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Honestly how are people gay?
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foreigngirl
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I'm str8Wootoom said:
needtogetaas
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wootoom loves the cawck.Wootoom said:
coldblue1955
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Gay as in happy I hope most are/ Gay as in a Horny Homo Hell NO!
foreigngirl
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ok. I wanna see the baby Woot.Wootoom said:k ur cool then
It would be so much better if some gay folks would seriously weigh in but I have had some very good friends who are gay, my life once revolved around them for a really long time, so I can give you my opinion/observation based on talking to them, and asking, for myself, as a mostly straight kind of person:
The short answer: People are gay the same way people are straight.
With guys, it seems they aren't as attracted to/comfortable with the opposite sex in an relationship because, generally speaking, they relate TOO MUCH to the opposite sex ... again, my observation. That's why there are "fag hags," chicks who cultivate gay guy friends, you think the gay GUYS don't like hanging with the girls in turn? Woot, be honest, how much do you give a shit about fashion, hair, interior design, shopping? Most gay guys LOVE this shit, really, genuinely LOVE it.
With the girls, honestly, some women really do "go gay" because men are too much of a hassel, have repeatedly hurt them, rape, incest, etc. I have honestly run into just as many lesbians who have had some sort of emotional trauma related to men as lesbians who were "born gay."
What I don't understand is people who are "Asexual." Seriously. I can understand homosexuality, heterosexuality, trisexuality
but NEVER WANTING TO BE WITH ANYBODY, EVER?!?
The short answer: People are gay the same way people are straight.
With guys, it seems they aren't as attracted to/comfortable with the opposite sex in an relationship because, generally speaking, they relate TOO MUCH to the opposite sex ... again, my observation. That's why there are "fag hags," chicks who cultivate gay guy friends, you think the gay GUYS don't like hanging with the girls in turn? Woot, be honest, how much do you give a shit about fashion, hair, interior design, shopping? Most gay guys LOVE this shit, really, genuinely LOVE it.
With the girls, honestly, some women really do "go gay" because men are too much of a hassel, have repeatedly hurt them, rape, incest, etc. I have honestly run into just as many lesbians who have had some sort of emotional trauma related to men as lesbians who were "born gay."
What I don't understand is people who are "Asexual." Seriously. I can understand homosexuality, heterosexuality, trisexuality
but NEVER WANTING TO BE WITH ANYBODY, EVER?!?
mrplunkey
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My uneducated, unsupported, wild-ass guess:
1%-2% are traditionally gay, where they openly live and practice a homosexual lifestyle. This counts people who don't wear their gayness on their sleeve, but don't take unusual measures to hide it either.
3%-6% more are closet gays. They may even have a smokescreen SO of the opposite sex. They may even try to look like a hetero couple with kids and the family dog. They still, however, practice homosexuality.
8%-15% more have probably had a gay experience, even if it was touching/playing/sexual contact. These people are probably curious but not necessarily practicing homosexuals.
Anybody disagree with that?
1%-2% are traditionally gay, where they openly live and practice a homosexual lifestyle. This counts people who don't wear their gayness on their sleeve, but don't take unusual measures to hide it either.
3%-6% more are closet gays. They may even have a smokescreen SO of the opposite sex. They may even try to look like a hetero couple with kids and the family dog. They still, however, practice homosexuality.
8%-15% more have probably had a gay experience, even if it was touching/playing/sexual contact. These people are probably curious but not necessarily practicing homosexuals.
Anybody disagree with that?
