but it still sounds yummy.....
I like to change up the ways I prepare veggies -- keeps it interesting...
jenscats5 said:I don't use butter.....but it still sounds yummy.....

artrius said:Fat free parkay spray or promise butter!!!! NUFF SAID!!!!![]()
jenscats5 said:Nope, neither..... I don't really use butter or margarine.... 'cept on corn on the cob....![]()

artrius said:but... no... calories.... gah....![]()
jenscats5 said:Really, no cals?? Hmmmm, I'll have to try that... Thanks!
tastes great as far as I'm concerned, I use it on potatoes all the time jenscats5 said:![]()
Way to generalize....
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