HELP With My Sexual Relationship With My Girlfriend...

[WannaBeHUNG]

I am having a serious problem with my sexual relationship with my current gf.. I seriously need some help. First of all were both 16. We both live with our parents. I dont drive, she does. So our sex life is based on doing it in her car.

What sucks is that she thinks sex should be all romantic and it should start with affection, then kissing, then sex. Unfortunately we cant do that because I end up saying or asking about sex that night, and we have to drive around finding a place to where no one can see us.

I dont know what to do. Her sex drive is honestly TERRIBLE. I always want to have sex and she NEVER does.. I mean she NEVER instigates sex with me I always feel like I am dragging her into it. Then she blows be off and I feel like I am ugly or like shes not attracted to me at all.

She always orgasms from sex I just dont understand what the problem is. I mean I wish she could just triple or quadruple her sex drive and started just jumping on me...

Please HELP!!

 

[WannaBeHUNG]

Thats the thing we have been having sex for around 6-8 months now and I am NOT her first. I mean honestly the romance thing happeend when we first started doing it..

 

[Golfer18--old]

Are you killing the pussy everytime you hit it? She may want you to slow down. Fuck outside in the stars, thats romantic.

 

[WannaBeHUNG]

Too cold man.

 

[WannaBeHUNG]

bump

 

[Rockafella Skank]

First, as far as you know she always has an orgasm from sex ... and even if she did, it's not the end all, be all for many women's sexual experiences. In other words, her success in the sack, unlike you, isn't determined by an orgasm. It's determined by the way her partner makes her feel. And second, the problem is you, dude. The solution is simple: talk to her about it, find out what she wants and then give it to her.

Or maybe it's because of your poll questions. Maybe she's sickened by your mis-shaped joint.

 

[Ercole]

At sixteen, you'd better be well-protected if you don't want to be paying child support for the next 18 years.

If you give her what she wants, she'll want more. Find out. Guys can be satisfied with even a lousy, wham-bam lay, but women tend to expect a little more.

You make it sound like affection is a turn-off to you. If it is, you're going to have trouble satisfying women in general. Get into the affection part. Learn what she likes and wat she doesn't like. Learn about foreplay, get better at it. You'll both have a much better time.