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Heres the story.
Me and my gf have been dating for 1 year now. We always had our problems but it was the kind of relationship you new nothing was going to happen, like no matter what we would be there and we would never break up. We were actually going to move in together eventually and get married.
About a few weeks ago we starting having some larger problems. We fight alot and we argue. There was still no trouble because we always fixed it in the end. About 1 week ago I got into an argument with her because i didnt like how she was acting and I said something I never should have. I cant go into detail what I said but she got very upset with that and ever since she has been acting weird.
Everything again started to get better and even she said she felt closer until 2 days ago she called me up and she started saying some things that were pissing me off and i just kept quiet. Out of knowhere she goes you know what this is how its going to be: Im going to smoke, Im going to wear w/e I want, Im going to act how I want, and im going to hang around anyone I want to. She was implying I have no say. She says if you dont agree than dont be with me.
I didnt agree and I saw her today at an event. She was avoiding me and than she said she wanted to talk. I thought I had her back but than out of knowhere she said she needs some time to get over what I said to her. She said shes very angry about it and she said she still wants to be with me and marry me but she needs to be on a break so she can get over this anger she has towards me. I was hesitant at first and she started crying and I agreed. I told her that Ill do this break but I have a time limit and if she doesnt hurry up im not waiting around anymore.
I am very upset and I dont want her doing w/e she pleases. How do i get her to want me back now and how do I get the power in the relationship again. If I dont have the power we will never make it.
Please help me out guys im desperate here!
Me and my gf have been dating for 1 year now. We always had our problems but it was the kind of relationship you new nothing was going to happen, like no matter what we would be there and we would never break up. We were actually going to move in together eventually and get married.
About a few weeks ago we starting having some larger problems. We fight alot and we argue. There was still no trouble because we always fixed it in the end. About 1 week ago I got into an argument with her because i didnt like how she was acting and I said something I never should have. I cant go into detail what I said but she got very upset with that and ever since she has been acting weird.
Everything again started to get better and even she said she felt closer until 2 days ago she called me up and she started saying some things that were pissing me off and i just kept quiet. Out of knowhere she goes you know what this is how its going to be: Im going to smoke, Im going to wear w/e I want, Im going to act how I want, and im going to hang around anyone I want to. She was implying I have no say. She says if you dont agree than dont be with me.
I didnt agree and I saw her today at an event. She was avoiding me and than she said she wanted to talk. I thought I had her back but than out of knowhere she said she needs some time to get over what I said to her. She said shes very angry about it and she said she still wants to be with me and marry me but she needs to be on a break so she can get over this anger she has towards me. I was hesitant at first and she started crying and I agreed. I told her that Ill do this break but I have a time limit and if she doesnt hurry up im not waiting around anymore.
I am very upset and I dont want her doing w/e she pleases. How do i get her to want me back now and how do I get the power in the relationship again. If I dont have the power we will never make it.
Please help me out guys im desperate here!
