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Nathan
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How old are you too? It's hard to tell who's being reasonable and who isn't from your post but you definitely sound a little on the controllig side. If she dresses like a total skank, and that bothers you then you shouldn't be with her but you really have no say in how she dresses. Same thing with who she hangs around. If she still sees an old boyfriend or boyfriends or she hangs out with dudes you don't like, my advice would be to forget about her and go find someone worth a damn. You can't change or control things. You etiehr like who she is or you don't. If she's changing then that's something you may have to come to terms with.
If you expect somethin from her she isn't capable of giving, you are the one who will end up unhappy. ALways make sure to surround yourself with the right TYPES of people so you don't end up in situations where you have differing opinions and no one is going to back down. If you don't agree then dude, you don't agree.
If you expect somethin from her she isn't capable of giving, you are the one who will end up unhappy. ALways make sure to surround yourself with the right TYPES of people so you don't end up in situations where you have differing opinions and no one is going to back down. If you don't agree then dude, you don't agree.
This is my feeling on most things relationship related if you have the same fight more then 3 times with someone about the same issues and have yet to resolve them using all possible avenues to resolves things then MOVE ON you’re not meant to be together.
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lol This guy is in for a rude awakening
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hamstershaver said:
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Darling,
First of all: the fighting does not stop when you move in together. Not trying to bring you down, but giving you the reality and the facts instead.
Fighting is never good. 60% of the couples that separate do it because of small things, the daily bothersome they have to put up with from their partners. It's a very big trap and you have to be very attentive not to fall in it.
Whenever you express some dislike in the relationship, try to do it in a positive manner: "I like what you are wearing but I know I'm not secure enough to go out with you if you look this sexy". And then either do not go or accept what she is wearing.
Now, you have to never again threaten your partner/gf - never say to her that you will tell her family something that will embarass her if she does not do it as you say. Never!
Try to be more accepting of her and more open minded. Relationships are not about power, they are about equality. If you think you have to have power in your relationship and tell your partner what to do, it will never last.
One more thing: fight for your relationship! Don't let it go like this. If this is what you want, try whatever is necessary. Maybe couples counseling? Professional help can save your relationship with her. Try to speak to her (calmly, please!) and propose a plan to work on the relationship together. Very rarely does one's relationship fails because of one of the sides only - you both have to work on your differences.
First of all: the fighting does not stop when you move in together. Not trying to bring you down, but giving you the reality and the facts instead.
Fighting is never good. 60% of the couples that separate do it because of small things, the daily bothersome they have to put up with from their partners. It's a very big trap and you have to be very attentive not to fall in it.
Whenever you express some dislike in the relationship, try to do it in a positive manner: "I like what you are wearing but I know I'm not secure enough to go out with you if you look this sexy". And then either do not go or accept what she is wearing.
Now, you have to never again threaten your partner/gf - never say to her that you will tell her family something that will embarass her if she does not do it as you say. Never!
Try to be more accepting of her and more open minded. Relationships are not about power, they are about equality. If you think you have to have power in your relationship and tell your partner what to do, it will never last.
One more thing: fight for your relationship! Don't let it go like this. If this is what you want, try whatever is necessary. Maybe couples counseling? Professional help can save your relationship with her. Try to speak to her (calmly, please!) and propose a plan to work on the relationship together. Very rarely does one's relationship fails because of one of the sides only - you both have to work on your differences.
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ZenX said:
It means she has already started looking for someone else, but is to insecure to be alone. She will drop your ass ASAP after finding and testing out the new guy
You have to be young. We have all been there
Dump her, and bang as many chicks as possible. In the future you will look back, and be glad that you are not together
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